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SELF ESTEM IS SELF VALUE ! SELF WORTH! SELF RESPECT ! SELF COMFIDENCE! SELF OF BELONWGING ! SELF BELIEVE! SELF EXISTANCE ! SELF CONTROL ! SELF LOVE! SELF
TA LENTS ! SELF PROWD! SELF EQUAL! MEANING THAT WE ARE EQUAL NOT MATTER RICE SKIN COLOR GENDER RELIGION CULTURE NATIONALITY LENGUAGE INTELLIGENCE DESABILITY WEALTH BODY IMAGE! BODY SHAPE BODY HIGH WE ALL HA VE ONE THING IN COMMON! WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS! THERE FORE WE DISERVE LOVE AND RESPECT.

HOW TO BUST YOUR SELF ESTEEM NOT MATTER YOUR GENDER!
BY LOOKING YOUR SELf IN THE MIRROR YOU CAN FIND OUT WHAT IS YOU BEST PART OF YOUR BODY! SO MAKE IT STAND OUT FOR EXAMPLE EYES DRESS IN COLOR TOPS THAT WILLMAKE YOUR EYES STAND OUT TOGETHER WITH MAKE UP LIKE EYE SHADOW MASCARA EYE LINER.
ALWAYS USE WATERPROVE MAKEUP!
TO BUST YOUR SELF ESTEEM YOU NEED TO BUST YOUR SELF IMAGE!
USE LARGE MIRRORS TO SEE YOUR WHOLE BODY
DO NOT LEAVE YOUR PLACE WITH OUT LOOKING YOUR SELF IN THE MIRROR AND MAKING SURE THAT YOU LOOK YOUR BEST! FIND OUT WHAT COLORS SUIT YOU THE BEST! YOU NOT NEED MUCH MONEY TO LOOK YOUR BEST! YOU COULD GO TO SECOND HAND SHOPS ! YOU ALWAYS WILL FIND SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL TO BY THERE AND FOR A LITTLE BIT OF MONEY.
TO CONTINUE IN PART2 OF HOW TO BUST YOUR SELF ESTEEM?

BY BALICIA

TO RPLY

For me, I don't have a lot of pictures of myself that aren't selfies, because I travel a lot, and when I travel, I travel alone

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BECAUSE IN MY OPINION THEY DO SUFFER FROM LOW SELF ESTEEM!
THEY DO NOT LOVE THEMSELVES! THEREFORE THEY DO NOT LOVE OTHERS!
THEY CHOOSE TO SEE THE BAD IN EVERY ONE!
NEGATIVE PEOPLE NEVER GIVE TO ANYONE A COMPLIMENT!
THEY DO SPREAD HATE!
MY ADVICE IS TO SURRENDER YOUR SELF WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE!
PEOPLE WHO WILL LOVE YOU AND NEVER WILL BRING YOU DOWN!

By Balicia





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It's often said, that life is what you make of it.

More than that, how we treat others is actually our legacy.
How we treat others affects them and
often how they also treat others.
These ripples of influence can have profound results over time.

Physics teaches us, that each action has a equal opposite reaction.
However, social sciences demonstrate chain reactions, often
recognized in trends or even mass hysteria.
Random acts of kindness can ultimately be magnified over time,
resulting in powerful positive change.
Sometimes karma even pays us and others back well.

Unfortunately, none of us gets out of life alive.

With all that as a preface, I'm asking you to give a little bit of yourself
in a good cause to help someone else.
It's really not too much to do. Indeed, it might bring YOU joy to do so.
Have you ever smiled at someone and saw them smile back ? :)
It's a good thing.

There's a little boy dying of a mitochondrial disease.
It is terminal. There is no cure. Eventually, it will kill him.
The disease robs him of his energy and one day his heart
and his life will succumb to it.
He might make it to his 15th birthday in August.
He has one wish. To receive 100,000 birthday cards before he dies.
Each one inspires him to hang in there a little it more.
His name is Jacob Priestley and his address is;
P.O. Box 855
Queen City, AZ 85142 USA

If you can find it within your heart and budget, send him a
birthday card with some kind words, like "thinking of you",
some encouraging words like, "Each day we wake up is a wonderful gift" a nice kids joke, or maybe a hand drawn
Star Wars scene, or something else a 14/15 year old boy might enjoy.

Here's the link for his story;




And here's the link for the song - 'Give a little bit'



Feel free to copy my blog and post it wherever you feel it might help.

Have a terrific Thursday !

Jim

World's oldest blogger tries virtual reality

I moaned and whined about my last job but in reality I meant it more as a chapter in my life that didn't work out and I moved on.

I filed for unemployment and it appears that I have won my case. However, the best bet is to look around, not only because your required to, but because I am a firm believer in keeping busy. I refuse to sit at home living a sedentary life hanging out in my front porch watching the neighbors drink and smoke their money away.

I was checking the books out in the library when I looked up and saw this page, or you could call it a bulletin too, with a bunch of little snippets with a phone number. People usually use this style of ad for renting rooms or something like that. I read the bulletin and it was an offer for people that wanted to work with Seniors and young people with, I think, learning problems. The ad offered a small stipend, paid lunches and mileage.The stipend is not taxed and does not count against any other monies such as SSI. I thought it was a "scam" maybe but then I saw that it was affiliated with the University of Northern Arizona. I took the bait.

I called the number and a Rep came by with paper work galore. I filled all the forms out and within a few days the lady, one named Dorothy, came by with a form for me to get a physical exam. I think I have been accepted because Dorothy has given me some advice and said I would be on a training program. I think the visits with Dorothy counted alot because it looks positive.

There are Seniors that need a visit, a way to get to the store, someone to drive them around in their car for doctor visits and other appointments. Part of the duties also require that you read to these people. Feed them their meals and just meet with young people.

I am looking forward to this. And i hope that I am accepted!!

Is there a center for the longing that I've felt for years? Is there a place I must go, or journey I must take; perhaps a lesson still to be learned? What can guide me if not my own intuition? How can I follow a path that I don't lay before me? So many questions, such a seemingly short period to recognize the extent of which my actions will benefit my comfort level.. How can I express myself in the manner I wish to? Let alone, to whom? Each other that I confide in loosely creates the whole which is my external opinion center. Alone is efficient yet lacking of purpose.. as is a shared soul I suppose.. all just a temp adjustment to relax on a different level of active responsibility. For either yourself or both you and partner. Lost is my name and forgotten my last.. or so it feels when thought about..

Thought it was that my equal had found me, distance being the only boundary; yet to know this in truth I cannot. Separated by time and space I wander aimlessly in hope of being awakened to my calling, that which is definite and precise.. The goal has fluctuated in the path that leads to it, and yet it is still one in the same..Love.. the only comfort that allows me to flourish. The guidance that once drove me to step back and create my life rather than simply live with the class the world had selected for me. That must be my divine inspiration, the end result of acceptance to the utmost extreme which I so foolishly lost.

Yet with this realization now apparent, it reveals that I have been waiting this whole time since admittance to the realm of love, to find it once more. One final time, the search may be my end, would it then be worth it? Even if the life ahead is only more time spent simply waiting? Alone in my attempt to share my endless compassion for another that will accept it.. It frightens me, the thought of being a lover and having no outlet to express my truest self.. I am awkward because I withhold my fullest emotions as if reserved for the lover I don't currently have.. My potential misplaced and unheard, merely forgotten before its ever witnessed.

Appreciation, trust, perhaps respect, these are the forms of fuel I run solely off of whilst I am without a stabilizer such as love to intensify the flames of willpower. Friends hold me together, aside from their knowledge in the part they play within my life, they are the keystone which keeps it all running as smoothly as they perceive it is. This vessel which is seen as the embodiment of me. I live for them now more than ever.. I share my ability openly to all their appreciative needs. I do what they need to be done to the best of my ability. I'm glad to help, as are they to receive it.

I only mean good for all, and yet sadly.. few will ever understand the full extent of which I strive to achieve this on a daily basis. I am what I am, what I become is determined solely by the hand of love & it's essence before me. Until then I will wander.. down which roads no-one knows.

As always, the beginning follows the end just as the night follows the morning. Little is consequence aside from the absence of common sense among the masses and a total loss of definable structure within the system held in place only by the image/tradition the people blissfully hold dear. It's not the new car you have, the house, the job, the assets and material wealth you have,.. real wealth of life is what is done with it. Who has been inspired by you, what still stands/exists/lives because of your presence. Life is the defining moment when you (your soul) has the chance to say what is on your agenda, do what is in your own personal nature, create beyond what you ever have experienced into the physical world. There is nothing left that is unreasonable to assume once your limit's threshold has been set adrift. The ramp has been placed before you, the crowd quiets, your heart races as time slows to a stop; you no longer are thinking with your body's physical mind (brain). Now you have arrived to a place of action where time flows in a less direct manner and active ability is more direct as well as more naturally fluid. This state of flow allows for a more advanced method of performing any action with the body. No interrupt or delay in acting on an idea, seeing as there is no obvious thoughts on the surface at this time; instead intention is king. A goal is now a reality if put into action, no hesitation, lack of understanding or worry of outcome. The body becomes a tool to print ideas, a true vessel to inspire progress. At this point a personal singularity has been reached in which the initiate now possesses the ability to complete that which is desired. These states of flow forgetfully hold such virtues with the common man; they who find themselves in such a state only to shake themselves out of it as though it were counter-intuitive to embrace it...

Following my footsteps in reverse I journey to search for the dreams in which will guide me forward, onward down the path which is mine in truth. As doubt fills my mind, laughter fills my heart, and so forth joy spills from my soul. I linger for safety, for comfort in the thorns, though they may be, filled with angry storms. As an old friend warns, not to seek that which the dreams, fail to speak. For the temptations draw in the weak, with short lived pleasures and negative after effects, simply to deceive & misguide from the honest vibration inside. As a saw guides itself deeper into its target goal, so must I, dive deeper into my soul. Answers clear of bias are found nowhere outside the questioning mind, the most complete perspective is within the inner multiverse, for it is comprised of all the facets of the self, simultaneously.

I read once that best love awakens your soul!

I was thinking about the phrase and after giving a deep thought ...... ...faith and with the right people wakes my soul.

What is your take on awakening of soul?

Hi all