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Imagination running riot?
I now take paying guests and I've had one here for a couple of weeks now and I might be turning into one of those slightly batty types who think every man who greets them politely is about to attack them, or something. He's charming, attractive, and very attentive. He's always been chatty but when my buddy was here it was impossible to avoid him because we were sitting out most of the time, and we both teased him a bit. Beginning to wish we hadn't.
He's really younger - mid 30s. So it's ridiculous to think he is chatting me up and I know that. But every time I go onto the terrace to have a cig he appears 2 seconds later and wants to talk and talk and talk and I eventually have to make an excuse and go back inside because he doesn't stop talking otherwise and it isn't just a guy talking to a wise old owl, it's - well, put it this way, if he was 20 years older, this would be a very different kind of blog. If I mentioned it at all.
I do know lots of men literally can't stop themselves flirting with any female between 10 and 100, it's a reflex and they don't know how to talk to women without flirting. Also some men would quite cheerfully take on a dotty old broad temporarily if there was a profit in it, or he really could quite literally be a bit lonely and would rather practice his English than his Spanish (neither is his home language). He could even think I am as funny and good company as he keeps telling me I am. However, the more he says it, the more I think hmm, really?
The upshot is that I am sitting inside rather than enjoying my own cool terrace in this crashing heat and yes the advice I have been given is set better ground rules with the next long-stay guest, or lock off part of the terrace for myself, and I will, next time. But I have 10 days still to get through and whether I'm an idiot or not, I feel uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it.
And I shall probably delete this blog, by the way. It embarrasses me.
He's really younger - mid 30s. So it's ridiculous to think he is chatting me up and I know that. But every time I go onto the terrace to have a cig he appears 2 seconds later and wants to talk and talk and talk and I eventually have to make an excuse and go back inside because he doesn't stop talking otherwise and it isn't just a guy talking to a wise old owl, it's - well, put it this way, if he was 20 years older, this would be a very different kind of blog. If I mentioned it at all.
I do know lots of men literally can't stop themselves flirting with any female between 10 and 100, it's a reflex and they don't know how to talk to women without flirting. Also some men would quite cheerfully take on a dotty old broad temporarily if there was a profit in it, or he really could quite literally be a bit lonely and would rather practice his English than his Spanish (neither is his home language). He could even think I am as funny and good company as he keeps telling me I am. However, the more he says it, the more I think hmm, really?
The upshot is that I am sitting inside rather than enjoying my own cool terrace in this crashing heat and yes the advice I have been given is set better ground rules with the next long-stay guest, or lock off part of the terrace for myself, and I will, next time. But I have 10 days still to get through and whether I'm an idiot or not, I feel uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it.
And I shall probably delete this blog, by the way. It embarrasses me.
What do you want to do when you like someone
Hey guys, when someone catches your eyes, who is so hot and beautiful, what do you want to do them in ways of expressing how much you like them and ladies a handsome guy you couldn't resist saying hello. It's just a thought ladies.
The best revenge !
Yesterday i have lunch with one of Indonesian singer, Daniel Sahuleka, maybe some of you know his songs. He was a real nice guy. He is here to Indo for a holiday , i love his music and his vocal, and he is also my sisters neighbor there in Holland.
So it was pretty much a happy day for me.
But the next morning my ex bf who happen to see this pic since its on my phone messenger, starts to talk about how depressed he is at 5 am in the morning my time.
He went on and on about how he felt so alone, and he is trying to break free from this situation.
He also said he wished he can sleep forever...
Okay, where did i heard i that before ? oh wait , i heard that so many times when im still talking to him.
As matter of fact i heard that every day on autumn and winter time and he kick me out of the picture on summer time
I mean, seriously ? have you not any other line to say to me ? Because now you cant drag me in again on your cauldron of misery. Why? because yes i like you, but thanks for you blowing everything up before, now i can see that the sun shines better when im not with him. A much better season in the sun.
With you is all rain and drama, every single day its only fights and even if its done in the name of love by God its not even romantic.
Maybe im not that desirable in his eyes financially when he leave me out of the picture last summer and cancel his trip to meet me.
But at the time we cancel the meet im actually having meaningful progress at work.
Frustrated by the fact that i was treated not nice by a guy that i trusted, I decided to see if the Banks would find my present situation desirable instead.And they did.
So i flash out and brag about it to my ex bf and guess what, he wanted me to be back in our messenger that very day proposing "the" question, would you still plan to come here to the US and see me ?
So i said why not , but i will see my friends , not just you.
Remember, you blow our plan on the last minute. Im trying to understand him that its really not nice to give him hard time , assuming that he cancel the plan because he cant finance it.
But then after sometimes, i realize, there is nothing to understand.
Yes love and hate are only separated by thin line, but He is miserable that i can be happy, and he is happy if he can make me miserable.
And after this morning i can see that clearly.
He ask me are you happy lately ? hoping that i would say i missed him , but i said instead, im content.
The best part is after his suicidal preference , he logged out, perhaps he is thinking that i will then catch his negative mood.
Well, that grinch cant steal my happiness now.
But i will be nice to him, not because of him, but because im a nice person. My mother taught me so
But im done with him.Done !
Moral story : the best revenge to the people who like to see you fail is your own success.
Don't waste time hating and hurting other people , it cant be accounted as achievements.
My suggestion is when you have to deal with this kind of person is get even or get over it.
People can try to make us react the way they want us to but don't fall for that trick, our reaction is exclusively ours , no one can take that given right away from us and because it can make a great impact in our life we should be very responsible with it too.
Tomorrow i will head to the beach for the week end with my family. I can feel the sunshine already.
Here is a song from the guy on the picture above, Mr Daniel Sahuleka
Have a good week end peeps. Be happy
So it was pretty much a happy day for me.
But the next morning my ex bf who happen to see this pic since its on my phone messenger, starts to talk about how depressed he is at 5 am in the morning my time.
He went on and on about how he felt so alone, and he is trying to break free from this situation.
He also said he wished he can sleep forever...
Okay, where did i heard i that before ? oh wait , i heard that so many times when im still talking to him.
As matter of fact i heard that every day on autumn and winter time and he kick me out of the picture on summer time
I mean, seriously ? have you not any other line to say to me ? Because now you cant drag me in again on your cauldron of misery. Why? because yes i like you, but thanks for you blowing everything up before, now i can see that the sun shines better when im not with him. A much better season in the sun.
With you is all rain and drama, every single day its only fights and even if its done in the name of love by God its not even romantic.
Maybe im not that desirable in his eyes financially when he leave me out of the picture last summer and cancel his trip to meet me.
But at the time we cancel the meet im actually having meaningful progress at work.
Frustrated by the fact that i was treated not nice by a guy that i trusted, I decided to see if the Banks would find my present situation desirable instead.And they did.
So i flash out and brag about it to my ex bf and guess what, he wanted me to be back in our messenger that very day proposing "the" question, would you still plan to come here to the US and see me ?
So i said why not , but i will see my friends , not just you.
Remember, you blow our plan on the last minute. Im trying to understand him that its really not nice to give him hard time , assuming that he cancel the plan because he cant finance it.
But then after sometimes, i realize, there is nothing to understand.
Yes love and hate are only separated by thin line, but He is miserable that i can be happy, and he is happy if he can make me miserable.
And after this morning i can see that clearly.
He ask me are you happy lately ? hoping that i would say i missed him , but i said instead, im content.
The best part is after his suicidal preference , he logged out, perhaps he is thinking that i will then catch his negative mood.
Well, that grinch cant steal my happiness now.
But i will be nice to him, not because of him, but because im a nice person. My mother taught me so
But im done with him.Done !
Moral story : the best revenge to the people who like to see you fail is your own success.
Don't waste time hating and hurting other people , it cant be accounted as achievements.
My suggestion is when you have to deal with this kind of person is get even or get over it.
People can try to make us react the way they want us to but don't fall for that trick, our reaction is exclusively ours , no one can take that given right away from us and because it can make a great impact in our life we should be very responsible with it too.
Tomorrow i will head to the beach for the week end with my family. I can feel the sunshine already.
Here is a song from the guy on the picture above, Mr Daniel Sahuleka
Have a good week end peeps. Be happy
Men....attract women and keep them.
This gentleman has been getting tons of attention lately and praise from men all over and from all status.
What do you think of his teachings?
...and women, what do you think?
Is this guy nailing female nature or what?
This is the stuff that feminism has released to the world.
Once we are all on the same page of human nature, there will be no more deceit, manipulation, and true happiness will follow.
What do you think of his teachings?
...and women, what do you think?
Is this guy nailing female nature or what?
This is the stuff that feminism has released to the world.
Once we are all on the same page of human nature, there will be no more deceit, manipulation, and true happiness will follow.
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what is relationship? why do people break it? i need good answer
True Love
True love comes from the heart. Distance doesn't matter. If the love is true... Love will bring you together.
How do you get off?
Hopefully not in the same way this woman does.
Mississippi woman charged with having sex with dog, says she was ‘forced’
If you want to date her, her name is Denise Frazier. I am sure the court room will be crowded on the day of her trial. Read about her at:
Mississippi woman charged with having sex with dog, says she was ‘forced’
If you want to date her, her name is Denise Frazier. I am sure the court room will be crowded on the day of her trial. Read about her at:
Did you ever get that feeling?
You're about to do something and you get that little voice in the back of your head whispering 'don't do it.' but you go ahead anyway. Have you ever done that?
Well I did recently and ignored that little voice! Hah! It earned me got a good kicking this morning and I still haven't recovered consciousness fully yet. Now the little voice is going, 'Idiot, told you, maybe you'll listen next time. Haha!'
Well I did recently and ignored that little voice! Hah! It earned me got a good kicking this morning and I still haven't recovered consciousness fully yet. Now the little voice is going, 'Idiot, told you, maybe you'll listen next time. Haha!'
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