To better understand each other...
This should be a fun exercise. It is only intended to make each gender better understand each other.Okay...to better understand each other, name something(s) that men do bad to women...and now vice versa...name something bad that women do to men.
Maybe we can better understand each other's arguments about each other.
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I deliver for a living, and had 3 large boxes up 4 floors without elevator today.
I hinted to the girls (all girl workplace) that I could do with some lifting help.
Not only was each box over 50 punds but they were 4 feet long.
Ignored....
If this was a male dominated place 8 guys
would jog down to see if they could help.
I'm certan some of these ladies is to be found
at a gym a few hours later lifting weights
I deliver for a living, and had 3 large boxes up 4 floors without elevator today.
I hinted to the girls (all girl workplace) that I could do with some lifting help.
Not only was each box over 50 punds but they were 4 feet long.
Ignored....
If this was a male dominated place 8 guys
would jog down to see if they could help.
I'm certan some of these ladies is to be found
at a gym a few hours later lifting weights
One wanted my autograph across her forearm..
One wanted my autograph across her forearm..
Then in the middle of the night the woman...well you know the rest.
You decide where the blame lies. I think it sort of balances out.
very annoying
As for what bad things women do to men
Can't answer that as I wasn't aware we did
I do not have a lot of time at the moment but I did want to address one comment here quickly.
Friendship...very smart of you to ask why?
There is a great answer for that question...but that answer will come much later after some additional responses. Until then, I would not be concerned if I were you on how to structure your response. I would just recommend you give one that you truly think or feel is correct.
Hmm...so a female not willing to help out a fellow human being. By the sounds of it, what you were carrying was quite heavy. Perhaps they felt they were not capable. But, I think we can probably dig up examples as well of men not helping women out in similar situations. So, I would conclude that this is a two way street....and not just a bad quality of a woman to a man.
As to the toilet seat...as it has been mentioned, this is also a two way street. Men leave it up and women leave it down.
That goes the same way for women too...where a man only perceives them as a friend...but yet they are persisting the relationship goes a bit further than that.
I think we can both agree that both men and women lie...most likely equally as well, but I will say women are geniuses at twisting the truth.
Women will most likely be obsessed with a past partner...and "ex" they feel they made a mistake about leaving and that might come back to haunt a marriage down the road. So, the more men women have slept with, the more chances and ex...or exes...might come into play in a future relationship.
That goes the same way for women too...where a man only perceives them as a friend...but yet they are persisting the relationship goes a bit further than that.
I can only tell it from a woman's side.
I think what women might do to make men mad...
give them the impression everything is about them... as in, her side only
I knew a lady who was a witch, pretty witch I might add. She wanted me to come over on Halloween night and be her broom-STICK. Whatever that meant.
Don't underestimate that witch, she might put a spell on ya
~Red aka Enigma
I knew a lady who was a witch, pretty witch I might add. She wanted me to come over on Halloween night and be her broom-STICK. Whatever that meant.
otherwise you'd be over my knee by now
The things men do bad to women? The list is long, and they'll tell you Johnny! Everyday they'll tell you!
That is a great point...about women making it only about them.
You know, in the days of traditional relationships, it was only about the women. Honestly, as it should be...it should be about the woman and the child if there is a child involved.
Now days, with feminism, traditional relationships are far and few between. Men are still stuck in the traditional role they play in relationships, where many women these days are no longer traditional.
So, if a woman is still expecting to be treated as a traditional woman and she is not contributing to the relationship in a traditional way....you can see where she having her cake and eating it too comes into play.
Men need to understand this aspect of modern women.
Women do self-project. They see the world only from their perspective and they project that perspective on to men. I would agree, that women are more intuitive than men...and can pick up on social cues much better than men. Men need to be told most of the time.
It is said that 20% of men are sleeping with 80% of the women. With that being said, there has to be at least some manipulation on the man's part in order to bed that many different women. So, I think that and some of the other traits you mention are also shared by men.
When it comes to nagging...
I was actually with a woman for 13 years and she did no nagging at all.
That is a great point...about women making it only about them.
You know, in the days of traditional relationships, it was only about the women. Honestly, as it should be...it should be about the woman and the child if there is a child involved.
Now days, with feminism, traditional relationships are far and few between. Men are still stuck in the traditional role they play in relationships, where many women these days are no longer traditional.
So, if a woman is still expecting to be treated as a traditional woman and she is not contributing to the relationship in a traditional way....you can see where she having her cake and eating it too comes into play.
Men need to understand this aspect of modern women.
but when you say traditional men & women, it can go off in all sorts of directions.
Men/women which ever, when respecting one another, understanding shouldn't be too far behind.
It is said that 20% of men are sleeping with 80% of the women.
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What the ???? Sleeping? They should be getting some romantic action! Not sleeping. Sheesh!