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...well, for starters, it's quite a process. And I think these sites should instead be called search and introduction sites. The tiny expense, world wide reach, and ability to vet safely at distance on the front end, as so well done by CS, (suck up noted), likely lead to much greater potential for initial meetings than older approaches. Work, the market, activity groups, your pastor and aunt, etc., can hardly compete, even given the annoyance of the scammers. Considerable communication after that first spark of interest, allows for knowing each other enough, so that the first meeting is often as with an old friend. Whatever could possibly go wrong? But why digress? So, now that the decision exists to actually meet, the When, Where and How enter in to the process. But I'll add that at this point, trust also has been established, and indeed, a large part of my vetting process includes immediately ditching those (largely scammers anyway), who fill their profiles with statements like, "I don't waste time with chatting or Skype". The When. Having already displayed considerable patience while chatting, itself a laudable character trait of maturity, I usually take time with this as well. Usually weeks to months, verses days. Saves on flights if we exist at large distances, and again shows a certain groundedness of style. And on these latter points, since most mutual interests involve class and education, a few languages, self sufficiency, and so on,-- local prospects are quickly exhausted, leaving larger cities, domestic or foreign. I find either party, if living within a few hundred miles, is willing to fit an initial meeting into some other reason for travel. So, onto the Where. I quickly found that elaborate late day meals, at fancy restaurants, had many disadvantages over the safe public cafe scene, or some (walking/sailing) activity. Cost effective, few assumptions generated, plenty of chance to talk, and lots of fun. Forget dancing or concerts, either. Talk and body/facial styles rule. Rarely, after mere seconds, one begins thinking of the classic bathroom trip escape maneuver, but initial vetting usually prevents any need for this cowardly trick. The How? Well, this applies mostly to foreign contacts. Visiting the prospect in her home country has much to recommend it. Gauging lifestyle, family, friends, interests, etc., all come to mind. And what a chance to learn about the world. Meeting while both are on holiday is a second best, which for me has occurred in lovely Portugal. Process, all good things take their own good time. Of course, with Covid 19, adjustments are needed. Finally, at any stage of the process, if prospects begin to dim, it's best to discuss it all openly as adults, and ideally, to part as good acquaintances, or more.

What a dating site !

I know some of you guys are going to welcome a new CS member who has.....flopped out on the scene recently.
Indeed, a couple of her profile pictures are real standouts. I wanted to keep you a breast of the situation.

According to her profile she is "looking for a man", and somehow she's "already seen your profile" and "thinks you're pretty'.

Put your hands together......or wherever you want to place them
and give Jasmin a big hug or motorboat.

...ah, yes, the free market, and it's resourceful entrepreneurs.... Karl Marx, roll about in your grave. Bernie, pace about angrily in any one of your three mansions. Creepy Joe, no you are not in Novosibirsk, or Novaya Zemlya. With all this stay at home pubic health stuff, my only question is, why has it taken over three months to arrive? The 'forced stay at home dating site app.' As with most of my blogs, I steal the ideas from elsewhere. Hottie tarts rarely are impressed. Heard it during the post wee wee, widely missed target, VERY widely, -wee hours of the morning, while chatting with the world on 40 meters single side band short wave. Full Power. As with PU trucks, big power amps, small manhood. How's that for bombastaceous ueber-bombast? But I digress. Didn't get the exact name of this latest cupid product, but google a suitable permutation. Seems that a tiny amount of initial chat on this app, and we are all off and running. Pics, messaging, bimbo facebook, and even live video. You can be sure I'll have a few sharp words for that hottie cyberscrutinizer. CS, in all its resourcefulness, should have thunk this up at the time of case Zero, in Wuhan. That, BTW, would be CHINA. If she can withhold CS privileges for the clever beauties and the retarded grizzly wankers here, I'm considering cutting her off from any of her scheduled time in the Vierk tree top love nest. That ought to teach her a lesson. Yet, speaking of pubic health, one door closes and another opens. With concerns about family violence being on the increase, and familiarity breeding contempt, as so often, I'm proposing an app meeself. The 'domestic violence video app'. New, from Vierk Institute Industries, and appropriately shamefully over priced. Now, while mom is roundly pummeling dad, the kiddies can help to capture it all for viewing by the public. Absolutely brilliant. Sexism, misogyny, animus, and all those other warm and fuzzy superiority feeling generating words, rolled right up into one. Order now, operators standing by. Cash only. No warranty. Call now. Blah, blah, blah.

.....at least the ueber religious ones. It's a real cultural phenomenon. Part of the arranged marriage anachronisms in other cultures. These would be unrelated older women in the community, whom the young girls know from early ages. Intolerably intrusive, they consider themselves as beneficial. They operate in groups, gossiping over strong tea at each others' houses. Teenage girls are their victims. Sadly, the girls' families somehow think of them as helpful. They wiggle their way into contact with unmarried girls, and begin to ask very personal questions. Then they discuss in groups, and make recommendations as to available young men. Sometimes even going so far as to pat down the girls to assess body types, reporting it all to potential husbands. But who knows? I tried to market the idea, for a cool million, to the suits at CS, via my main squeeze, the lovely and discerning Cyberscrutinizer. The idea was to have older CS cougars form such groups, on blogs or forums, for concerted questioning and matchmaking action on these very pages. All I got were eyes up to the branches above us. And a demand for another warm flat beer.

Ok, i am gonna throw up a bit before i write this.

I know this guy from the other site. The profile seems nice, he also friendly person to know ( at first) and sounds like a gentlemen. This couple of weeks we've try to close to each other and doing relationship kinda thing discussion.. BUTTTT... I kinda feels something is weird here.

He always said about his mom. well, at first i think maybe because he respect his mom. since he lost his dad in 2012. But why he always talking about his mom? even in the midlle of our conversations about what we will do in the future ( we have plans to meet, to see my family, his family, getting married and building a happy family).

But all our conversation it always including about her mom. He telling everything about his mom habbit, his mom friends, his mom favourite food... even telling me about important part things in every detail of mom had (that i wish i dont wanna know and actually i even didnt care about it). EVERYYTHINGG IS MOOMM.

It making me bored, since he always add mom to our conversations.

It caused me uncomfortable, but the snow balls become more bigger since his idea to trying add mom (again) in our first meeting. He also want me to do what (in my belief this is a taboo.. yeah you know it ) together with mom and his bf. WHATS?!?!! what kind of idea is that? am i the only one who are feeling weird here or am i stupid or..i dont know. Am i sick or..have i had heart attack now? oh..have i got covid19? am i died yet?

I am feeling he pushing me to my limit. I told him at first i got my limit. But he seems trying and trying to made his mind accepted by me. This is nut i think. I dont wanna do that. But he's trying so hard to prove me that, it is a way to prove our love and a beautiful liberation. erh?

It confuse me. If he loves his mom, its not the way a men should do to the women they love. I think he got some incest minds. or some love/desire to love mum very very veryyyyy much. what actually happens to this kinda guy anyway? why he adore too much? ( i think i need took psychology theories studies to learn more to look cool LOL )

I have given up to this momma boy. I think a relations should be independent not 'everything momma' thing. Its about you and me relations. I know he love his momma and his family, but he is a grown up now. 45 y.o is not a teenage age number. For me, the line should be clear about this.

Because... " Too much love will kill you" right?

Ive been on connecting singles dating site for quite awhile and the only thing i get is
The women of Chicago Illinois on here totally ignore my profile
Is it because I am on disability?

Is it because I don’t want anymore children?

What is it
Ive redone my profile 4xs to expect different results but to no success
I think the scammers scared the good women away.
Ive been single since September 2009

If anyone has any input on this blog by all means please tell me
I can take criticism.
I know the old saying
If you can dish it out. You can take it
(Something like that)
Im not a bad guy.

Ive changed my picture of me. Ive shortened and to the point of what im like and what i am looking for.
Ive changed the age to 40-59
Im hoping and praying that a i will find my Chicago soulmate after all is said and done

why do we men stick in one football club ,yet we cannot stick to one lady???
Nb:I welcome every person's opinion regardless of gender,age,size,height,beauty, or skin color

What's our priorities

Speaking for myself it's definitely not to have children or be a off the shelf dad, I have 3 adult children and a 95 year old mum. Or to get married I have had 30 + years experience and I am Agnostic. ( Look up the meaning)
I am not interested in being someone you need as a social attachment, like a hand bag or to make up for your financial mismanagement.
I would love to be with you because we both want to be together, I still believe that our s*xual chemistry is really important for both of us.
You know that feeling, in bed at night cuddling a pillow thinking What's she or he doing now. Can I jump in to the car and visit? Or are you going to turn up at 2am in your dressing gown for my company. I promise I will make you breakfast or take you to brunch. ( Not sure what you would wear to the Brunch)
You both going to a Blues concert screaming you heads of to Stairway to Heaven or really kicking out to Honky Tonk Women (my god lady I did not know you could look so sexy ) just recently saw the LAB concert in Whangarei
Doing a road trip stopping at all those amazing opp shops looking for that overlooked Bargain Jeepers it's got to be worth $200 at least and they only want $50 (lol)
Then stopping at those amazing farmers market wow huge Mussel fritters 2 for $10 and what has be the best Avocados we have ever seen.
Lots of us fill in our profile and then completely forget about it.
Well if you are wondering why we haven't contacted you back it could be because you originally put a age restriction of 3 yrs older and 20 yrs younger this is very common for women. Guys have a bit of a more narrow range, unless they are cradle snatches like me. The website's computers enforce the restrictions you applied by not allowing us to contact you. Even though you had sent a like or message we cannot reply, due to the restrictions you put in place.
I sometimes will not reply back because the language you use those not match your profile. ( You are supposed to be a English lit major yet the slang is African street slang )
I recently had a meet-up for drinks at the Judge in Whangarei on a Friday. I was stood up.
Well I found out later the lady was sitting two tables away. Her photo was 5 + years older and she was 9 kg heavier, which is a hell of a lot on a 150 to 152 cm women. She had recognised me and I had not recognised her as I had failed to ask if she was still a brunette etc, so she rightfully felt insulted.
I think she realised that I had walked right pass her because of these factors.(This why I think a meet up on video is great)

Lastly please put a current photo so both of us know what to expect and no photos that are not age appropriate. There is without doubt nothing worse than an overweight man or woman wearing clothing that is age inappropriate.
Let's have fun and look after our bodies and enjoy each other's differences.

but women why do u want only men with big d*ck only??
don't u think that even those with small d*ck were created to be loved???