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"...I used tell her I love her again and again. Though I knew in the deep of my heart that she doesn't love me..."...shows the importance of being true to you and all around you.
At no time and under no circumstances should anyone ever say "I love you" without feeling that very moment that magic flow of love deep inside the heart. At all times should you say exactly and directly what you really wish, feel, need or plan to do. Truthfulness is an absolute need for success in life, in love life, and in all eternal aspects of life.

To feel guilty is of no benefit to you or her - it simply shows and proves to you that you made substantial mistakes by pretending to love someone without really feeling that magic true love for that one.

Leave your wrong partner at any cost of tears!
Leave her no matter what she says!
The ego game is a betrayal of your own true needs as well as the betrayal of the true needs of the wrong partner you are together.
ALL need love...
All need true love...
All need to be ready, prepared, and pure in the heart to give and to accept all love.

Hence all need to grow and to mature - a wrong partner may make aware of what is missing - and the more, the longer you miss something the greater the readiness to do all needed to be ready for the right one from the very beginning.

After all the lies or pretending to love, you hopefully feel how it is inside you and hope you realize the importance of true love, of truthfulness toward self and your partner from the very first second.

Learn from your mistakes for your future.
Be ready to be fully true from the very beginning in any future encounter with a potential partner.

A strong one loves no matter what happens, no matter what happened in the past and no matter what the future brings. Such true love between two strong lovers only can last eternally from heaven to hell and back to heaven - in good days and in challenging dark days as well.

Unconditional love never cries, unconditional love is - from the beginning and without limits !! All your wrong partner shows so far is ego game and nothing more.

When you part - then part in friendship but for good without seeing her for a long time. Distance helps to heal and to get clear in mind and heart. After many months or years, both are ready to start a new love relationship with the right one of the waiting period has been used to understand all made mistakes of all previous relationships and use those mistakes to grow stronger and clearer in the heart for a future new relationship. GOOD LUCK EVERYBODY. And i am waiting for the real one to come to my life and take me with her and sail away

It's not often I see a profile on CS with someone smoking/lighting up a joint. Today, there was an attractive woman with a clear shot of her lighting up!

A few years ago on POF there was a high percentage of members exhibiting their drug addiction. Usually, it was young guys. My opinion was "It's an advertisement of their lifestyle to attract women who share the same lifestyle." kinda like trouble breeds trouble.

They had a section where the members could review photos of other members and help management (sorry for lack of a better term) 'weed out' photos that weren't proper... or those photos that didn't comply with their rules.

It was a huge site that had thousands of members online at any point in time. That presented a problem for management as they didn't didn't have the ability to go through every photo, so they asked members to volunteer and notify them of photos that needed to be adjusted or removed.

Some of the choices were blurred or faceless photos, single photos of kids, photos of violent activity, weapons, drugs or drug paraphernalia. Probably the biggest reason to get your profile closed was nudity. CS doesn't attract the masses and appears to have fewer problems with non-compliant photos.

I wouldn't mind seeing a 'hot or not' section where members can anonymously vote on photos they like or like to see removed.

I like writing just for fun, it may not be someone suitable as a future partner but it can still be nice getting “post” and nowadays, you don’t have to wait till the postman comes (he’s probably is not your type anyway), the computer goes “click” and hey presto, you have your answer.
Today I saw a profile (Spain Torrevieja) and thought, OK he is not suitable for me, he is looking for a Thai young woman to make him happy, but I liked the style he wrote on his profile and thought, well why not write to him as while he is waiting for his “Thai wonder woman” to come his way.
Now this is the catch – all nicely written with a lot of humour, as least I thought it was, copied it to my mouse, ready to downpour it right into his email, letter box and, now guess what happens – well, you have probably guessed, I am blocked! I am not good enough to his high grade of requirements, well I knew that, but words, mails don’t need an age, or maybe I am just bothering him, expecting him to READ my mail, but maybe the pensioned man is just too busy, as he writes he has a few friends but still, he has been on CS for 2 years, maybe it is time to think about what you want.
I know what I want: first to write to nice people, male and FEMALE, just for the fun of it. For anything else, I think it just comes, and in most cases it doesn’t, but that’s life.

Maybe some of us on here have anything to share about our journey in finding the "one".

Considering all the fake profiles, scammers they are called, what truly is our chances of finding him/her on this site? Or anywhere for that matter.

I have met and found whom I thought was the one 9 years ago here. Although our distance was more than 7,000 miles apart we didn't get discouraged because what we felt from the first skype was so strong and wonderful that we didn't think of any hurdles we had to face.
Anyways I went to his place about three times and he came to my place about two times. To cut the story short, for me, it was the most interesting, adventurous and wonderful part of my life.

I read somewhere that the difficulty of meeting a real partner here isn't as easy as meeting them in family gatherings, church or the conventional and normal introduction before the web. What's with all of those mentally crazy, drug addicts, or simply players that are not who they claim they are. Married pretending to be single, and more discouraging characters which by the time you find out, has already caused you a lot of emotional roller coaster.

Well for me, I am no longer looking. I'm way past that. But meeting good friends both male or female, to me is a plus.

What about you? Please feel free to share your stories if you want. Maybe we can all learn from it.

Note: I know about six couples who have met here, still married and happy. A couple from NZ and India, From Northern Thailand and England (my best friends, he passed away , blessed his soul). From Philippines and NZ, From NY and England, From France and CH, and also our very own Mimi from Malaysia now happily living in Nebraska. The first three couples I met them 8 years ago still very happily married.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so it's said and chemistry is important when you meet.

But exactly what qualities are you looking for in your search for the one?

I see lots of profiles where members give out their first and last names along with contact information like a phone number or email address. To my thinking, it's either a scammer or stupidity. Can people be so naive in this day of scams to divulge so much personal information?
A new profile this week has a woman in my state who says she's a widow with one daughter making over $150,000 a year and will treat her man like a king.
I'm inclined to believe it's a scammer and all (the goodies) mentioned in the profile is the calling card to catch a guy looking for an easy ride. That's the bait!

I could be right.
I could be wrong.

First impressions count…but not always.

My initial impression of CS was that it was just another dating site, like most of the others (e.g. Badoo and Christian Dating, etc), but that was before I took the time to peruse some of the various ‘activities’ it offers to members/visitors here. Delving deeper into what was available and realising that there was a ‘community’ of active members who had established friendships and still communicated with each other regularly (some for many years), helped change my mind about it.

The thing is that, had I not made an effort at ‘getting to know more about CS’, my first impression of it may have caused me to look elsewhere for what I was initially looking for. Thankfully, I found more by not doing so. With dating, as with anything else, one may rely mainly upon one’s instinct and initial visual/physical reaction, especially when choosing who may be the ‘ideal’ match…sadly, that isn’t always enough.

His/her first impression may not be impressive enough to suit your taste (and vice versa), but that shouldn’t be a reason to dismiss him/her. Perhaps he/she just wasn’t having a good day when you approached, so why not offer a second chance…doesn’t everyone deserve it?

Shresh....happy to be here. People normally say ....enjoy life cos u only live once...id rather say....u live everyday ...u die once. ...

It will take years before appeal is decided upon and her chances of having the verdict overturned isn't good.

"Anyone appealing has an uphill battle,” says Rebekah Sullivan, a Washington, D.C., attorney who focuses on family law. Most likely, the lawyers who spoke to TIME said, Heard’s team will argue some legal error was made during trial and will try to overturn the verdict on the basis that the jury was influenced by things they saw and heard outside tge courtroom."

From the latest news.What Legal Experts Think of Amber Heard's Chances on Appeal
BY ELIANA DOCKTERMAN
JUNE 6, 2022 3:06 PM EDT published by Time magazine.

The decision was for Johnny against lying Heard.
Justice is done. 15 million for Johnny, 10 for compensation and 5 for punitive damages.

Now I am not sure what impact this case does to both of them but I have a feeling Johnny is in good shape.

She was found to have done a malicious act by lying about her defamation report as published by the Washington Post.

This drama which has become one of the most watched show on television is going to affect how this relationship squabbles will be handled. I'm sure to play and claim as a victim will be thoroughly investigated and questioned if only to punish the aggressor.

Someone reminded me that yesterday was 4/20/22. That's significant to people who smoke... dope. Not on my radar. Okay, I've blogged about things like this before.
I once worked for a guy who smoked a few times a day. Actually it was more than a few times. I did freelance work for him on nights and weekends and had to go outside when he lit up as it bothered me.
Anyway, I've read lots of profiles that say they are 420 friendly.
The normal selections ask if you smoke (cigarettes) and drink.
I've seen other sites having a selection for recreational drugs.
That would eliminate surprises dating someone who assumed you took drugs because they do.

If CS does some programming updates asking if someone is 420 friendly could be a selection. The same goes for Tattoos and piercings.
Some people are turned on seeing their mate 'inked up' and having a field for that would allow members to search on tattoos as easily as looking for a redhead.