Two Left Feet
So....I've met up with my mystery man yet again...I haven't drank a drop of alcohol in years....not because of any alcoholism issues, but only because I like to always be clear headed. Well....last night, not so much
He had taken me out to a local club where I enjoy singing..ohh my, I think I mixed up every single song I did, was definitely comical lol....and I've told this mystery man a million times, I can't dance....I have two left feet. He finally told me last night, he didn't know what that meant...still getting used to some American expressions 
....I've been asked numerous times at this club to dance but I refuse because I'm just horrid on my feet...but last night, we danced. And I will say this, I think it's one step in the right direction towards curing my case of two left feet. There was just him and the music....wasn't sure if it was the alcohol making my head spin, or the company 
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Sure hope it works into something for you. Sounds promising so far.
Enjoy cheers
Great to hear everything is going nice and fun for you.
The last lady I went out with told me I had TWO right feet, and also that I was all hands too.
Sorry Enigma hope we are wrong for your sake, but it looks as if he just squeezes you in
You either want fling, or long term. What is your gut telling you about this man
The story will unfold though hopefully in a good way.
Sorry for putting dampers on what you are having happy time with, but I reckon you have a knowledge deep down and you are not stupid it will surface
I am sorry to burst your bubble. Better if you can find out now, than be like me and fall inlove and then find out.
when some one failed in love
that is different world from real
enjoy the company and movement
~Red
<3 <3
But changing from casual - as in available when it suits him - to a committed relationship - why should he?
I think if you don't talk beforehand about expectations, boundaries etc. they won't change afterwards. If a man wanted to be with me, he made an effort to be with me (and vice versa). If not, I knew the score and didn't go there.
I hope it works out for you, did you tell him how it makes you feel? Does he know the situation makes you feel bad? Does he not take your feelings into consideration?
I've told him how I feel, and he says he feels bad and that it's not fair to me. But his work is very important to him. The first week we were together, he was with me almost every day...because he wanted to be. But in that week, he didn't do his weight training and crossfit for a whole week (which he usually does for 3 hours every morning before work) and he felt so tired every day and was making mistakes in his job, which is critical because he owns his own business and manages another. And this is when the distance started....though we are still together, just few and far between. I give him his space so he can focus on his work.
I am trying, but I also know me. We shall see what time brings.
I really do wish you best of luck Enigma. It's bound to be tough on you when feelings are involved.
Thank you