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joyaepace

RE: Rejection...dont give up.

Be kind and good to yourself...put a value on yourself, right. But be kind and good to others too, may be they will not reject you then? There must be a reason for rejection, it does not happen for nothing. Being free of compromise? Our image of ourselves is all that we need? Dubious premises, they would not help socializing. You have to compromise to live in society. And you have to know what others think of you in order to know yourself. A person may have a grand image of himself that does not match a perception of that person by others. Who is right? I am afraid that the others because they see you from outside and it means they see better. It is not about shyness or looks or intellect that causes rejection, it is usually how a person relates to other people.
joyaepace

RE: Why Are Women More Affectionate Than Men

May be men just do not feel the way we women do? We expect them show the feelings we have, but if they do not have such feelings, how can they show them? Have you noticed that men often write in their profiles 'you get what you see'? May be we should trust what they say and not look for something that is not there. It is kind of shocking to realize that they are so poor in emotions, of course, but what to do? We have to face the truth and not expect impossible. So, may be they are from Mars, lol!
sprman

RE: Thinking about getting a tattoo?

Tattoos ah i never have liked them on a women..Why would you want to ruin your skin with one.This is 2011, for me a tattoo is a huge turnoff..You cant beat the all natural look in my book..Sprman
sprman

RE: Thinking about getting a tattoo?

Tattos ah i never have liked them on a women..Why would you want to ruin your skin with one.This is 2011, for me a tatto is a huge turnoff..You cant beat the all natural look in my book..Sprman
GALUH

RE: Why Women Pick the Bad Guys.

You're right. I myself experienced this, and I learnt so much from that. Good men are now difficult to found and I should do my very best to find him. Thank you so much. This article is very informative.
mlk52

RE: Why Women Pick the Bad Guys.

excellent description....

to summarize it all: we all at one time fall for PRETTY WORDS....
also they are professional cons..... they are GOOD at the game.
I stayed in a marriage for 25 years, because I listened to the PRETTY WORDS, not the actions...
however, when I saw the actions, his PRETTY WORDS were always the stronger of the two....
yeah, people say, "you just didn't want to know", my reaction is: "the hell I didn't", I just couldn't catch him.....
Now, at my age, I would give a million dollars to find a good man, and he wouldn't have to speak any PRETTY WORDS, he would just need to wrap me in his loving arms and let his heart speak!
mlk52
Namasteweareone

RE: The Average Guy's Guide to Beautiful Women

Wonderful article. Just be yourself. I think also for males and females don't judge a book by it's cover. Give that person a chance, you won't ever know until you approach and talk to them what they are really like. Most of us grow up feeling that we are not good enough. I know I did up until about a year ago, I had very low self esteem.I read a brilliant book 'You can heal your life' by Louise Hay, it's not just for women. She suggests telling ourselves that we love and approve of ourselves as many times a day as possible for at least a month, well I laughed, but tried it anyway. It worked, I feel good enough now, but I'm not arrogant, or vain with it, just calmly confident and slightly humble still. Give it a go.... then go after that special someone, you never know ! Wishing you all success in finding that special someone !

teddybear
cuddles4862

RE: The Average Guy's Guide to Beautiful Women

Wow!!! Terrific article here and so true. I am glad someone beat me to the punch and wrote this as this is one article i was going to write myself. Every one deserves a chance of finding beauty and brains and a loving relationship so don;t be shy just be yourself and you will find what you are looking for. For everyone who seeks a treaure will find it i am sure of it.
lilirishrose

RE: Do you speak dog?

I think the language of dog is done though the means of senses as well as pheromones. The ability to smell fear through adrenaline.

One test which has been carried out recently is a dogs ability to know when their master is coming home. Try coming home from work at your regular time, then a little earlier or later, I guarentee you that the your dog will be waiting for you at the door step or arrive back at your house just as you arrive. They know! I've tried this with my own dog (unintentionally) and strangely enough it works!

Dogs know exactly what mood your in without the use of words or body language, the uncanny 6th sense perhaps?
POM11
scottyburd

RE: Life with an Ex +

This is the best article i have ever read on CS, thanks for sharing and for being a wonderful human being..hug bouquet
cuddles4862

RE: Growing from Disappointments

Very good advice my friend and very wise. As a single Mom of two handicapped kids with learning disabilitis at birth i know first hand this is good advice as i follow this myself in life for everything and can do it no other way. i give this same advice out for other parents in the same position as me and it works , believe me it works. thanks for the same wise advice i would give to others as well . michelle
solareclipse

RE: starting over at 40 and up

Most inspirig reading your story. I guess there's hope for me yet.
Thanks for sharing.applause
knitting

RE: Am I free?

Welcome to the club, the self control is a good thing but sometimes it's the worst enemy of the need to BE FREE, really free. People around you see you as the "character" and you scare them off, well she's not the party girl.And yes love is "luxury" nowadays, who knows maybe on day we'll have the right currency to afford it.
cuddles4862

RE: Poetry.. Wordsmithing Your Way to Your Loved One's Heart

Poetry for Your loved one is a great personal way to stay close and keep a relationship vital and alive. It is a way to express what you sometimes can't put into words to a person face to face as the emotions involved are so strong. It doesn't make you look foolish or stupid or an idiot for expressing yourself openly and honestly and i admire those who do like me every chance i get. thanks for sharing this openly and honestly with the rest of the profilers here and beyond the realms of your circle and may it inpsire the rest who haven't done it yet out of fear of rejection from their soon to be other half. Go for it and write it out!!!!! Let it flow out and over to let all you feel out to that special someone.
cuddles4862

RE: Profiles in Dating Sites...Whereto?

Absolutely well said my friend. I am so glad your wrote what you did and I couldn;t have said it any better myself. Just because you reach a certain age doesn't mean true love doesnt exists anymore or they can't have it or find it in life. I agree with all you said one hundred percent and a nice piece of writng my friend deserves handshake and applause here. Thanks for writing what I was going to do myself.
stareyes

RE: Do You Believe in Ghosts?

I believe in ghost or spirit or what ever it called.

I live in my mom house, as this house is big and she only alone. so she asked me to stay in.

the house is big but its a old Colonialism old type of the house, where the area known as a military complex but it released some of the house to own by public or when the retired army want to own the house they could buy it. My death father was an army b4.

and this house are extremely haunted till i write this here. why i said this? coz before we life here, there are an old lady who life here by her self and she was practicing a black magic and from rumors i heard from others old people who live around here/the neighbors, and as the witness of her black magic practice, she did buried about 3 or 4 baby's that fail to be delivered by a pregnant women who came to her for deliver the baby's. she also know as a "traditional doctor" to help deliver the baby to be born.

This kids, always came to me(truly) every year in certain month or moment of the year (like Muslim festive) and ask me to "clean" their house, which they bring me to my Kitchen are, which they called they "house"...every year until now...

i was scary, but never again since it happen only to me every year...my father was told me b4 he died...just pray and let them know that you are not they slave, and they can not demand anything just let you clean their house once a year, while you here...i did.

well, not only that...the old lady, are in our pavilion still...always there, and scary out the thief or people who just hiding without permission at our back yard.

So ghost is there...spirit is there...we have in our beloved house until now...but we let them out of our life, as they can life here as well...no bother us.
micklaanglo
micklaanglo

RE: The Alchemy of Skin and Scent

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micklaanglo

RE: Do You Believe in Ghosts?

Does a Rolls Royce ghost count if thats not to your taste they have a silver ghost . These are real and will set you back of $200,000.
maxicherokee

RE: Building a relationship with your Pet

i love my dog, he loves me, but he wont let me shave 'im! ha! ha! hee! hee!
ammar1st2005

RE: The Overweight Woman is Desirable Too!

hi for all overweight the people very Different From each other
some one like long woman and some one like short woman about my i feel the overweight woman very beautiful i feel overweight woman There has to raise the nationality of more than women thin .
kelinda

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

of course:men and women can be JUST GOOD FRIENDS!hug

I have many good friends that are male.................some i have known so long(since play school) that i regard them more as big brothers!

some i have even shared a bed....... or sofa with after a party drinking wine banana dancingcheers.........and no hanky panky what so ever has taken placescold because we have to much respect for the friendship that we have. handshake we are able to talk about every subject under the sunconversing

we trust each other not to ruin our friendship with a drunken fumble! wave
snot1

RE: The Reckless Games Men and Women Play

you are so right in what you say guys hear what this lady says
Karma10
lifeandmusic

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

lnteresting subject,its a misunderstood situation.Personally ive been in that situation,it takes time to come to a stage in that kind of relationship where an understanding is agreed not to take the relationship further.But most people make judgements.Good friendships no matter what gender last forever
rozaroz
Quetzalteco1964

RE: "Just friends" between a man and a women: myth or reality?

I think it is more difficult or me in Latin American countries because it goes against the expectation that a woman is either all or nothing for me. It was easier for me in Seattle, (Washington, USA) because expectations were different. This is a very interesting topic and I have a lot more to say, but I am curious to see what others think before I say anything else.
Quetzalteco1964

RE: When is it okay to switch from hot date to smart girl??

It depends what you are looking for. If you want a guy who is only after looks, focus on that and don't try to improve your mind.

If you want a guy who just wants to get laid, then he will only care about your looks. I am looking for a serious long-term relationship leading to marriage. This means that I am looking for the whole package. Of course looks are important, but what guy wants to share his life with a shallow moron who can only talk about what color she is going to paint her nails? A true life partner is someone who also has good morals and can be trusted with my life and my possessions (eventaully our possessions). I can't imagine being with a woman who couldn't do the simplest things like buying insurance or hiring a remodeling contractor. I know some guys who are happy with that. They just want a trophy wife who is no good to anyone. I want more than that.
HisNibs

RE: Don't you ever play with anybody's heart!!!!

Awful. But women do this sort of thing too. Ultimately God deals with them. That's the only consolation!

Paul
SuperSexcSoldier

Building a relationship with your Pet

Im talking about a distinct friendship you build with you animal, called trust, companionship, and reliability with your pet, if they come to you when its time to eat, or if they come to u for more water, stuff like that, ofcourse most of the time i just leave the stuff out most people do the same thinking it signifys nothing to the animal, but its not true it lets you actually get to know the animal better depending on what they do right after they get what they want, you should be able to get a view point of where there minds are depending on how playful they are after they get what they want, if they lay back down right after thats usually a sign that they are only giving u a small piece of there attention and they dont respect you, i mean a pet should greet there master, and attempt to gain your attention and respect as well the same way you do yourself, also it never hurts to pretend every now and then that your an animal also, the monkey see monkey do thing really works, it help also if you sleep with your pet in the same room, that changes things also...
manroe23

RE: Don't you ever play with anybody's heart!!!!

I never believe so easly to any of men that i knew from virtual world i always be careful and after read this i thought this is a warning for us not to believe of anyone who we knew just from virtual world wine
Exotic11

RE: Do You Believe in Ghosts?

Interesting article,I do believe very strongly in the spirit world had a few encounters myself one in particular was when I moved into a house when my daughter was 15 months old,hence I didn't stay there for very long.

Although I didn't feel threaten it was mainly annoying,however i don't agree that Mediums,clairvoyants ect are a false religion that is what main stream religion teaches to keep to followers inline,however everyone has the right to believe in what ever they choose.
JeanKimberley

RE: Building a relationship with your Pet

confused
inner child? are you talking about real animal pets, dogs, cats, horses or human "pets"? It is really.... not clear......
Calliopesgirl

RE: Losing Religion

I think you have made many good points- my faith is against most of the same except people showing their bodies. (to create lust)

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