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It has been what....3...4 years, maybe? And yes, I have returned. I have missed many of you here.

Please tell me...how have you been? Any crucial milestones? Exciting lifetime events?

I've actually missed the blogs, bloggers and blogettes lol

Some of you may remember me, some new faces too.....I'm looking forward to interacting with all of you once again :-)

~Red

A Bf ? A GF? Wife ? Husband ?

I'm quite happy with my life at the moment, done my share of breaking hearts so I'm trying to live a quiet life now. Waiting for someone special but might be tempted to go on a date one of these days., when life gets too boring you know

All these bickering here on blogs, political arguments, name -calling are about to crash this dating site so might be a good idea to put more effort in finding someone special here while this site is still here

Do you know any friends here, who meet someone here, then actually meet in person and be together?

Just want to know whether this dating site really works.

Oh I met someone here back in 2012, then met him in person November 2012 when I was on my trip to Europe then we decided to give it a try. We met again January 2013 in Vietnam (he was already made a plan to travel to Chine before we met, so we agreed to meet in the middle where I don't need visa). It went well actually and on March he visited me for my birthday. But on May we called it off for some reasons.

Actually there are 2 things I want to know; does dating site and long distance relationship works?

Have you ever met someone you meet here in person and how did it go? Mind sharing your experience?

I’m seeing a man who is straight as a die and has a personality built on rock. We occasionally do not see eye to eye, which is quite a shock, because my best male buddy is a chameleon. You know the type I mean? expert at being the person you want them to be.

Are chameleons bad? No. They are fun, sympathetic, empathetic, in tune with you, because you ARE the tune. The stronger your personality, the more they will align with you.

Are they cruel and deliberately deceitful? No. They don't do it on purpose, they can't help it. Their attraction to you is real, they like the person you make them become.

Are they trustworthy? Duh, no. When they get tired of the tune, or find an easier one, or feel too pressured by the personality you have given them, they will vanish.

Do you walk away? It is hard to walk away from someone who suits you so perfectly.

So - enjoy the friendship, why not? You’ve made friends with yourself, you know. Just take advice from Auntie Elegsabiff, don't fall in love, as it could hurt deeply when it ends, who wants to be rejected by themselves?? (You haven't been. Re-read)

Think of it rather as finding out you really do like yourself and you enjoy your company very much. Looked at that way, it isn’t altogether a bad thing. Just a bit – unreal.

And look for real friends. They're much harder work, mind you

Love and relationship that started from or based on deception...

I'm just wondering why some people go for someone who's already in relationship with someone else...could be someone's BF/GF, Wife/Husband ? I'm sure many will succeed in breaking up a relationship and getting the person they want...but would it result to a happy ever after?

Would you consider dating someone who's hurt/hurting/willing to hurt someone just to be with you? There's a possibility that he/she will do the same to you , will you trust him/her ?

Marriage/relationship wreckers...does love really justify their madness?

Happy Monday everyone

When it comes to beauty.

Many women respond to beauty on an emotional level...how somebody's looks make them feel. That is why women fight among themselves...well maybe not fight so much (but sometimes)....but for sure compete over beauty. Who has the better dress? Whose hair is stunning? Whose breast...whose...shoes... We don't even want to get into make up. There are countless sources of information out there for women with make up.

Then of course, the insults will come out between them if they are competing for the same guy. The snide remarks are made, the "tooling" of their opponent in a public situation is the best battlefield.

Where do women make their mistake most of the time?

Well, most women perceive life from their own perspective. It is called "self-projecting." They basically apply their perception on a situation from the way they would handle it...from the way they feel about it.

Feminism was a beautiful thing for men. Because, feminism encourage women to be women. Be who you are. Let it all out. "Do what feels good." Then of course it lead into the s*xual revolution for women. Men got educated to women's nature. ...or ease of manipulation.



Before feminism, women would have been right...for the most part. Beauty is beauty and men and women both have been led to it like a moth to a flame. (side note: it is said that up to 50% of women are bi-s*xual). Like a moth going to that flame, there was no logical rational being used in the moth making its decision...It just mindlessly went to the flame.

After feminism, not now with men. Men have learned their lesson, when many of their souls have been ripped from their being. Their lives were destroyed. They lost their children and sometimes women would convince the children to actually hate the father. They lose half of their wealth. Some men lost their lives, lost their jobs, lost their homes.

You see, most women don't go through that. They instead go through what makes them feel good. For many, that is having many men on their speed dial...and a mission to suck as much money from the man.

You beautiful women, the mistake you make is that you believe everyone responds to beauty equally. I will give you this, an ignorant man might; however, a man who went through the ringer, won't.

What would you do if you have been talking with someone....someone whom tells you that they love you and you love them. This same someone you have never met in real life (in person). Everything has been over the internet...for years, you have been communicating with them...they talk about how they need your financial help, and they love you and you love them...so, you send them money whenever they ask for it. You do it with a smile on your face.

What would you do if you were in that situation...only to find out...that this person you have been talking to, sharing your love with, them sharing their love with you....giving them money....giving them gifts...what would you do if you found out that you are 1 of 100's that this person has been accepting money, gifts, and love from.


This situation does exist in today's world.

Would you continue giving your hard earned money to them, given them gifts...and giving them your love?

LITERALLY!






PRAYERS TO A FRIEND.

As I ponder what it is that each gender wants in a partner, I cannot help but think that there are going to be inevitable conflicts within the opposite gender we seek.

Are we destined by life to be partners? I would say yes. We need to reproduce to be life...otherwise life itself would no longer exist. In order to create life, we need to partner up.

So therefore, we need to pick a partner we wish or want to procreate with.

For a woman, she desires security. That could be a tall guy. That could be a wealthy guy. That could be a well adapted socially intelligent guy. That might be a physically strong guy. The list goes on. Many (if not all) women want all of these traits in the guy they choose to reproduce with.

The problem is, God did not design all men in such a way to satisfy all women. If all men were tall, there would be no tall men. There needs to be short men in order to have tall men. If all men were physically strong, there would be no strong men. There needs to be physically weak men in order for there to be strong men. .....and so on and so on.

The same can be said about men's desires with the woman he wants to reproduce with....she is to be young, she is to be healthy looking (hair & breasts). She is to be of an agreeable nature. She is to be nurturing.

Not all women are these traits.

So why did God create such variations of humans?

Maybe the answer to that question has to do with Life's Big Picture.

Perhaps our purpose.

Remember, we need to partner up to have life in the first place. Need....

Maybe we are here to test our ego, to test our vanity, to test our level of selfishness.....how much will we bend to our personal desires? Will we bend to our personal desires to the point where we will eliminate ourselves...deny life; thus, deny ourselves?

It has been awhile since I last talked about feminism and its dangers to society.

I am curious, what do people on here think about feminism today?

...good
...bad
...indifferent