Our experience(s) in dating here at CS or anywhere

Maybe some of us on here have anything to share about our journey in finding the "one".

Considering all the fake profiles, scammers they are called, what truly is our chances of finding him/her on this site? Or anywhere for that matter.

I have met and found whom I thought was the one 9 years ago here. Although our distance was more than 7,000 miles apart we didn't get discouraged because what we felt from the first skype was so strong and wonderful that we didn't think of any hurdles we had to face.
Anyways I went to his place about three times and he came to my place about two times. To cut the story short, for me, it was the most interesting, adventurous and wonderful part of my life.

I read somewhere that the difficulty of meeting a real partner here isn't as easy as meeting them in family gatherings, church or the conventional and normal introduction before the web. What's with all of those mentally crazy, drug addicts, or simply players that are not who they claim they are. Married pretending to be single, and more discouraging characters which by the time you find out, has already caused you a lot of emotional roller coaster.

Well for me, I am no longer looking. I'm way past that. But meeting good friends both male or female, to me is a plus.

What about you? Please feel free to share your stories if you want. Maybe we can all learn from it.

Note: I know about six couples who have met here, still married and happy. A couple from NZ and India, From Northern Thailand and England (my best friends, he passed away , blessed his soul). From Philippines and NZ, From NY and England, From France and CH, and also our very own Mimi from Malaysia now happily living in Nebraska. The first three couples I met them 8 years ago still very happily married.

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hey green fingers...show me the picslaugh
Charming, it's not enough for a closure. Is it?
or the women wererolling on the floor laughing
you can show me yours too...if you wantwow grin
confused you lost me there Lee dunno
Now come on, keep the hunt strong and serious. laugh frustrated
photos of your gardenwow
I will try to download some. But I will private mail you.
Oh la la..doh
He's not Elon Musk!laugh
Lee this is my garden.
oh lalarolling on the floor laughing laugh
thumbs up
Thanks Lee.
I'm not here to date, I am just here to make some friends. I dated from online before but probably never will again.
You sound like you had a very unpleasant experience on dating site Track. There's a little bit of success, but I know most are frauds on here
The truth is, you don't really know who you are talking to. Its easy to put on a face online but its not truly you. You can be anything you want online but when you meet up in person, that becomes a whole lot harder. I spent my 20s dating online and each time, there was something that happened. I made the mistake of trying to be something I wasn't early on and learned fast that don't work hence why I am so open now about my less than desirable qualities.

Everyone I met, save one, was in one way or another totally wrong for me. I'm a bit more shy these years about it.
You're young Track, I'm sure there's going to be someone that will work for you.
people's perceptions of you online...don't tend to be the same...when in a face to face situation..an introvert can appear to be can extrovert online and many lies could be told.

no need to talk about being undesirable...instead talk about your good qualities...your interests...your ambitions...how you relate to others...the kind things you might have done for others...a bit of charm of course is useful and knowing when to compliment a woman.

some women like a bit of teasing...like a man of mystery...a man who stands out from the rest...cause he is not telling her all she desires to know and she is thinking about him...desiring him...desperate to know more
I hope he'll read this Lee wave
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My friend from England married my friend from Northern Thailand. What a beautiful couple. Loved so much each other. sad flower
maybe other men will tooconfused good advice is good advicegrin
Yes, and hopefully each one will find what they're seeking for.
hello there, well i am not looking for " the one " or some ting like that, because there is no one for me out there or here...i do not believe in love, i am only here for the blog and friend's, like you and other. I think there are some good people around here, and i can learn some and i can teach some. So i cold say i am here for the information, for the knowledge. Bud i wish good luck to the people out there ( here ) looking for " the one " bouquet cheers hug peace teddybear
Yonik you already have done your part in teaching me about strength and courage. Meeting friends like you, Daniela and others is a blessing. If there's anyone I wouldn't wish to be around me, that too. I've spotted them on here, about four or five. So I am learning. Thanks Yonik. wave
thank you, and i am glad i can help bouquet teddybear
Carry on Yonik. wave
Now this is a very fitting topic on sharing about our experiences in dating here or anywhere. Come on people grab your seats and share.

I dare you. heart wings lips
I've met some interesting people here...
I've met some lovely people here...
I've met some wonderful people here...

But...all long distance ones.

And I haven't dated anyone, here or anywhere else.

Not in this reality/dimension anyway.
You're absolutely missing something dear lady but whatever makes you happy I'm happy for you. teddybear
Dear Lindsy,
Why should I be missing something? dunno
Linsyjones ~ only come on CS blogs now. I did have a long relationship and I probably wouldn't get that type of electricity and having so much in common and such happiness in a relationship again. I met him on C.S. He was not on the blogs. I met another lovely guy on C.S. again not on Blogs.
Recently I have been casually dating [my choice ] a nice guy, sadly he is younger than me by about 10 years.
I don't know if anyone else feels he same way but after the lockdowns and living alone as I do I have found it hard to re adjust to normal socialising. The older I get, even though I say not looking, the younger the men get and saying age is just a number. I disagree. 60s is fine but I am still very young in my head if that makes sense. I fully understand you wanting to enjoy life without constraints of a relationship and at the moment, friends and meeting up for coffee and chat and laughs is what I am enjoying, also getting in some courses for the Autumn hopefully.
In Ireland we have a saying ' A watched kettle never boils ' and that is so true, you stand beside it and it takes forever , the same with relationships. just when you are not looking somebody could come in to your life.
Alas if we are not happy in our own selves we have nothing to bring to a relationship and needing to be in a relationship to be happy is not a good foundation and makes us more co dependent.bouquet
I have met my partner here. After a 47-year marriage and three years of widowhood, I didn't think it could happen. But it has.

We began corresponding and video dating in November. He arrived last month for my birthday, and has extended his stay. We are discussing marriage. He is selling his Colorado home to relocate to Washington.

I never thought that in my 70s I could fall in love, but it has happened.

For anyone sincerely looking for love and companionship, never give up. And good luck to you.
Actually my dear, I've not met anyone who's never dated anyone. I'm so intrigued and very interested to hear how you feel from the rest of us. I've personally dated about three just from CS and quite adventurous and very wonderful. Outside of CS about 10 different nice guys and two marriages. Well, that's my true story.

So I'm truly interested to hear from someone who hasn't dated anyone cheers
Myrta ~ Congrats bouquet So happy for you. No doubt about it, falling in love and all the romance that goes with it is terrific. I am 71, I guess in Ireland, i feel many men my age seem quite 'old' in their thinking but that does not say there are not others out there who are young in their head and personality.
I really hope things work out and I am sure they will.
I find when you are open and friendly men gravitate to you more than when all dressed up and on guard.
I hope that makes sense. I have met really nice men in the Supermarket who stop to chat and they are attractive, look about 65 or 70, but when you meet somebody on that level you are more yourself.
Enjoy your new found romance. smitten
Wow Myrtabouquet congratulations. You're one blessed and a lucky one. May you both enjoy your new love. heart wings wine
I was thinking about...a headline for my dating profile...unvaccinated man...seeks unvaccinated womanconfused
That's a very interesting one Lee. Catchy and specific. Good luck wave
It is heartwarming to know that many have found their friends and/or partner in this website. I thought it is a hopeless case considering how many users consider location and ethnicity as criteria for making friends with.

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It's quite a very exciting place for some.

Good luck Spot.wave
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