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I came back to CS, because I enjoy reading the blogs, but not being a member, I couldn't post any comments or create any blogs.
Since coming back, I've exchanged mail with some men who wrote in their profiles that they're "looking for a serious relationship", yet when they ask if I would make love or have sx with them, if and when we meet, and I reply "no" all mail contact ends. Does having a "serious relationship" these days mean that I have to have sx with a man within minutes/hours after meeting him in person? I always thought getting to know a person and finding out if there's any chemistry before taking it to the next level is how to start a serious relationship (although I've heard that some serious relationships start with sx at the first meeting). I'm not old fashioned but know from experience that some relationships that start with sx, end up being just that.....sxual attraction and nothing more.

Because the CS has delivered a lot. And I presume there's anyone left "single".

Its is a very blissful feeling to be retired knowing that you have done all thats has needed to be done in life. Watching your kids being happy and contented with loving spouses and even more loving children is the ultimate. However, after all is said and done, there is that void that exists in one's soul. Something or someone special missing.

I joined this site in the hope that I would find that special someone
with who I can relax, enjoy and spend the rest of my life with doing all the fun stuff. Why is it so hard and exhausting, I might add, to find that person.

I sincerely pray to Him to send that special someone quickly ( I have a few years left, hopefully!) into my life !

There are quite a few commercial 'dating sites' around, which, after free registration, allow:
- seeing the full profile of members
- making your favorite list
- receiving messages...
Revenues are generated from subscribers sending messages. You may purchase a bundle of 'credits' for sending messages. This practice opens the gates for a multitude of fake profiles, sending out massive numbers of messages to all potential 'dating partners'. Their only intention is to generate mail traffic: hence to lure you into wasting your mailing credits. There never is any intention to date a person.
As a lot of members (mostly men) are being lured in such a scam/site, a lot also leave disappointed.
A problem? Not at all: those commercial dating scams just invent another name and a new vehicle for misfortune is generated. These new 'dating sites' merely are fresh entry names with a slightly different look. Yet the profiles pointed to are identical: this actually is a multiplication by cloning. You may find banners for such sites on CS; after all a free site needs revenues from ads. Just stay on board here and steer clear of those scams.

Not even 3 pm here and I have been in tears on and off all day, I need a plumber to fix this leak in my tearducts.

They aren't even sad or self-pitying tears and there's no reason to cry! Big girls don't cry!

I hear a favourite Christmas carol and - wahhhh.

Long emails from friends who were once part of my daily life and now I hear once a year.

Nice letters from people I didn't expect to hear from

Lovely messages from people I did expect to hear from

A parcel today from someone I thought was cross with me



I should probably wallow in it for half an hour, cry the tank dry, is it the time of year?

Or suggestions for toughing my way through it, please. Because this is RIDICULOUS.

Signed
Watering Pot *sniff*

In a witty (video)presentation, Hannah Fry goes into detail on the mathematics behind love and relations.
She's addressing questions such as:
- Are the most beautiful women necessarily more popular on Dating Sites?
- How long can I wait for Mr. Perfect Match?
If you want to know more, you'll just have to watch and listen...



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Now in your opinion is Hannah Fry:
1) a stand-up comedian passionately devoted to mathematics?
2) a mathematician missing out the opportunity of becoming a first class stand-up comedian because she's too good in her field of research?

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Non-native speakers can switch on subtitles using a modified link:

Por ejemplo en español:
et aussi en français:

There also are german (de), italian (it), dutch (nl) and thirty more languages I don't speak a word of.

I've been on CS for 8 days today. For the past 7 days I have been reading a lot of content from other CS members. I had many blog ideas for my first blog to say hello. I'm not sure I even want to share any of my insight with CS members?

From what I have read in the forums and blogs makes me believe there are a few people here that saturate them with negativity. People that disregard courtesy and tact to punish everyone with pitiful hostility. It seems no matter what anyone writes it warrants retaliation from a select few.

This is a site designed to allow you to put your best image out there so someone that might be looking for you might find you. Anything you write or post on this site is a way for them to understand you better.
What I see is a lot of people that can't take life seriously and stay focused on the task at hand.

You are on a dating site. You are hostile, angry with the opposite gender and narcissistic. What is to be gained by spreading hatred? If you sow the seed of hatred you will only reap hatred.

I have read many blogs at many places. What I see here are not blogs, they are quips of insanity posted by shallow, insecure people full of delusions. If I decide to post blogs here in the future, I will turn off comments because if you want to talk to me about my blog you can contact me from my profile.


My blogs will deal with me and be about my views on life as I see it. They are a tool to allow someone that is interested in finding out how I think and feel to understand me.

I post from my home computer so writing is not an issue, neither is reading and viewing large listings at once. I have a phone but I don't use it to post. I am typing on a full keyboard. For most, what I type will be too much scrolling. So be it.

I hope you all find someone special in your life and no longer need to use online dating sites to express yourself. If I find someone, I will leave and never come back. BUT...isn't that how it is supposed to work?

There are as many answers for this as there are factors determining the result.

I am a man. A man that has had no s*xual or intimate contact in years.
I was tested 8 months after my last s*xual encounter and I know I have no STIs. I want to remain in that condition. I already raised a family and I am not looking to raise another.
I know that sex feels great and want it again.

I am looking for a relationship with the right woman that includes sex but is not founded on sex. There are many things that are important to me, sex being one, but a major one.

On the first date, I know it can get really hot, burning hot. Unlike those men in the movies, I am not one to try to trick a woman into having sex with me. I could, but I don't. It is always up to the woman to determine how far it goes. If I don't want it - I will stop it, just as I would expect her to do.

At my age, sex is two consenting adults enjoying what feels good. It is not punishment or revenge. It is not a triumph or a tally mark. When I am with a woman that is wanting sex with me and I feel the same it is dishonest to her, and myself, if we do not act on our desires.

By the time sex is in the question on the first date there had to have been some kind of compatibility first. If that date leads to sex which leads to a second date the sex was also a compatibility factor in that relationship.

People change after sex. I have seen it. I am looking for compatibility after the sex. Once those urges are sated, do you still want to be with each other. Hold them, hear them talk and be intimate. Sex on the first date can tell much about the other person.

On the other hand, not having sex on the first date is good too. If you are not sure your date is being honest with you it could lead to more trouble than it is worth. If there is no connection between the two of you and the intimacy is being pushed, the sex probably means nothing to them.

Then there is the delusion that religion or morality keeps you from enjoying yourself. Someone that 'blames' "the way they were brought up" as a reason for not being an adult and making their own decisions will probably have other factors in their lives that they 'blame' instead of making their own decisions and knowing their own desires.

No sex on the first date says "I don't trust you with my desires" when that date gets hot. If it gets hot and they say "Not yet" and set up a second date it might be because they are not sure of something. If there is going to be no sex on the first date, do not let the encounter get intimate or hot.

The whole reason people date is to determine if the other is compatible with their desires. You are looking for someone to be intimate with, sex is but one form of intimacy. Before you agree to date someone your first instinct is to find someone that you would love to have sex with. If they repulse you when you look at them you will not go on a date with them. Unless you are looking for something else. Money, mannerisms or social status...etc. There is nothing wrong with dating for those reasons as long as you are honest about it and both of you agree on it. After all, we are adults.

If I date a woman and I find her attractive and she also finds me attractive and we want sex on the first date, why should either of us not be honest?

Could I have meaningless sex on the first date?
Sure, it feels good. If she can convince me that she is clean, free of blood-borne pathogens, not insane and wants me too.

Being sensitive is just normal.
But when it strikes you with pain more often we tend to
get MAD and ask "why me" and beyond that anger ...
comes unexpected. ....like c**se. ..
All you have to do is just cry it out need a hug now.