Deserted In Your Love?
Not all women are angels and not all men are devils. Or, if you want it the other way around, not all men are saints and not all women are demons. For every man walking around acting like a pig there is a b*tch lurking somewhere else. While they deserve to end up together, it seldom works out that way.For every blog appearing about a man being tormented in his love, there are 10 blogs about women blaming a man – and mostly all men – for their woes. And such blogs are normally swarming with ladies to join the bandwagon ready to condemn men while the absence of men on such blogs sticks out like a sore thumb. What is this; the pot calling the kettle black?
Men love no less intense than women. Men are hurt as easily as women; we just don’t walk around with our hearts on our sleeves. We are too proud to let women know when they hurt us.
I had my share of problems with women as well. In fact every single major problem I had in my life was because of a woman but do I hate them for that? No. Do I blame them for all the trouble? Once again, no. I was stupid enough to allow it. It was my own fault. I did not see the signs because I did not look at them before it was too late.
The signs are always there. Connivers always leave telltales. You only need to look and you will spot them. Your heart is not a toy; why allow people to play with it?
Men, in general, cannot be blamed for the behaviour if some men; just like women, in general, cannot be held accountable for the actions of some women.
We are all in control of our own lives. Take hold of it and don’t allow false-hearted lovers to control it. If you allow it, is your own fault.
A great day to you all and be in control of your own life.
Comments (78)
oh dear....i am so sorry honey....i never thought
i could hurt you... i love you more than 26 hours
of the day my sweetest lover ...
Hmm, ok good bye. I suppose I can look forward to more of this. I get very suspicious when somebody arrives from nowhere and latch onto snippets of the blog and comments to criticize in stead of looking at the message that the blog convey. I also see a lot of blogs I don't agree with but If I don't like it or cannot make a positive contribution, I move on to another.
Have a good day.
You brought a ray of sunshine to my blog in a stormy season. Thanks for dropping in. Enjoy your day.
I've been contributing to the blogs and forums as a member of this site for over four years.
However, I feel you have dismissed me as an outsider.
I also feel dismissed as not having a valid contribution to make because you don't agree with my interpretations, or comments.
So you are still here? I thought you have left.
I'm sorry if you did not understand my blog so well. After all, English is not my mother's tongue and it is well conceivable that I could not match your superior skills in the English language. I hear you even had and English teacher. Bravo!
And I'm sad to lack in your superb writing skills. I just found it funny that many other understood the gist of the blog so much better than you. Seen that you had an English teacher you probably did a few comprehension tests as well. How did you with it? I bet full marks as well.
No, I hate to disappoint you but it does not go about me. I have been happily divorced from my second wife for more than ten years now and as it is I found somebody here on CS. I'm very much at peace with myself; thank you.
How inconsiderate of me.
Thank you for your valuable contribution. Though I do not agree with you I appreciate your input.
That is why I don't like lawyers. They don't listen to the story but rather latch on a few words and try to ridicule the story by using them to get the attention away from what really matters.
Heart....as long as they leave mine intact
I remember Tiekie all to well. Funny enough, I once met him in the street and he was not so nice at all. Re the other issue, back riders you will always get.
SO what are the signs I should look for? I really need your advice on this...I have an eye for one of the member here.
Hmm, you missed all the fun and just prior to that I had some fun and games out here in real life as well.
It is always best to follow your instincts. If you have doubts, let it go.
Do I sound cynical or rude in any way? If so...I apologize
Just so you know, I find your blog very thought provoking at the moment...this could be the blog that would leave a lasting impression on me here on CS.