Online dating sites dying?

What do you think? Are online dating sites becoming a thing of old? I know with this site, I hear about how boring the blogs are becoming and therefore people are just not interested in coming to the site as frequently. There is another dating site that I have been on for some time too...and I don't use it hardly at all anymore because it just seems to be a waste of time more than anything else. But, I recently rechecked it out...being bored...and I noticed that the number of users online was significantly less...nearly half as less as I remember it. Perhaps the concept of the dating sites I use (which is only 2) is becoming outdated to some extent and people are finding other means of meeting? Or, perhaps...people don't have any interest on meeting others anymore? Or even more perhaps, maybe I have just not gotten enough information to make any sort of determinations? dunno


Good Thursday all. wave
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I think these sites should be rebranded as virtual dating sites. Online dating does not make any sense.
dunno
Hello Lee,

As I learned from my previous blog about single households and raising children, I think it is possible for children to receive a quality upbringing from a single parent household....but, I would add, it would be very difficult though.

I was raised in a traditional fashion and pretty much all I know. But, I am also not blind either. We are the way we are today for a reason. Evidently, many women were not happy in a traditional style relationship. As to what they were not completely happy with...remains, in my opinion, a little gray. I would like a hybrid traditional relationship. I believe on the level of being a person...whatever you may be...man...woman...etc....we all should be treated equally. And if women are not completely happy with a certain type of relationship, they deserved to be listened to at minimum.

As far as the politics in your comment, I try to stay away from that stuff. There is no way, from how I see it today, for opposing parties to meet in the center at a happy medium. So...with that said, I have no desire to take part in one party's side or the other party's side selfish stance.

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Hello Usha. That is interesting. What do you think? Would anything change with "virtual" dating sites?wave
I think live video streaming on a dating site would be good. It would be a good way of weeding out fakes images, and also reading people's non-verbals with speak for 80% of what they mean. (so I heard)
JS, To understand why so much divide exists between men and women...you first have to accept the truth and the reasons for this anti male environment we are living inprofessor

Without accepting this truth...you are not engaging the subject matter to it's full extent and will end up learning very little about...the massive problems In modern society..

The left do control the education systems across the west and do brainwash the masses...the truth is the truth, but some prefer to close their eyes to the problems, so they are a million miles away from any solution
Let's fill life with more LOVE peace teddybear teddybear
It's what you make of it I have a blast whether it be on sites or in the real world
Lee,

Thank you for that. I do agree with you about needing to understand situations. thumbs up

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Hello Dae,

I think to only show hate, is to more than likely receive hate back....the same with love.

In other words, in many cases, we are what we receive.....it is easy to get caught in a cycle of our own making.

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Hello Merc...yes. thumbs up


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Bell, what you say is the feeling or impression I am getting. Maybe it is something more than just the dating site(s)? But, I get the impression too that people are just a little more unhappier than they once were. BTW, I don't blame the guys for messaging you around the globe, you have a beautiful picture up of yourself.

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Two men just "liked" me.

<<<<<<<<<<<How can you like this pic? laugh
Bellanna,

I'm baffled confused

Why would you persevere with online dating/social media sites if you are seriously looking for someone to date?

Surely you wouldn't have much trouble in securing a date in real life? dunno
Actually I don't. I've been deleting profiles and leaving sites one by one. laugh

I'm still not sure whether to delete this profile as well or stay for fun on forums and blogs. confused

I have to think about it.
Don't leave on my account scold

Have fun, by all means wow
How timely.

Stringman.

The religious doom and gloom merchant who is predicting the end of the world, yet again. laugh

May God have mercy on my soul....help
Good examples What...maybe it is like what Legs said (if I recall right that it was her that mentioned this), people are associating with and trying out the latest things. I don't hardly hear anything about My Space anymore.

Also, an interesting point about people rather showing off than connecting now days. hmmm

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Bell, you could date somebody far away if you moved closer to them. laugh tongue
String...so fitting to who many think, behave, and carry themselves in today's world.

Thanks for sharing.

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In reference to the blogs/forum dying, it is so true. I've been on this site, usually in the forum only and I can tell you that back in the day, the forum (I can't speak for the blogs) was very funny, fun, controversial and very entertaining with very good topics. It was poppin. A lot of the old timers were banned and I'm not sure how many returned under new profiles but it surely has gown down substantially. I miss those days.

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Hello Frisky and welcome to the blogs. I am seeing the same on the blogs here and even on other dating sites...well, one in particular where the number of people on them are decreasing. I guess on the bright side, maybe people are finding their partners and have no more need to be on these.

thumbs up ....if so


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Hi Johnny_Sparton.

Thanks for the warm welcome. I like your optimism and I hope that is true but for people like myself, who weren't/aren't seeking a permanent relationship and only to make friends and come here for the entertainment purposes as in the other features such as blogs/forums, it's a bummer that it has become much less fun and entertaining.

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and you are welcome.
Johnny_Sparton

That is easier said than done, unfortunately but that doesn't mean we can't try.



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Oh I miss Myspace so very much, good old times. But yeah, it's like, at least for me, I don't find any substance in connections anymore. I noticed it happening like 3 or 4 years ago. It's hard to find someone to connect to over the internet! Which is sad, I've met amazing people over the web and had many interesting stories and adventures because of it!
Very true Frisky....being frisky in nature must add a little excitement to one's life just naturally. laugh
What....I do a lot of e-commerce and talking with a large marketing entity, they say a lot of people that do buying online are becoming less trusting. Hmmm...makes me wonder if that can be carried over into the building of relationships, seeing that is a key component to any relationship.

dunno
Bell, most of the dating goes on behind the scenes, through private mail, and not on the public forums.
Bella show some respect when talking to a moderator blushing
Maybe there's a lot of real men in your area.
You are right. There's no use in complaining. laugh

I'm just astonished and sad how fast (?) these dating sites have became so bad. Being an expat, living here and there, I heavily relied on the internet to meet new people. It's hard when you are in a foreign country, especially if you don't speak the language well. My options are shrinking and I guess I started panicking a little. laugh
@pKrema

Thanks for helping me make a decision.

This site is not what I'm looking for.

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@Bellana


Everyone today is or has been an expat...nothing to worry about...
Most of the men in Bulgaria who have profiles on Connecting singles are foreigners...finding a woman that speaks properly their language must be a challenge... laugh
I have never been on another dating site and do not rely on CS to find a partner...but sometimes things happen... I know dating sites have never been a sure solution to find what you want...
Don't tighten your possibilities and you will avoid disappointment and frustration...
A good looking woman like yourself is more prone to be "seen" in the wrong way online...
Stupid and pathetic but true...
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Hello OB and PK. wave
After writing a post on this blog, I got locked out of CS and couldn't log in any more. I continuously got the message that my profile does not exist. I thought that CS deleted my profile because of writing on this blog. It got me very upset. I should have written on funny blogs and threads only.

It was short, but it was fun. I liked this social network part of CS more than a CS dating site.

Stay well and take care! wave
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