Women can drive men crazy.
LITERALLY!PRAYERS TO A FRIEND.
Williamston, Michigan, USA
PRAYERS TO A FRIEND.
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Where does one turn?
Understanding....is key....
Letting it destroy you as a person is not.
....love & purpose
It might be too late for me. When Kissy Myas broke up with me, I became exclusive or reclusive, and I found purpose in -->
Whew!
Forgive my gloominess on this evening....a real close friend of mine is in a truly terrible place in his life. To a point where it is even difficult to help him or even offer him advice. I heard the song posted in the OP and it seemed to fit his life.
He met a woman on here. ...of all places.
Got married....and divorced several times to her....bent over backwards for her...
only to be hated.
when he loved her dearly
However when the heart's strings are played. They can remove all rational of the mind.
Especially, when the strings are playing pretty music.
Things happen. Sometimes you think you really know someone, and then you may marry them or get really involved with them, only to find that they later turn against you.
I've known people who really got depressed to the point of wanting to end their life over a relationship they thought was going really well.
They say Think Positive. But sometimes that Thinking Positive can bring a person way down, when they had so much faith in someone they loved so much and then it didn't work out no matter what they did.
Just got to find the strength to move on and know. The right one is still out there, and a person finds that right one, all that heartache from the past will have been worth the wait.
Right now it is really dark in his life...hopefully he can find a tiny speck of light.
Man only has so many places to turn.
About two years later, the guy met a girl at a restaurant in Vegas. They met one night and maybe had one other date, then the guy asked her to marry him. They really didn't know each other so well, but she said Yes.
They got married right away in Vegas, and their relationship, their marriage worked out great. They've been together for many years since.
Sometimes, when the life feels like it's crumbling to a bitter end, there could be something great and wonderful coming the next day, the next hour or very very soon. Just gotta hang in there.
It is weird how life works.
Thank you Robert....I just hope the message of hope, support, and love reaches him.
Thank you all for sending your helping/concerning/loving messages.
I think maybe just let him have some time to himself, then maybe reach out to him and just listen to all he has to get out and say to someone. Then, maybe get him to go out for a walk, ride a bike on a bike trail. Some kind of exercise, something to try and keep the mind off the problems and onto other things. The exercise will help the circulation in his body and mind, and will help him to feel a little better, and eventually better.
Most of all, being a friend and a good listener will help a lot.
Forgive my gloominess on this evening....a real close friend of mine is in a truly terrible place in his life. To a point where it is even difficult to help him or even offer him advice. I heard the song posted in the OP and it seemed to fit his life.
He met a woman on here. ...of all places.
Got married....and divorced several times to her....bent over backwards for her...
only to be hated.
when he loved her dearly
I was in a similar situation and decided to move forward after I read a book. It was a science fiction book, but it made me think life can and will get better in the future. I also had a wonderful friend who helped me through hard times. You can be that person to your friend.
I know it's crazy to change my thinking from reading a science fiction book. God works in mysterious ways...
I was hanging after this woman for 3 damn years- and this was not like when I was 20
it was just now! I'll do the short version: she gave me positive signals- but not following up
with real initiative. She ofcourse had all her reasons ready: a guy involved she don't want, some monay lended from him to a house she can not lose cos a daughter live there still (waiting for her to move out) and all types of excuses including always being busy. Now 3 years later:
"Ozzy you gotta go! don't wait any longer for me, it's never gonna be us. Find someone else"
Suppose I was only a flirt for her while being stuck in her own life.
lol
But I'd say it's actually somewhat better here at cs.
U see here they are losers like us (lol)
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No, they can hurt you too like happened to your friend. Sorry to hear.
I was hanging after this woman for 3 damn years- and this was not like when I was 20
it was just now! I'll do the short version: she gave me positive signals- but not following up
with real initiative. She ofcourse had all her reasons ready: a guy involved she don't want, some monay lended from him to a house she can not lose cos a daughter live there still (waiting for her to move out) and all types of excuses including always being busy. Now 3 years later:
"Ozzy you gotta go! don't wait any longer for me, it's never gonna be us. Find someone else"
Suppose I was only a flirt for her while being stuck in her own life.
lol
Women don't always know what they want. Ditto of course men. But 3 years is a long time to dither.
Women don't always know what they want. Ditto of course men. But 3 years is a long time to dither.
When I am able to it frees me somewhat of the worst despair.
All I can say is love stinks sometimes...