It is not my fault
There is this guy. A guy I know rather well. All of his life he has been the wild type....you know, the "bad boy."I knew this guy all my life. He had been in countless accidents and smashed countless cars. Most had been just with his reckless driving and far exceeding the speed limit. I remember one of those nights. "Don't worry, I am always in control," he would tell me. But, I knew this was not true. If he was always in control, how come he was involved in so many accidents? Well, this night, I had no choice but to ride with him. Wouldn't you know it, he had to show off. Yes, we ended up hitting a tree. Thank God, we were only doing about 25 miles an hour when he tried to make that 90 degree corner. Hey...."that was not my fault"....seemed to be his favorite words.
One time, he never told me what happen to the young child riding in the passenger seat on the lad's way to school. He was doing in excess of 100 miles and hour and broadsided the young boy's car. Representing himself in court, he was able to get himself out of any wrong-doing. Hey, "it was not my fault."
Now that he is a father, of three children, with the oldest being in the military. "Hey dad," the eldest son would say. I need $500. I was riding in a buddy's car. I opened the door and it was accidentally dented. "Dad, it was not my fault." Only two weeks later, father gets another phone call. "Dad, I wrecked my bike." A brand new motorcycle the son had for less than a month. "A guy swerved in front of me....it was not my fault."
I will not say if this story is true or fiction. But, it might be something to ponder on.
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Maybe the little kid in the car accident (assuming he died) came back in this life as his son, in order to teach him a lesson???
Always keep in the speed limit, drive carefully, remember other people are on this journey of life also and wish to reach their destinations.. AND live to be a GOOD EXAMPLE for your chidren to follow as they walk in your footsteps
Good blog.. makes you stop and think!!
Angel seems to agree with me here?
Looking at it on a spiritual point of view, I would say it was karmic and the boy has come to teach his dad a lesson..
Yes. I think that could be part of it. It seems as life has its ways of holding people responsible for their actions.
Thank you for your post.
I am not sure I have heard that song before.
......but, it is very fitting for this story. :)
Thank you for your post and for adding additional learning elements. That is why I wanted to post this blog. There was so much that could be learned from others' mistakes in life with this story.
I am happy to hear you appreciated it.
I cannot say whether it is true or not....sorry.
But, certainly I feel karma is holding the now father responsible for his actions. Maybe in time, the father will see the errors of his earlier ways in life. His son seems to be following his footsteps. Maybe the father cannot see his faults within himself; but, he may very well see them in his son.
You know, I got a sneaking feeling that the father is the way he is because he was not shown much love as a child from his parents. But...I don't know and that might be something to blog about in the future.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts Min.
Life can get complicated enough with out someone ,continually laying their sob stories on you. And then you have people who are natural idiots, and you know as well as me , there are no laws against stupidity, I m tired of being a White Knight,
It is unfortunate that the bad boy in this story never accepts blame...or accepts responsibility...call it the Kennedy gene...dare devil behaviour and always an excuse to follow...a lesson for us all...good blog!!
I still believe the karmic issue.
I have known quite a few people who have had this kind of experience where one of their children - or their soul - has come back for some unresolved issue between them.
They had made a "soul contract" to come back together in the next life and "swap" roles.
You may ask how do I know that? Because I do past life regression therapies to sort out such issues that some people have (physical & emotional) and do not find any explanation for it.
So, this story is not unfamiliar to me, if you know what I mean?
Unfortunately not everyone is a good parent or even a good character.
Thank you for your comment. I think most everyone should be held accountable for their actions. I agree, it seems as if this younger generation might be feeling a little too entitled. :) Although, I will say, I have met some very mature young 20 year old people.
The Kennedy gene? I am guessing that is what it is called. :)
Thank you so much for your post.
You know, I really never thought of that...but I certainly believe it is possible. I have seen some weird things in my day that I really do not think any sort of modern science can explain. I am going to look into that.
Thanks so much.
I think you hit the nail on the head....it all stems with good parenting.
I wonder how this new generation is going to be. A lot of families are going through a tough time with divorces, drugs, and financial difficulties. The kids will be witness to all of this.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Johnny, I didnt know you had posted a blog, until just now I saw it. If I had known earlier, then I would have known earlier. lol
Anyways, I dont know what to say about the blog.. it's kind of a dramatic blog, which I have to think about how to comment about it.
hmmm, Im trying to think , but nothing's happening. see -->
Hey, have a good day and night..
Hope all is going great for you.
Looking forward to your upcoming blogs.