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RE: The Upside of Living Alone

I have to admit there are some pretty good points, but for the not grooming and wearing smelly clothes to be.

I can watch what I want, I like some horror movies, reading, not having to hear, "What are you fixing for supper?" I don't have to wash clothes late at night because someone else needs jeans and by chance forgot to mention it. Even with a 3 yr. old it is less work and aggravation at times.

Sure there are times it would be nice to have someone, but let them have their own place.

RE: Observe His Body Language for Signs He is Falling for You

A word to the wise would be to "Think way outside the box." Men may deny these things, just as a woman may do the same.

RE: What you should know about Online Dating over 50

Well I have a little bit of a grace period before I reach 50, but most people at that stage has grown kids and a life of their own to share.

I am an exception. I stood on the grounds of principle and petitioned for custody of my 3 yr. granddaughter. I had to think of what would be best for her future before my own in doing so. It has been two years since then and how many men want to be around a child at that age?? Maybe even fewer in younger men. I have 15 years until she will be old enough to go to college. I am not looking for a someone to be her Dad, just care for her as much as she would care for them.

So although I have no regrets, I have to wonder how long it may take to find that person who thinks outside the box.

RE: The Danger in Dating a Control Freak

To get a control freak to obtain help would be like trying to make them take a long walk off a short pier. I did not have that once, but in two marriages. You really do not see the signs until it is too late and you hear those chilling words, "You are mine legally and morally and I can do what I want with you." I was told this on both of my wedding nights.

It took time to go from being docile to fighting back. I still have the battle scars from the first one. That marriaged ended in "87." The second time around I was followed again, checked on and accused of dressing "trashy" for college. Who called you this time on your cell phone? I finally told him I was dressing with a low top and jacket to impress my Social Psychology professor because I had an exam that day and wanted to get a good grade. LMAO. I did not think his mouth could drop open that far.

When I filed for divorce he never knew it until he was served with the papers. Even then he tried to use the house that me and my mother paid on as a reason to stop the divorce if I tried to keep it. Keep it hell! I wanted out of there and away from the memories. A year later he lost it anyway and I am still living where I have been since our divorce.

I do not want to remarry because of the fear of confinement.

RE: The Danger in Dating a Control Freak

This article is great!! I married a control freak, made two little girls with her and am now in the middle of a divorce-custody case. It's so sad for our girls, they're innocent!! Insecurity brings the control on with no doubts. Why us guys always have fingers pointed at us like only guys are controllers is beyond me. Reread this article guys and memorize the signs. It just might save you a lot of grief in the future. You guys and gals that are controllers keep in mind, there's a good person inside you try'n to get out. Seek professional help. You'll be amazed what you'll find!!

RE: The Reckless Games Men and Women Play

WOW, me too, I agree with Broncos...and do not want to go into details!

RE: Lottery Scam

exactly the one i got.thanks for the information.

RE: What you should know about Online Dating over 50

OOOH! im nearly there..Hey, perhaps if I age less a year each birthday from now, I will be fine, what do you think lol..any other ideas ?, have any of you had any luck ?

RE: Observe His Body Language for Signs He is Falling for You

This body language thing is BS! If you want to find out if someone might be interested in you, just go up and ask.

RE: Do You Know Who St. Patrick Was?

Any Saint that Makes us get plastered is ok in my book sooooooo slainte St Paddy

RE: What you should know about Online Dating over 50

It sucks no matter what age you are.

RE: The wonder of Astrology

Life would be stunted and narrow if we could feel no significance in the world around us beyond that which can be weighed and measured with the tools of the physicist or described by the metrical symbols of the mathematician.”

Sir Arthur Eddington - (English Astronomer, Physicist and Mathematician, 1882-1944)

RE: How to make Long distance relationships work

Get this!!!! THEY DON"T WORK!!!!

RE: What Do You Do After Making Love To Your Woman?

wsell i ask for more loolx

RE: The Reckless Games Men and Women Play

i totally agree with you broncos.

RE: Just DON'T Do It

easier said than done.

RE: The Ten Worst Presidents

IS THIS FORUM LIMITED TO USA PRESIDENTS ? IF SO THEN LETS NOT HAVE A DEBATE ....LETS TALK ABOUT WORLD WORST PRESIDENTS..COS WE ARE ALL MEMBERS OF THIS WONDERFUL SITE ..THANKS FOR YOUR UNDERSTANDING.........

RE: What Do You Do After Making Love To Your Woman?

cuddle and kiss and chat.
go to a pub and walk around london.
go to free events in london together go to the cinema once a month.
buy her a box of chocolates once a month go dancing in a club.
show her to my parents see her family and try to show good character to them and her.
go out to places in london sight seing causes me to feel more chatty because my mind is active.

RE: Are Online Degrees Credible?

With a degree from a respected uni I must add that the paper is not often used for much more than framing and decorating your office. It tells nothing of your capabilities in the real world.

I would like to see a "field experience" degree developed, it would help immensely when looking for specialised people - it could even lead to hiring old foxes without a traditional degree in the first place.

Now I solve it by handing over a set of problems to be solved within 48 hours. I do not care how they reach result as long as they do, since that is what it is all about.

In some countries it has gone so far that you can not get an ordinary receptionist hired without having to require a bachelor in ba. What is that all about???

RE: How to Say No When It Counts

In my experience women have absolutely no problem saying "NO" even to their own family and loved ones, even when they're 10 or 20 times better off.
Why don't you offer some afdvise on how to say yes to a loved one......?!

RE: The Danger in Dating a Control Freak

This article couldn't be more correct. Not only did I keep my mouth shut, I gained a lot of weight. I would eat instead of saying anything to stand up for my rights and beliefs. Each time he lowered my self esteem, I would eat. It can really do a number on someone.

RE: Humorous Blunder Quotes

That might be the funniest thing I've ever seen.... just goes to show how people really are.

RE: Are Affairs more acceptable for men than women?

Matriarchy is also ugly.

RE: Fear of Feminism

Lol, I see the problem: you are sore because no woman will stay home for you and cook and clean for you like she should!

Perhaps you're unattractive with a small p*nis.



You seem pretty angry

Perhaps you suffer from the lack of a womans love.

I hope you find peace one day.

RE: Fear of Feminism

You also cannot spell.

It is sad that you are so blissfully unaware of how bigoted you really are.

RE: Fear of Feminism

If all men were as retarded as you we'd all be ruling the world - so fortunately, most men possess more intelligence.

We didn't die on the battlefield, huh? No, we stayed home and raised your sons, darling. We worked long shifts in munitions factories.

I hope to goodness you never have a daughter.

RE: Tweaking Your Online Dating Profile to Attract Single Women

leave me and my baby girl alone right she loves me likes me and cares for me ok so back off people.

RE: How to Cure a Broken Heart

very useful hints and tips :) :) :)

RE: You Know It Will Never Work When…

Lol, (I laugh, but in a dry, unamused fashion) this underpins the 10 pointer 'Do You Know Whether He Really Loves You'...I have no doubts in my mind that he doesn't and it cannot work.

I'm getting to rather like this site...

RE: Ten Signs He Really Loves You

I was skeptical when perusing this article because I thought 'Hang on a minute, there isn't a hard and fast, universal criteria that measures what love is, for gods sake'; but even so - having read this I will say that personally speaking, I more or less agree with these ten basic tenets.

After reading this it confirmed what I have suspected for a long, long time. I say 'suspected', but what I mean is 'felt'. I have only been able to answer 'yes' to one of these questions regarding my (now ex) boyfriend. After six years its depressing: but the realisation that, had I read this through during the first year of our relationship - I still would have only been able to answer 'yes' to one of the questions - is even more so.

I have been making excuses for his lack of support/committment/sensitivity for years, and it is time to stop.

Point 4, the comfort thing, really made me sad: if things go wrong for me he blames me - and seems to underpley or ignore what I have achieved.

Jesus - what a sad and desperate woman I must have been.

Anyway. Heres to the future!

RE: Ten Signs He Really Loves You

I was skeptical when perusing this article because I thought 'Hang on a minute, there isn't a hard and fast, universal criteria that measures what love is, for gods sake'; but even so - having read this I will say that personally speaking, I more or less agree with these ten basic tenets.

After reading this it confirmed what I have suspected for a long, long time. I say 'suspected', but what I mean is 'felt'. I have only been able to answer 'yes' to one of these questions regarding my (now ex) boyfriend. After six years its depressing: but the realisation that, had I read this through during the first year of our relationship - I still would have only been able to answer 'yes' to one of the questions.

I have been making excuses for his lack of support/committment/sensitivity for years, and it is time to stop.

Point 4, the comfort thing, really made me sad: if things go wrong for me he blames me - and seems to underpley or ignore what I have achieved.

Jesus - what a sad and desperate woman I must have been.

Anyway. Heres to the future!

RE: What Do You Do After Making Love To Your Woman?

After I make love to one I love with all my heart n soul I usually then take off my jeans n do it all over again so that now we can make love to each other .. Being by this time both ready to totally enjoy the experience ..

RE: Just DON'T Do It

Yeah right!!! This really works!

RE: Why do we sometimes sabotage ourselves..

Well hello i hope u wont a honest ansur. All ar life we were brot up with ferry tails and kin & barby so no one looks at the hart anymore thay look at the out side . Ferry tails ar 4 childern the adalts need to grow up true beauty is in the hart.if u go 4 looks then u will get some one that is stuck on then self and thay wont all of the attchion .that means u will not get any .there 4 its good 4 awile but then u will start filling left out and every one has a hart look deper then face values and look 4 hume thay are u will b suprized