Our experience(s) in dating here at CS or anywhere
Maybe some of us on here have anything to share about our journey in finding the "one".Considering all the fake profiles, scammers they are called, what truly is our chances of finding him/her on this site? Or anywhere for that matter.
I have met and found whom I thought was the one 9 years ago here. Although our distance was more than 7,000 miles apart we didn't get discouraged because what we felt from the first skype was so strong and wonderful that we didn't think of any hurdles we had to face.
Anyways I went to his place about three times and he came to my place about two times. To cut the story short, for me, it was the most interesting, adventurous and wonderful part of my life.
I read somewhere that the difficulty of meeting a real partner here isn't as easy as meeting them in family gatherings, church or the conventional and normal introduction before the web. What's with all of those mentally crazy, drug addicts, or simply players that are not who they claim they are. Married pretending to be single, and more discouraging characters which by the time you find out, has already caused you a lot of emotional roller coaster.
Well for me, I am no longer looking. I'm way past that. But meeting good friends both male or female, to me is a plus.
What about you? Please feel free to share your stories if you want. Maybe we can all learn from it.
Note: I know about six couples who have met here, still married and happy. A couple from NZ and India, From Northern Thailand and England (my best friends, he passed away , blessed his soul). From Philippines and NZ, From NY and England, From France and CH, and also our very own Mimi from Malaysia now happily living in Nebraska. The first three couples I met them 8 years ago still very happily married.
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What about the voice Lee?
I need a voice to your lovely pic?
hey green fingers...show me the pics
He's not Elon Musk!
Myself | just now
He's not Elon Musk!
Everyone I met, save one, was in one way or another totally wrong for me. I'm a bit more shy these years about it.
Everyone I met, save one, was in one way or another totally wrong for me. I'm a bit more shy these years about it.
Everyone I met, save one, was in one way or another totally wrong for me. I'm a bit more shy these years about it.
no need to talk about being undesirable...instead talk about your good qualities...your interests...your ambitions...how you relate to others...the kind things you might have done for others...a bit of charm of course is useful and knowing when to compliment a woman.
some women like a bit of teasing...like a man of mystery...a man who stands out from the rest...cause he is not telling her all she desires to know and she is thinking about him...desiring him...desperate to know more
no need to talk about being undesirable...instead talk about your good qualities...your interests...your ambitions...how you relate to others...the kind things you might have done for others...a bit of charm of course is useful and knowing when to compliment a woman.
some women like a bit of teasing...like a man of mystery...a man who stands out from the rest...cause he is not telling her all she desires to know and she is thinking about him...desiring him...desperate to know more
In the eyes of a ranger,
The unsuspecting stranger
Had better know the truth of wrong from right.!
I dare you.
I dare you.
I've met some lovely people here...
I've met some wonderful people here...
But...all long distance ones.
And I haven't dated anyone, here or anywhere else.
Not in this reality/dimension anyway.
I've met some lovely people here...
I've met some wonderful people here...
But...all long distance ones.
And I haven't dated anyone, here or anywhere else.
Not in this reality/dimension anyway.
Why should I be missing something?
Recently I have been casually dating [my choice ] a nice guy, sadly he is younger than me by about 10 years.
I don't know if anyone else feels he same way but after the lockdowns and living alone as I do I have found it hard to re adjust to normal socialising. The older I get, even though I say not looking, the younger the men get and saying age is just a number. I disagree. 60s is fine but I am still very young in my head if that makes sense. I fully understand you wanting to enjoy life without constraints of a relationship and at the moment, friends and meeting up for coffee and chat and laughs is what I am enjoying, also getting in some courses for the Autumn hopefully.
In Ireland we have a saying ' A watched kettle never boils ' and that is so true, you stand beside it and it takes forever , the same with relationships. just when you are not looking somebody could come in to your life.
Alas if we are not happy in our own selves we have nothing to bring to a relationship and needing to be in a relationship to be happy is not a good foundation and makes us more co dependent.
We began corresponding and video dating in November. He arrived last month for my birthday, and has extended his stay. We are discussing marriage. He is selling his Colorado home to relocate to Washington.
I never thought that in my 70s I could fall in love, but it has happened.
For anyone sincerely looking for love and companionship, never give up. And good luck to you.
Why should I be missing something?
So I'm truly interested to hear from someone who hasn't dated anyone
I really hope things work out and I am sure they will.
I find when you are open and friendly men gravitate to you more than when all dressed up and on guard.
I hope that makes sense. I have met really nice men in the Supermarket who stop to chat and they are attractive, look about 65 or 70, but when you meet somebody on that level you are more yourself.
Enjoy your new found romance.
We began corresponding and video dating in November. He arrived last month for my birthday, and has extended his stay. We are discussing marriage. He is selling his Colorado home to relocate to Washington.
I never thought that in my 70s I could fall in love, but it has happened.
For anyone sincerely looking for love and companionship, never give up. And good luck to you.
Good luck Spot.