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When is it when a man is to know for sure if a woman has interest in him...rather than just thinking she might?
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Keepers....so, things are calculated. hmmm


Molly....That is sound wisdom.

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Johnny that's not exclusive to some, everyone only tells you what they want you to know until they trust you, and some never learn to trust anyone. There's more stars in the sky than people who are different. wink
..... on earth. comfort
JS, I thought you might be interested in the married woman, that you mentioned in your other blog, but you want to wait a while and look round for a single woman, because you might be in her friends zone?
What age is she?
Does she have any children?
Is she still young enough to have more children?
Does she mention other men, besides her hubby?
Has she given you any sign at all she is interested? Flirting, using suggestive words, talking about plans that include you?
Does she talk about money a lot?
If she is good looking like you say and talks about money a lot, then the chances are she will have a lot of choices and be looking for a guy with money and a lot of material things?

A good looking woman can get just about any guy she wants and won’t settle for just any guy…So would you dare to tell her how you feel? I would walk away, while no damage has been done and look for a more realistic option, because it sounds to me as if she is going to be looking for prince charming and a lot more
Whether a woman is distractme beautiful,the intention to make
you be forceful to resist her
physically before she mentions
a divorce,regardless the reasons.



rolling on the floor laughing admirable Johnny.
* distractingly
I did get the title,sometimes you
have to write a second blog.

Or I just wait for Robert to make
sense of it all.rolling on the floor laughing


Right after the BJ.
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when you have a discussion and she says she is interested.....that's what big people usually do.....laugh
Heyyy Johnnny,

Just get a friend to go up to her and ask her, "Hey, are you really interested in him (Johnny)? 'Cause he thinks you're really interested in him." laugh

There you go! Simple as that! cheers
That does make a lot of sense...there has to be the process of trust built and established. To me it is suspicious when you are in the trust building process and the person you are communicating with wants you to be unconditionally trusting. hmmm


Thanks Keeper.

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Lee,

No damage has been done. She is mid 20's, with 2 children already.

You know...if a person would follow the Bible to a T, being with a divorced woman (in most cases), is in fact committing adultry. conversing

I think she might be more interested in drinking alcohol and just going with the flow of the wind. dunno

Money was not talked about that much.

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Ash,

She was being very flirtatious....lets say. At the time married, I respect the vows of marriage.

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Yes Ash...Robert has a knack for uncovering the true meanings of my blogs. laugh thumbs up
Usha....lovely and great advice.

I wonder if the more unattractive ladies are used to asking guys....

...and the more attractive ones have been approached so many times, they only know that the man should ask her. hmmm

BTW, I already have a gut. laugh
Thank M4. laugh
Beautiful Robert. Too bad you did live closer. However, my buddy Bert is back in town. Could I? hmmm grin
You know Robert, the last time I was going to pursue....the water got cold real quickly. blues That was through a friend of mine...through his new girlfriend...who was a girlfriend to the lady I was interested in. All I kept on hearing through the chain was.....ask her. laugh No inside information. mumbling
Why not inviting her outside for a coffe chat... The best way to know is watching her body language.

Personally I believe that people who are going true process of divorce are not emotionally and mentally ready to get involved in another relationship, it takes time (maybe a few years) to process everything...

Some times 'right people' come in a bad time...and other times 'wrong people 'come in the right time lol.
When he has a pocket full of money, any man, is sure to know that, any woman, will be most interested in him without any doubt......
Not true Hillow, and it doesn't serve you well to underestimate women either. scold
That's false Hilow.

Most women, have no interest in how much or how little $ a man has.

Note well: Most not All.
Johnny,

You'll just know when she's keen.

There will be cues, subtle and not so subtle.

....if you're able to "read" her.
Blog: mental masturbastion(by Johnny_Sparton)..

Johnny you were in deep when typing here rolling on the floor laughing guess your brain was very much occupied with doing the master-something than typing.. here we call it Annie Palmer and her 5 fingers rolling on the floor laughing .


(the hand , the palm and the 5 fingers )

but seriously doesnt women do that too? think if a man is interested in her?

if you want to know if a woman is interested in you dont show her your wallet , dont take her out in no posh car, and never a expensive restaurant ,, nice but not expensive .. another thing pretend to be sick and see how well she cares for you..

a true woman will love and care for you even if you cant afford the expensive stuff in life.
thats my thought on the subject .
Do what other adults do - talk to her. wine
Georgie I love what you wrote.
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thank you Ashlander,,handshake
RainB,

I do agree. That is not a good time, right after a divorce. So, you recommend us men to become maybe not so much mind readers, because body language interpreters will suffice. grin

Good advice though Rain...seriously. thumbs up

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Hilo....hello.

Nothing can be any further from the truth....just ask any woman. laugh What is it that I heard....the second marriage of a woman is for money? wow That cannot be.

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Berry.....hello.

Another recommendation for the reading of body language, and perhaps verbal cues and a quick little nibble on my ear? laugh

I do agree, body language....including just general proximity can be a clue.


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Excellent Georgie. :) Here it is Rosie Palm, and her five daughters. laugh


So, by not exposing anything about money, a man is suppose to organically gain attraction and be able to get away with taking her to McDonalds for lunch.....and if she is super special, maybe dessert at a service station with a small packet of ketchup? grin

Certainly great advice though Georgie. Nice to see you around. :)

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Kn, your advice is so simple in theory....and very much the way it should be. But.....

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Johnny,

I'd have to go with Kn.....if in doubt, just ask her.

You may be pleasantly surprised.....wave
So she hasnt jumped your bones.she is not into you...
Berry....I agree with you. However, before asking her, I think paying close attention to her non-verbal communication will help in determining if one is wasting their time or not.

Blue....some women are shy. grin

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Molly, I also heard it depends on which way the wind is blowing that day too. laugh Thanks for the additional info.

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