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They call it the soft guy era...Drizzle Drizzle movement.

Basically, men are now starting to have their own high standards. These standards are very similar to women, some even say they are the same standards that women have been preaching for the last years.

Some of these standards are:

Women must have money.
They must pay.
They must have high quality physical attributes.
They must also tolerate the lack of appreciation from men.
They must buy the ring for men.
They must approach men.
They must provide them with a lavish lifestyle.
....the list goes on....on the same requirements women have required of men for years.

This movement suggest men stop paying women for anything...that means stop your OF subscriptions, don't pay for dates, don't pay rent, don't pay for anything. In fact what it means, now that women have the same earning potential as men, it means that women pay men. Some even suggest that construction workers even leave their jobs and let women do them. Keep in mind folks, this is just what I am hearing and I am sharing here for you.

What do you think women and men of this? I just am learning about it as I type this.


What I think of it? I think it is cute.

I think it is about time that men pursue their happiness.

Let me ask you men, when women have been making all these crazy high demands, what has that gotten you? The real statistics are there: women are only going after the top 5 to 10% of men...leaving the remaining 90%+ men useless to them.

As I predicted, this recent multi-wave woman movement will lead to a beautiful life in the end. When I mean beautiful life, I mean beautiful for both men and women.

Women ran too far.

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Men are logical problem solvers. It was a matter of time when men would come up with a solution to the problem. Is this the solution??

Being a woman of a certain age. Being a woman of a certain age, single and from a certain country I found that the afore variables have cast a shadow on my being a perspective mate. With all that highlighted one would be forced to believe one is tainted.
Truth reveals that's not the case at all. Men are scared and badly tainted. Most men though they at in search and affirm the desire of a "fair maiden" will refrain and bolt from said maiden declaring a farse by today's reality.
They are good people from both sexes who are for real exactly what they present. To be Atypical is not to be trusted. Trust is lost in many males that I have conversed with.
Its expected that women of a certain age cannot be tamed and are probably damaged. Many men are damaged by these damaged women. Even Though committed to the quest for the woman who will soothe his wounds, he never thought to consider, will I accept that she is the real thing?

With the baggage of his past damaged relations, coupled with nuiances of cyber dating how does he trust reality, when he expects to be scammed or worse has found it better to have no expectations? No expectations no disappointment.
How does a woman who is great place emotionally and mentally navigate defensiveness from being plain damaged and undateable?

Where are you emotionally? Mentally? How willing are you to invest in a potential partner? Investment goes beyond a financial bail out. The person you meet may have just passed a cross roads or it at the cross roads, would you take the risk? Would your past experiences send red flags and release the flood gates of anger?

So much baggage comes with pretty females. Bad habits, old boyfriends, kids, crazy family?

Is there anywhere in Dublin a "single"-party on this new years eve?
Has anybody planned a party?
What are you doing this year or where are you going to welcome the new year?
I don't wanna sit on the sofa watching silly shows on tv again.

i thought i would get lots of interest on here after 5 months 1 message couple nice comments don t think i can improve my profile maybe most women on here a little nervous if i get interest n i like their look or profile i don t hesitate come on ladies don t be shy prove me wrong.

Remember girls, love is just dopamine. A chemical in the brain. That's why it hurts so much when you're away from your 'love'. You are addicted to dopamine and you coming down from a high.

I recently got an email from guy describing himself as open minded person and willing to try new things.To him "trying new things and being open minded" meant stripping for him. Thats why i had to ask,what does these mean to you?....

If a woman is married to an uncommunicative man, she has the choice of talking to herself, not very satisfactory, or else sharing with friends, or even strangers. That is considered acceptable to all. Right?

When a man is married to a nonsexual wife, he has the choice of doing it with himself, not very satisfactory, or else doing it with friends, or even strangers. That is considered acceptable to all. Right?

Wrong.
It's not acceptable to all, very few indeed.

The woman may not want to leave her marriage because she doesn't want to break up the family, especially if the kids are small, but at least she has an outlet for her frustrations.

The man may not leave his marriage because he doesn't want to break up the family, especially if the kids are small, but he is left with no outlet for his frustrations.

Sex is a form of communication, a basic human need, especially to men. Just as sharing a conversation is to women.

Does society place unfair restrictions on one human need over another?

Beware Of the Type Of Women You Bring Home

I need your help.

I have a confession to make and I don't know what steps to take next.

I have a crush on a CS member. He has no idea. We chat here and there, mostly just banter on the blogs, and I try to keep things sounding platonic because he gives no indication of having any interest in me beyond friendship.

What do I do??