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I am a Chinese girl,am 25 years old,English is not well but am learning,I do not know if you like a Chinese girl,I am 170cm tall from a company as a receptionist never married and no kids.

Ok this has been on my mind for awhile. How can you like someone's profile an expect them to like you back when your's is not able to be seen? To me that is a big red flag, to me it means you could be a scammer. I would like any feed back or thoughts.

It is very hard to find out matching women through online.....................................................

The time has gone without fruitfulness ......................

I thought it was pretty sneaky of them to pretend they were wanting to improve the site, then suddenly disappear.

Feel happy, when I see him.
Feel happier, when he talks to me.
The happiest ever, when I know he is happy and healthy.
The distance suddenly disappear
and ...
Feel we are together

He Needs you..
He needs you for your opinions he needs you to be on his side as his partner he needs you to remind him of the small things that he cant remember him self
He needs you ,
And that's why he loves you

But you loved him... You love him with all your heart
You don't need him to take care care of your matters you dont need him for your small details
You don't need him to know what decision to make or where to go ...
You don't need him

But you love him
You love him so much that you need him to need you
Him needing you has become the love you thirst of, your world and your universe
All because your self esteem cant handle the truth

You love him so much
But when you breath his truth in, you start to feel the cold ,so cold , that you constantly beg his pretends
And you keep pretending, you keep pretending that this will warms you inside
And you watch your heart slowly dies

And every time you remember you just have to fake it , that everything is alright..
For you know your denial is far more better than your fear of loosing him...
Every time you remember
You keep telling your self that is far more than you could ever deserve

Can a women find out a true love.. If she was divorced and she has a kid..?
Is it still possible for her to find a good man?

My jaw wants to unhook when I listen to what some women have to say about their close encounters of the third kind with men. It crossed my mind that some of these women are just out to make men appear as evil monsters but I’m more than prepared to concede that at least some women may have had some really terrible experiences with men.

But all this makes we wonder with exactly what kind of men you are involved with? In all fairness, if you date an undesired character, you must expect to be treated in kind. Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t say he has the right to misbehave because he is what he is but you cannot cultivate weeds and expect to pick peaches from it.

If a friend arranged a blind date and he turns out to be weird, kick your friend’s arse. You have been sold out. Otherwise you must take at least some of the blame – even if just for your inability to spot a bad character for they are not that difficult to recognize. They all carry a lot of baggage and it wells up soon enough in conversation. And if you get into it, knowing that you’re dealing with a dubious character, don’t complain about it afterwards because it was your choice to be with such a man.

I have seen it countless times that a woman who comes out of an abusive relationship, just hook up with another bad egg the next time. They find calm relationships dull. Harsh as this may sound, some women are attracted to ruffians and I think they want to be mistreated. I don’t know if they crave for the excitement or the sympathy but they normally get both.

I have also been had by one or two women but they were few and far between. The majority of women are normal and rational. Just like that there are many good men out there but the onus is on you to separate the dregs from the wine. If you pick one loose cannon, we can call it a mistake; it can happen to anybody. More than that, it starts looking like a trend. Remember, nobody can force you to date anybody. It’s your own choice. We cannot always blame others for our own bad choices.


Relax! It is Friday.

The following blog



titled "When you are expected to pay for lunch or dinner on the first date offline. Online dating part 2" was created on the 30/1/2018 and was left in a draft form in order to be picked up and continued later on the subject of "Expectations" , subject of this blog today.

The specific blog regarded the expectation of my person paying for lunch or dinner in unwanted and unwelcome ways that definitely did not include paying half or the whole bill for lunch or dinner at a restaurant.

The expectation regarded the first date offline.

Subject of this blog is therefore, expectations in regards to the first date offline.

For the reason that expectations is a vast subject , this blog excludes expectations during dating or relationships in real life.

It is restricted to online dating and as mentioned earlier , expectations in regards to the first date offline and in real life.

As such the specific blog is referred to and includes a specific group of people that can be found online and this dating site.

Under this category or group of people come only those who plan or intent of dating in real life and/or to meet in person and real life.

Therefore, the questions included in this blog are primarily directed and concerned with this specific category/group of people.

The following scenario part of which are the questions of this blog is being given for better understanding purposes of this blog,

Hypothetical scenario

You have made contact with a person of your liking and interest through the private message service and begun getting to know each other.

Your liking of each other for another grows as you chat more and more. It appears and feels that "you hit off" with one another and after a certain time of chatting with each other, you both decide and agree to meet in person and in real life, have your first date offline.

Questions

1. Do you have any expectations in regards to your first date offline and in real life?.

2. If yes, what are these?.

Thank you for reading and looking forward to hearing any answers.

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So a friend of mine goes on a popular dating site. She finds someone localish, good looking, 35 years old and allegedly a college graduate in a very good job. They exchange emails. They set up a meet. They date. He tells her his name. He tells her he lives in a furnished room in the basement of a home 60 miles away in the town he works in. She however has a job about 30 miles towards his hometown, but she has an apartment of her own. After a few dates the affair moves into intimacy.

Strangely however all the assignations are short. She gets off work, they meet for dinner in the town they work in. He sometimes complains about the drive to her place but sometimes he does go there, but he never stays more than hour or two, then leaves. He never brings spare clothing to her house. He always showers before leaving. They plan weekends together, but often on Saturdays he calls and says he has to work overtime and maybe tomorrow he will come. Sometimes he does show up on Sundays but he never stays more than 3 hours before remembering a reason he has to leave. Alternatively the Saturdays they do get together he is a great companion. He takes her to shows, wineries and concerts. He holds her hand and treats her like a queen.

He claims he loves her. Months ago she suggested they pick out a place convenient to both their jobs. He agrees but also refuses to tell her the address of the house where he keeps a furnished room. He tells her it is an elderly couple that owns the house and a condition of his living there so cheaply is that he have no visitors and everything has to be super quiet there. As time passes she occasionally suggests they actually start visiting places for rent and although he says yes to the idea, somehow whenever it is time to do so he has to work overtime.

His job is a 7 days a week government job where folks work 24 hours a day and (allegedly) often being a senior employee he is the one asked to come in if someone else can not work. She isn't suspicious, but finds it annoying how often when they have time together scheduled his job interferes. Sometimes when she is with him his phone will get a text and again he has to leave due to a problem at work.

Me, I am a paranoid MF, and when she tells me some of the details, I say bluntly, I think he isn't around you much because he lives with a wife or a girlfriend and their asking where he is, is the work emergency that calls him away. I am told no. She asked him long ago and he has never been married and he has no other woman. He wants to marry her and have a family. His school and job have kept him from settling down, but now that he has a permanent assignment he wishes to buy a house for the two of them.

He becomes aware of my existence and worries that she is always talking to me on the phone. She loves how jealous he sounds when he asks about me. Her last boyfriend basically didn't care what she did if he wasn't around. One day around 7PM he insists she call me and let him talk to me. She does. I recognize her number on my caller ID and think maybe she is having car trouble and answer it. Immediately he rants and raves to me about how my friend is his woman now and I have no business stalking her and hanging around her. I am told I need to stop calling her and if I keep showing up uninvited at her house him and me will have a problem. Although enormously tempted to suggest he kiss my nether regions, I instead ask him a polite question. I ask, so you are saying the next time she calls me wanting to talk to me about you I should just hang up the phone? And let me get it clear, the next time this pretty woman calls me up because you cancelled your date with her and asks me out to lunch I should just say no?
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