Loving one's self
I just had a thought while driving in the car today.I am currently chatting with and in the process of setting up a date with an ex-private dancer. I was asked, what do you like about me? After finding out she is just about done with her college to become a veterinary assistant, I told her that I liked that she was doing something in her life to make herself proud and to love herself.
This got me thinking. I have heard so many times how women can never be happy or you can never please a woman. Lets say a woman is in a relationship with you and she cooks, cleans, pleases you in the sack....etc....what does she really have to be happy with? Yes, some women are happy in relationships like this but some others are not.
It is thought that happiness comes from within. Maybe these women that are thought to of being difficult to please or difficult to make happy, feel they have not accomplished much in life for themselves? Of course, this could go for a man also.
Moral of the story....try to avoid getting into a relationship unless you genuinely feel love or liking for yourself. In addition, a person looking to get into a relationship with another should determine if that person is genuinely happy with themselves.
Just a random thought I had today.
Accept negative outcomes in your life....learn from them....appreciate what you have....and build on that. :)
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Thank you for your post.
Unhappiness is like the buffet. We all share it.
I wonder if somebody sets unrealistic goals for themselves and hence never obtain them. :(
You would think that there is something in somebody's life that keeps them from ever being happy.
I believe this to be the truth!
It is human nature to yearn for companionship. Therefore, like you said, without that companionship there could/should be a feeling of unhappiness.
But, I think different people place different values on different things in their life. For example, I can accept that I am alone and not really put a lot thought on that. Whereas, somebody else can be alone and that is all they think of.
That is kinda what I think.
But...in any case, we would be happier with a companion because it is our human nature.
How about this one? The dress. We import. I request display model but keep dress, you have the remainder.
I don't understand! About her phone number. What about her number?
Seriously, Johnny. You deserve a great woman. I hope you find her soon. I ask the holy people on CS to pray she find her way to you.
I'm not use to my new number...
I have messaged her back already. What I can say is that there are a lot of other single women out there.
To her credit, the six days we chatted she never mentioned anything about a rate.
I have done the same thing also. I have already not even remembered my own number.
Good luck with the new lady!
Wish you all the best on your first date. !!!
I think I am going to need more than luck with the new lady. lol
But we will see. I suppose anything is possible.
Thank you for stopping in and for your post.
Somehow, I do not think the date will materialize. But that is what I thought too, bowling would be a great way to get to know each other better. Maybe the second date could have been a trip to Vegas or something?
Thank you for your comment.
A maid would almost make a perfect partner/mate.
No commitments and no worry about griping about the house not being clean.
Thank you for your comment.
Thank you for sharing your intelligence here. You are right with what you say.
For what happened here, it was a beautiful learning experience for me. But, I never chose to deny the cautions this certain situation posed for me. :)....as I know you know.
but
Aside from how the date turned out, my message from this blog still holds true, I believe.
I appreciate you wisdom.
But in this case, as perhaps many in the past, a person can become so fixated and focused on the negatives or the potential negatives that it may actually prevent somebody from discovering. So, I chose to proceed with an open mind but not throwing caution to the wind. Basically, I was doing my due diligence at every step. In the process, I got to learn a few new things. :)
Thankfully, in this situation, I learned them early on with minimal investment.