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AnimalLover66

RE: Mastering the Art of Good Conversation

An excellent article, with extremely good advice.

Also, the first one I've read that uses correct spelling, grammar and pronounciation throughout ;)

Kudos.
boredinpalermo

RE: 5 Sayings Most People Get Wrong

another misquote...money is the root of all evil...wrong the love of money is the root of all evilwow
BUBBA636

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

It is possible,but unlikely.Once trust is gained,we are all animals.And sooner or later,the subject will come up.How it is handled will define the relationship.I have women friends,and no problems.But I have to be careful sometimes.People have weak moments,me included.BUBBA
BUBBA636

RE: 10 Must Read Science Fiction Novels

What about Kornbluth,or Poul?And Asimof,I Robot is a must read.But I agree with 1984.People should be perpaired for what is happening.
warmglow55

RE: The Upside of Living Alone

Forget it if that,is what being alone is,like then,no thank you.
Im going to find a friend/relationship asap,as soon as a lady wants me,im staying in her arms,For good,for ever. John comfort bouquet
laura139

RE: How much should you tip?

I agree with most of it, I might even tip more for exceptional service at at restaurant, for personal stuff like nails, hair, massage--but hardly a tip of not good service--maybe $1.00
taxidiotis

RE: 10 Must Read Science Fiction Novels

thank u for the list but the foundation series is 6 books lolcomfort
aaronisone

RE: Dating and Statistics

there are way to many fat woman here where i live and there are not many skinny woman they eat to much and yeah the money thing is true and infact i cant make a move with the kissing thing
azul_colibri

"Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

Nicely put, Paintbox. I share your point of view completely.
Thank you.
azul_colibri

"Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

I see your point suaocndy, but in my opinion you might be missing something special. I apreciate your honesty.
Paintbox

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

The ability of a man and a woman to be friends is important, as when a married couple get into their old age, they will rely more and more on the things that hold them together as friends. Common interests and family friends.

It may be more difficuilt in youth when feelings tend to be on turbo!. I am middle aged myself and think that making female friends is important, as long as both parties know where they stand. Where this falls down is where one party feels something more than the other.
suaocndy

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

Can a man see a friend in a woman? Maybe, but as for me I can't, sorry. I always see a woman in a woman. I have feelings towars her. If I don't like the woman, usually a woman that turns me off, I leave. There is no need for me to have women friends.
jonnt

RE: The Reckless Games Men and Women Play

JOY61 ,peace Some things get missed by some , think me and you can see though .xx
jonnt

RE: The Reckless Games Men and Women Play

Would love to had wread it but im taking a holiday in July ,gotta pack rolling on the floor laughing
jonnt

RE: 5 Sayings Most People Get Wrong

Would anybody dare go out in your company hoping to have a nice chilled out evening ,, i surrender , ooops must leave help me Airoplanes waiting rolling on the floor laughing catch up with you aggen
BigCat69

RE: 4th of July Trivia

God Bless the USA!!! If ya don't love her then you should leave her!!! The Greatest Country on the Face of the Earth. Been to over 50 different countries and none compares to the Land of the Free and Home of the Brave!!!!thumbs up beer yay
mariespoodles

Why are men saying many women play mind games online????

Thanks for your comments and have started to take a few on board... wow... it's always interesting to get a different perspective on things and appreciate the gr8 input cheers yay
coolcuke

RE: The Danger in Dating a Control Freak

amen, godslave! and all the rest of you. my story would take days so i wont bore you but remember, the signs are always there at the beginning. keep your eyes and ears open!
butterflymalice

RE: a true psychic experience

I like psychic Stories n the paranormal stories,i also do tarot cards, i read on sum books, that the tarot cards answer a question you had on your mind wen you did the cards, where i live, alot of people, don't believe in what it says to them, till later on wen it comes true for them, most of the people call me a witch for doing cards,i tell them, im mot a witch, i dont do witchcraft to nobody,i just like to do cards and its the cards that answer them, not me
RadioheadFan123

RE: Chick Flicks for People Who Hate Chick Flicks (hereafter referred to as "men")

Something you could add to the list is the movie Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. Yes it has romance but it isn't all that sappy. I enjoyed it and I know some people are going to say "oh well that's because you're a metro." No that's not it. scold laugh
dumpsterman

RE: The Danger in Dating a Control Freak

This is a difficult one and not sure how to word it...have been in this kind of relationship with a girlfriend. What you say is psychological.

Hmmmm...and might these guys call themselves 'nice guys' too? Or even 'nice girls?' When people 'behave' out of character it was/is due to what? Provoked, stress, means to an end, conditionong, domination, jealousy, out of love?? Yes, get the hell out wheteher it be a male or female in this controlling relationship and do not get a puppy or decide to have a baby thinking that will resolve/calm/alter/change the controlling behaviour for it WILL not. It will only escalate. As painful as it may well be to leave, do so and pay heed to what just happened so it may never happen again. You'll be a stronger person for it.

Yes life is short and be strong

From a guys point of view
Jamaica77

RE: The Danger in Dating a Control Freak

Great article and comments.

Something a controlling man is good at doing (especially if their very intelligent) is making you feel ugly...like the article said it begins "innocently". For example, you come from the ladies after freshening up with a little more lip stick and blush, only to return to the controlling person who greets you with a lukewarm comment: "Had a good make-up session?" (add sarcastic glare and flat loveless tone)
sigh
Lonely1

RE: Definition of a player

Great article. You obviously gave the topic some thought. Your viewpoints are well taken.

Your views are from the male perspective, which is ok. Of course a lot of what you wrote could also apply to females. Women also play the field. They have mastered the art very well. If we were to do a poll of most females over 40, married or not, and ask them how many 'friends' they had before they got to that age - one would be surprised. Women are not stupid. They know exactly what they want. The reason they go for men who are 'players' is because they like what they see and feel. However, if they have 'bad' ways and are dropped, it is not the mans fault. Of course 'Pick up artists' do not make good long term partners.

I have met a few pick up artist females, masqurading as players. They really don't want to settle down. They like the club hopping and the free drinks. That has stopped a little since the advent of date rape drugs. They also like the quick lay, because that is what gives them the most thrills. Need I go on?
jonnt

RE: Why are men saying many women play mind games online????

confused This ones realy confusing ,, for me anyway laugh help

Some have different perspectives of what mind games are .So many terminoligies of who thinks what ,,

Y Can think that Z has played mind games in a reality situation ,a scenario being confused Male askes Female in a pub iff she wants a drink , both just met as strangers in pub etc ,, Male a bit of a pratt , loud, gods gift , sleasy , boring ,, then asks female iff she wants a drink ,, ( female in safe company with her friends he in his Male company } she refuses as she thinks he"s a toss pot and on the pull for anything ,, she politely refuses but gives in after his obsessive wont take no for an answer campaign ..

After she has finished and bored with said person , leaves the pub with her friends ,, Male for some reason then thinks because he hasnt even been given her telephone number has been used ,, some Male logic or something rolling on the floor laughing

Apparently she is into playing mind games rolling on the floor laughing

Moral of the story confused

Always tears before bedtime rolling on the floor laughing
azul_colibri
Busy6

RE: a true psychic experience

This is really a miracle I need a miracle like this to work on my behalf. iam in seach online and I found this guy online I am very lonely and hope this guy is a true friend. that will love me unconditionally. Also i am in a financially down fall and would need some guidance.
sammy17

RE: The Danger in Dating a Control Freak

didnt say that ...said I like someone who gets jealous over me...! lips
panos44

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

It is posible only fop people mentally unfit they like to be with a woman do things for her and love her thats all .For normal people its impossible.
nutcracker7

RE: Tips on How to Flirt

Oh ..Gee! I just realized what have been missing in my life for the past 2 years !!
I miss this thing so much kiss
can I flirt or would it be someone flirt on me doh conversing grin
IRISHEYES01

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

YES MEN AND WOMAN CAN BE FRIENDS I LAVE LOADS OF FEMAIL FRIENDS AND I LOVE THEM AS JUST THAT FRIENDS devil
whitec

RE: How to Dress to Attract a Man: A Guide for Women over 40

well I am not over forty but I am over fifty, and I have gone through a dress change by myself, I always wore pants and tops , but have gone to long modern hippy kind skirts and tops I find they are comfortable and dressy, and look smart I have long blond hair and have been complimented on my new kind of look, I feel it is up to the person them self to what they feel they like and are comfortable in, and also I would never through I would be seen in a skirt, but our taste change as we get older
rozza

RE: Tips on How to Flirt

If you dont like what theyre saying, or their character, then its all worthless, its the spirit of the person that is what I look for, thats the one thing I think will attract me to them, cause beauty passes away eventually, but the spirit or heart of a person remains constant, yes?
uwindy2

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

Women are man's hope for bringing hope to the universe.





Reality:
Lonely1

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

"I guess there is always the possibility of crossing that boundry in a special situation, maybe when one on them is going though a difficult time. That is why I posted this thread.
I don´t know how I would react myself. It would depend on the relationship I have with the other person.

But, what if the girl is not gorgeous at all, would you still do it?"


I have no problem with un-gorgeous women. Some of them make the best friends because they are not as stuck up on their looks. The issue is: what are best friends? Best friends are those who share a lot in common and like to be around each other. Sxx is a very enticing option between such friends. One has to decide that sxx is not an option in the friendship. Some say this would limit the friendship, but one has to decide what type of friend they are looking for. Most feel good stories I have heard goes like this: we were great friends for a long time..then one night...
jeepers

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

Nice article. Thanks for sharing your views and the well wishes. rose

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