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I think I am a very blessed fella... I have in my midst, the elusive unicorn.
I meet a lady in a park, she called me over because I had my guitar. I remember after chatting awhile, this huge lecture to me and the other guys present, she isn’t dating, she is a career woman, she doesn’t have time for anyone right now in her life, and she doesn’t have time for no FN romance.
I think she started it because I said she was cooler than the girls online, maybe I should ask for your number ... and to be clear, she isn’t my normal type, and really young, and she was dressed so frumpy and baggy with hair hidden and a ball cap, I wasn’t even serious at all.. like... thought she was cute but didn’t think She would dig old beard guy and thought she is young, not really why I was digging her... she sings and plays guitar and stuff.. cool... the number thing was a joke for a laugh not serious, jist wasn’t making moves... I expected a rejection and was prepared to laugh because I didn’t give two shits about dating her either way.
Well.. as some may have read, she called our time non dates... we would arrange a date to meet, but these were not romantic, was supposed to be music related only but we kept talking each other ears off, and she said when we met she is one of the guys, really? Really really? She let out some jokes that were so raunchy... she got points just for being crazy funny and dark.. whoa she is a riot. So, I just talked to her like one of the guys, I wasn’t making moves at all. Not one freaking move, lots of life talk, each other, um.. just on the same page with so much and laughing, singing, dancing, guitar, sounds funny.., but on our fifth non date... she flipped the script.
It was like a scene in a movie, she changed her tone, her demeanor, and she starts with, you haven’t done one thing wrong. I’m thinking, of course not, what did you think I was going to do? She meant no advances, no hands, no innuendo, no flirting like she said not interested so.. that would of been creepy ...well.. she said my soul was beautiful, then said I wasn’t beautiful however, nor cute, nor pretty... she kind of paused and I was thinking, thanks a lot, should I shave? Then she says your FN handsome, reaches for my beard and at this point I’m thinking whoa whoa Nellie, so I pulled away, and she pulled her hand away, said sorry, can I touch your face? ( sorry proper quotes and breaks are a pain on touch screen ). And I said yeah, she caressed my face, beard, ran her fingers through my hair, and I was thinking, we’re not in Kansas anymore. She kissed me.. and I mean kissed me... like she went from my innocent friend to what just happened?
Well.. after many ahem, dates after that, we had some drama.., she can’t keep time from my view, habitually late, a couple no call no shows... but she always called back and made it up to me, She did one blunder that I was angry about, like had a reason to be pissed, but before I could tell her that was it, this girl,said I was her man and her my lady one day,then back peddled... strike two.. dam it.. there were more strikes but I’m not trying to own the girl,and trying to be understanding,,. But that was two major strikes, and she left ... and after her I’m a lady, and I’m your friend comment in mixed company, and it’s ok to date, I want you to be happy stuff.., and note I was really digging her on many levels by now, she has drama, strikes, grrr, we are done, she isn’t coming back... fine .. I’m a bachelor .. grumble grumble.. good bye Mercedes.. that sucked. Roll with it big guy!
I think she started it because I said she was cooler than the girls online, maybe I should ask for your number ... and to be clear, she isn’t my normal type, and really young, and she was dressed so frumpy and baggy with hair hidden and a ball cap, I wasn’t even serious at all.. like... thought she was cute but didn’t think She would dig old beard guy and thought she is young, not really why I was digging her... she sings and plays guitar and stuff.. cool... the number thing was a joke for a laugh not serious, jist wasn’t making moves... I expected a rejection and was prepared to laugh because I didn’t give two shits about dating her either way.
Well.. as some may have read, she called our time non dates... we would arrange a date to meet, but these were not romantic, was supposed to be music related only but we kept talking each other ears off, and she said when we met she is one of the guys, really? Really really? She let out some jokes that were so raunchy... she got points just for being crazy funny and dark.. whoa she is a riot. So, I just talked to her like one of the guys, I wasn’t making moves at all. Not one freaking move, lots of life talk, each other, um.. just on the same page with so much and laughing, singing, dancing, guitar, sounds funny.., but on our fifth non date... she flipped the script.
It was like a scene in a movie, she changed her tone, her demeanor, and she starts with, you haven’t done one thing wrong. I’m thinking, of course not, what did you think I was going to do? She meant no advances, no hands, no innuendo, no flirting like she said not interested so.. that would of been creepy ...well.. she said my soul was beautiful, then said I wasn’t beautiful however, nor cute, nor pretty... she kind of paused and I was thinking, thanks a lot, should I shave? Then she says your FN handsome, reaches for my beard and at this point I’m thinking whoa whoa Nellie, so I pulled away, and she pulled her hand away, said sorry, can I touch your face? ( sorry proper quotes and breaks are a pain on touch screen ). And I said yeah, she caressed my face, beard, ran her fingers through my hair, and I was thinking, we’re not in Kansas anymore. She kissed me.. and I mean kissed me... like she went from my innocent friend to what just happened?
Well.. after many ahem, dates after that, we had some drama.., she can’t keep time from my view, habitually late, a couple no call no shows... but she always called back and made it up to me, She did one blunder that I was angry about, like had a reason to be pissed, but before I could tell her that was it, this girl,said I was her man and her my lady one day,then back peddled... strike two.. dam it.. there were more strikes but I’m not trying to own the girl,and trying to be understanding,,. But that was two major strikes, and she left ... and after her I’m a lady, and I’m your friend comment in mixed company, and it’s ok to date, I want you to be happy stuff.., and note I was really digging her on many levels by now, she has drama, strikes, grrr, we are done, she isn’t coming back... fine .. I’m a bachelor .. grumble grumble.. good bye Mercedes.. that sucked. Roll with it big guy!
For All These People Who are Searching Here!
If you have found good one, why are you still looking for a better one?
After the better one, comes the next better one - and after this better one comes the next and so on and so on!
You will search forever! Always for a better one!
The search does not stop!
You never will have a chance to create a little family!
You NEVER will feel REAL love!
You NEVER will have a life in happiness and harmony,because you are too busy by searching for something better!
At the end of your life you will feel very lonely because you have always searched, but neither lived nor loved!
it is a very sad end of your life! Believe it or not!
After the better one, comes the next better one - and after this better one comes the next and so on and so on!
You will search forever! Always for a better one!
The search does not stop!
You never will have a chance to create a little family!
You NEVER will feel REAL love!
You NEVER will have a life in happiness and harmony,because you are too busy by searching for something better!
At the end of your life you will feel very lonely because you have always searched, but neither lived nor loved!
it is a very sad end of your life! Believe it or not!
were women mistaken/men ignorant/society misinformed?
Listening to many TedX seminars on YouTube, I am starting to hear a common theme going on with women and their lack of o*gasm during sex. All of these seminars I listened to so far were given by women with a professional background in sex therapy. One of them make a claim that 90% of men achieved o*gasm during sex where women were less than half of that.
Another female sex professional claims that a small percentage of women achieve o*gasm with penal penetration. When she told one of her patients that, the patient was shocked....saying something like "oh, so there is nothing wrong with me."
Another female professional talks about how society has stereotyped sex and it is solely to do with penetration....for countless time. Today, things are changing when it comes to women's sexuality and there is a lot yet that has yet to be understood about it. But, sex done correctly with a woman, she can o*gasm as frequently as a man. It is said that she is primarily stimulated by the cl*t.
In addition, women lose their feeling of being h*rny when in a long term relationship. They claim that is completely normal. One professional compared it to going to the gym. Most people don't have this innate desire to go to the gym, but once they are there and doing their workout, their body feels great and the workout is very rewarding. She says, the same can be said with a woman's sex drive in a long term relationship. A long term relationship, she says, is about 6 months to a year....or longer.
With all that being said....these women claim that many women have come to them for their professional help with sex. Many women did not even know their own bodies and how it operated.
Now, to my question about....were women mistaken/men ignorant/society misinformed?
Did/do women hold men responsible...or....do women loath men when they can clearly see he achieved o*gasm and she did not. Perhaps...loathing to the point of feeling she is being mistreated? Perhaps loathing to the point to seeking an extra marital partner or a divorce?
The grass is only greener until the woman starts getting bored and discovered that new guy is not doing it for me either....what up with that? she might think??
Perhaps...that is why women like men who have a lot of experience with many women. Perhaps these men know about the significance of the cl*t...and how to stimulate it correctly? Or....that is why women like other women?
Again, I am just a dumb a** here.....I don't know anything. That is why I am asking.
Another female sex professional claims that a small percentage of women achieve o*gasm with penal penetration. When she told one of her patients that, the patient was shocked....saying something like "oh, so there is nothing wrong with me."
Another female professional talks about how society has stereotyped sex and it is solely to do with penetration....for countless time. Today, things are changing when it comes to women's sexuality and there is a lot yet that has yet to be understood about it. But, sex done correctly with a woman, she can o*gasm as frequently as a man. It is said that she is primarily stimulated by the cl*t.
In addition, women lose their feeling of being h*rny when in a long term relationship. They claim that is completely normal. One professional compared it to going to the gym. Most people don't have this innate desire to go to the gym, but once they are there and doing their workout, their body feels great and the workout is very rewarding. She says, the same can be said with a woman's sex drive in a long term relationship. A long term relationship, she says, is about 6 months to a year....or longer.
With all that being said....these women claim that many women have come to them for their professional help with sex. Many women did not even know their own bodies and how it operated.
Now, to my question about....were women mistaken/men ignorant/society misinformed?
Did/do women hold men responsible...or....do women loath men when they can clearly see he achieved o*gasm and she did not. Perhaps...loathing to the point of feeling she is being mistreated? Perhaps loathing to the point to seeking an extra marital partner or a divorce?
The grass is only greener until the woman starts getting bored and discovered that new guy is not doing it for me either....what up with that? she might think??
Perhaps...that is why women like men who have a lot of experience with many women. Perhaps these men know about the significance of the cl*t...and how to stimulate it correctly? Or....that is why women like other women?
Again, I am just a dumb a** here.....I don't know anything. That is why I am asking.
What is love?
I had been married for 22 years till death do us apart and now he is in heaven joining with my father and grandparents! Do I love him? Of course I do that is why I married him the first place! Now he is gone, I am searching for LOVE again! What is love? It should be nature without any force and unconditional that making your heart beat! Love in the first sight that did play the big part of two souls. What is love? Love will always be inconvenience into life no matter how busy life made you when you really in love nothing matter not distance not space not even just screen the other side! What is love? Love is something two people willing to do anything for each other! Love into marriage would be beautiful thing! But it is not all marriage is about love! Marriage is about package that person bring you in life! It is easy to say you love someone but when marriage brought into each other life that have to keep love alive!
I can't say I love someone till that person is REAL to me! I don't understand why people can say LOVE so easier that is not LOVE! No matter how people wrote or share the stories those are just illusion created in receivers' mind! When someone looks at my photo then they started creating illusion of me in front of them, that is never real and that is just in their head! Whatever people share there and I will only listen and still need time to prove if they are real or not!
I have already said Love is nature thing and love is unconditional till then a person understand fully then he will be the person really know what love is!
When someone we love died, our heart will be hurt. When the next one coming along, we will know and hopefully feel love again!
Don’t tell me you love me till you really meant it!
I can't say I love someone till that person is REAL to me! I don't understand why people can say LOVE so easier that is not LOVE! No matter how people wrote or share the stories those are just illusion created in receivers' mind! When someone looks at my photo then they started creating illusion of me in front of them, that is never real and that is just in their head! Whatever people share there and I will only listen and still need time to prove if they are real or not!
I have already said Love is nature thing and love is unconditional till then a person understand fully then he will be the person really know what love is!
When someone we love died, our heart will be hurt. When the next one coming along, we will know and hopefully feel love again!
Don’t tell me you love me till you really meant it!
online today!
They say there is 3 sides to a story...!
They say there is 3 sides to a story...!
Your side...My side..........and the truth.............!
Did you know that...?
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Your side...My side..........and the truth.............!
Did you know that...?
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online today!
what makes feelings/moods...?
what makes feelings/moods...?.........................?
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how can I control my feeling??
how can I control my feelings please???
nowadays I have so much s*xual desires yet am still single,I need yo advice
nowadays I have so much s*xual desires yet am still single,I need yo advice
What would it take for you to fall in love again?
Can you fall in love again
Would you want to fall in love again?
Does love only have to benefit you?
Is love a game to you?
Is love a means to an end for you?
Do you think love is real?
What?....Love?....what the hell is that?
lol
But seriously do you think you can love again?
I think I can....but...I do know love can make one weaker...as well as make one stronger....depending on your "better half."
Would you want to fall in love again?
Does love only have to benefit you?
Is love a game to you?
Is love a means to an end for you?
Do you think love is real?
What?....Love?....what the hell is that?
lol
But seriously do you think you can love again?
I think I can....but...I do know love can make one weaker...as well as make one stronger....depending on your "better half."
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