This Is What She Wanted
Well, as they say, all good things come to an end. And this was a good one. I felt kind of sad when I took her home earlier. She’s leaving today and we said our good-byes. When I met her I thought it would be one or two dates and then good bye. I never dreamed that it would develop into such a pleasant encounter. I will remember her for a long time.Finding a suitable gift for her did not prove such a challenge at all. I must thank Stargazer for giving me the idea. Friday afternoon, after cutting the sketch that she admired so much into a rectangular shape, I left it on the dining room table where she could not miss it. She did not give me the opportunity to offer it to her. She asked for it; the only thing she ever asked from me.
We had it framed Saturday morning and collected it on Monday. I must admit that it looks better with the frame, but I still think the frame is worth more than the sketch. Mind you, it has moved up in value since it ruined a perfectly good panel saw while trimming the edges. It lost some detail at the bottom and the sides in order to get the edges straight. There was some sort of a ditch with some water on the foreground; part of it still visible at the bottom. The size of it is 618mm X 411mm.
The sketch has a rather obscure history. I did it out of boredom, on an irregular shaped piece of scrap asbestos left by the builders, while waiting for the fire to get ready. It took no longer than 30 minutes or so. I used a piece of charcoal from a previous fire to draw it. When the fire was ready, my uncompleted ‘masterpiece’ landed back on the heap of building scrap where it was in the sun, wind and rain for a few months. You can notice the discoloration on the left and top. It still needed plenty of work but it was never intended to survive.
When they eventually came to remove the rubble, my brother-in-law preserved my ‘masterpiece’ for greater honors by putting it in the garage where it stood collecting dust for another two years before a woman from Gauteng noticed it when I brought her home the first time. The rest of it is already told.
I hope it brings her the same sweet memories as her gift brings me when I listen to my music. My gift to her compares poorly with the Bluetooth speakers she bought me but this is what she wanted.
Well, cheer up. If everything go according plan, tomorrow will be Friday.
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My brother-in-law did not do me a favor when he rescued this half-done job. She could have asked for any of my other sketches and I would have given it to her but she wanted this one. At first I thought of completing it but with the fading of the charcoal while outside exposed to the elements, anything new will stand out like a sore thumb.
I would have been much happier if she took one of the other. Let's hope she does not realize it is junk and discard it. I'm going to visit my daughter for a week sometime towards the end of next month and I promised to call on her. We'll see then where she put it up. So much for not maintaining contact.
Eventhough ofcourse my legs are nicer.
So I would say ...make it happen ...we are not gonna live for ever.
But this is me, a woman who doesn´t "like" so many people LOL.
Forget about "perfection" she wanted something made by you, personal, unique, irreplaceable....even if she places it in her wardrobe where just her can see it ...she has a part of you there
Have you ever considered a career in politics of the diplomatic corps. You put that across me co nicely that I almost want to believe it was a masterpiece.
Well there you have it. Maybe we met in a previous life. Or maybe it was two other people.
That is the big misconception of sketching. You never need to draw straight lines. But I don't consider myself as an artist. I have done only one other sketch since this aborted effort and that was almost a year ago. I will sketch only when I'm bored or mildly upset. When I 'm very upset, I chop wood. I can tell you that I have murdered quite a few CS members that way.
Settle up? Dream on Buddy. Do you think I'm going to say no thank you to a year of free boarding and lodging knowing that I can keep myself busy between meals, decorating the walls. Do your worse.
I'm my lawyer tells me I'm looking at a maximum of one year and said I should look for something else to do wrong to increase that to two years. So what can I rip you off with this time?::grin:
I will get back with you, I might need to talk to my Shark Lawyer first
Speak to your lawyer and in the meantime you can loosen that nest egg you have tied up in a bad investment. I'll help you to reinvest your money in a more profitable way.
Yes, she does and the feeling is mutual but with 1600 Km between us and three years to go before she can think about retirement, I cannot see anything coming from it. I'm just not made for LDRs.
Her ex-husband made the biggest mistake of his life when she slipped through his fingers. I would have hung on if not for the distance and time involved.
Congrats!
And it good that you two had a nice Valentine's Day.
That's My Bob.....
I was just kidding.
@Catfoot
I am sure about your mother.
What I meant was for the ones who got your mother's collections.
Im glad all went well.
Its a pity she doesnt live closer.
But as u are anxious to see her again when u go to visit your daughter....things may develop further...who knows....maybe in 3 years time she may very well be joining u back in ur home town.
Im ever the hopeless romantic...
We had a good time.
I see what you mean. Yes, they did not take it as collections. It was more like a remembrance.
What is it with you and the 69.:you are such a sweet innocent girl, I wondered the other day if you understand its meaning.
Your sketch reminded of the one I got from my niece when she was an elementary student about 10 years ago.
I better frame it soon before it's completely faded.
Oohhh it's just number.
Looking forward to the update of your girlfriend and painting reaching safely their destination.
Time to make that call?
It was good while it lasted. I enjoyed every moment of it and I'm bound to call on her next month. Whether something deeper will develop, I don't know. I'm not in love with her. No electricity crackling and flying around; if you know what I mean.
I heard last night that Yorkie gave notice and when she leaves at the end of the month things will be easier on me if I don't have to see her every day.
I'm planning a quiet weekend at home, catching up on my reading and a few other things that fell behind during the last month.
Yea, frame it. your friend may just like it.
Just an ordinary number? Well Ok, if you say so.
No problems on that score. She phoned me at 8:10 this morning to tell me that it had arrived ten minutes before.
That's great!
Good morning to you too. These people are on the ball. don't they ever sleep?
I envisaged six calls through the day telling me that it has not arrived yet. She was very concerned about a non-delivery today as she has to be back at work on Monday.
"These people", who are you referring to? "Your Valentine" or people working for the courier company?.
Will u speak with yorkie before she leaves
I was talking about the couriers. I'm very impressed by their service.
I should but I'm scared. I have an idea that she is still as much in love with me as I am with her. I fear that if we talk we will patch it up right there and then all the hardship to date will be in vain. I understand why she wants to return to her country and I don't want to influence her in that.
My love life is in shambles and I try to fix it in all the wrong ways. Even the latest adventure would not have been if not for that but at least I gained a new friend out of it.
Good, I'm glad you started giving them away.
I'm coming to fetch mine tomorrow.
You know which one it is.
I've been asking for it for years.
Don't bother about a frame.
I'll have it framed myself.
Good evening,
As far as the courier company is concerned, you can write a review, leave feedback and grade it , if there's such an option for the specific company online.
Yes, it does feel that "they don't ever sleep" with professional couriers, not all of companies are like that though.
I was worried about the trip as well, the asbestos is old and brittle, it was part of the fascia boards before it was torn down during the construction works. I feared that it may crack if manhandled too much but it survived well. I'll look for them on the web. They should have a presence there.
Told you she's my niece.
Yes, I know that. I do read these comments.
I'm talking about your friend in Turkey