To better understand each other...

Ok, today was a classic situation.
I deliver for a living, and had 3 large boxes up 4 floors without elevator today.
I hinted to the girls (all girl workplace) that I could do with some lifting help.
Not only was each box over 50 punds but they were 4 feet long.
Ignored....
If this was a male dominated place 8 guys
would jog down to see if they could help.

I'm certan some of these ladies is to be found
at a gym a few hours later lifting weights

--- I think that's it Red!
One wanted my autograph across her forearm..

Men leave the toilet seat up and I can’t think of anything bad women do

lol, I let her go this time... but next time she drinks tea while I'm sweating my a** off I might go down on my knees to.... have a breather

Women leave the toilet seat down, and when men get home after the pub they leave the light off so not to disturb the sleeping woman and they splash the seat.
Then in the middle of the night the woman...well you know the rest.

You decide where the blame lies. I think it sort of balances out.

Point taken...

I'll jump into the deep end.

Men do to women...abuse

Women do to men....lie

Hello Everyone so far.

I do not have a lot of time at the moment but I did want to address one comment here quickly.

Friendship...very smart of you to ask why?

There is a great answer for that question...but that answer will come much later after some additional responses. Until then, I would not be concerned if I were you on how to structure your response. I would just recommend you give one that you truly think or feel is correct.

Okay. There have been a couple of responses that say that men abuse women. That is a true statement. Yes, there are men out there that abuse women. However, it is said that women are more likely to abuse their partner and that abuse is not reciprocated. But, most of the time the couples are abusing each other.

Hello Grand,

Hmm...so a female not willing to help out a fellow human being. By the sounds of it, what you were carrying was quite heavy. Perhaps they felt they were not capable. But, I think we can probably dig up examples as well of men not helping women out in similar situations. So, I would conclude that this is a two way street....and not just a bad quality of a woman to a man.

Hello Ray,

As to the toilet seat...as it has been mentioned, this is also a two way street. Men leave it up and women leave it down.

Hello Merlot,

If a woman is deliberately sabotaging the toilet seat, well...deliberately is a pretty nasty trait...however, they may perceive it as the man deliberately sabotaging the seat if they "accidentally" piss on it. I will still rule this as a two-way street...but the deliberate act of exacting vengeance on another should be looked at and assessed to determine one's character.

Hello Itchy,

That goes the same way for women too...where a man only perceives them as a friend...but yet they are persisting the relationship goes a bit further than that.

Hello Mbk,

I think we can both agree that both men and women lie...most likely equally as well, but I will say women are geniuses at twisting the truth.

Hello CH,

Hmmm....about abuse, I have provided a link that the lady hosting her podcast "show", indicates that abuse is equal among couples...to the point where she states "factually" that women are more likely to abuse their men.

Now the real point about women mistreating their man for p*nis size.

I don't know if you remember, but I brought up back in the day about women having many previous partners....and something about them having a shark mentality with blood in the water...type of example.

This link that I shared, the same women also addresses women who have a "high body count" and the chances of a successful marriage because of that high body count. If I recall, a women who has slept with over 5 men will have a very low percent chance of being happy in a marriage after 10 years; whereas, a woman with a much fewer body count will have and 80% chance of a happy marriage after 10 years.

The reason for this...is a woman will compare her man...through the years....to the previous men she has been with and will eventually hold it against her husband for these shortcomings. And....guess what? If a woman values a long p*nis...and her husband is lacking a bit in that department...compared to other men she has been with...well.

That is why when her "body count" is even higher...lets say she has been with over 40 men...the chance of a long lasting marriage with her will most likely go down.

Not to mention,

Women will most likely be obsessed with a past partner...and "ex" they feel they made a mistake about leaving and that might come back to haunt a marriage down the road. So, the more men women have slept with, the more chances and ex...or exes...might come into play in a future relationship.

...oops....for some reason I am using "and" instead of "an"

Johnny,

some women have ESPN, they assume a guy knows what they're thinking. Like when they got all hot and bothered and ready for romantic action. They think the guy should know this and deliver - immediately. They just can't wait!!! But sometimes the guy wants to watch a sports game or maybe he's tired from work, or drunk from drinking too much, and can't deliver the romantic action on that moments notice.

Butt, but then, most guys are usually always ready for romantic action at a moments notice. They can't help it. It's their nature to be ready to get into action like rabbits do.

Sheesh! The things people do for lust, err I mean love.

An, I mean And, An another thing.

I knew a lady who was a witch, pretty witch I might add. She wanted me to come over on Halloween night and be her broom-STICK. Whatever that meant.

Maybe.
That never happens no.

Some women can be manipulative, controlling, conniving, and nag.

The things men do bad to women? The list is long, and they'll tell you Johnny! Everyday they'll tell you!

Hello Itchy,

That is a great point...about women making it only about them.

You know, in the days of traditional relationships, it was only about the women. Honestly, as it should be...it should be about the woman and the child if there is a child involved.

Now days, with feminism, traditional relationships are far and few between. Men are still stuck in the traditional role they play in relationships, where many women these days are no longer traditional.

So, if a woman is still expecting to be treated as a traditional woman and she is not contributing to the relationship in a traditional way....you can see where she having her cake and eating it too comes into play.

Men need to understand this aspect of modern women.

Hello Robert....nice seeing/hearing from you buddy by the way.

Women do self-project. They see the world only from their perspective and they project that perspective on to men. I would agree, that women are more intuitive than men...and can pick up on social cues much better than men. Men need to be told most of the time.

Grand... ...in my world, sometimes it happens.

Hello Loh,

It is said that 20% of men are sleeping with 80% of the women. With that being said, there has to be at least some manipulation on the man's part in order to bed that many different women. So, I think that and some of the other traits you mention are also shared by men.

When it comes to nagging...


I was actually with a woman for 13 years and she did no nagging at all.