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I want to know from others experience in regards to CS. I am here to actually meet someone in my area- CA. I am getting messages from other States and Countries at times. I unfortunately do not get many messages. The profiles seem too good to be true, like written from a romance novel. I've chatted to men who are widowed, stationed in Africa lol and asked for email to chat. I think the whole site is entertaining I guess but not realistic to meet someone. One said just from 2 emails he was in love and wanted me for marriage. It's all like the show CAtFiSH. At least no scammers for money. Definitely don't have any. haha. So, is this site legit or a weird joke ?

I have discussed...this subject before...but it was a while ago

As some women have stated...it's not the 1950s anymore...women have their own income and property...so why do so many women...still want the man to pay for the meal

a novel idea...would be a woman offering to foot the whole bill for the meal..like so many men have done...throughout history..never complaining...just opening their wallets up...paying the bill and leaving a tip too

What i did with my exe...she paid and the nxt time i paid...fair is fair

Feel free to share your views...on this most interesting of subjects...that effects so many of us

Is it ok to accept proposals from boys of 2-7-10 years younger than me? crazy boys

Maybe they are just like kids with curiosity, eagerness and craziness to discover things

Please give me someone right Mister God or do you want me to try these little boys? haha. omg

Summer heat is killing my roses real fast



Just saw them bloom in the morning but in late afternoon they became like this

What happened 2 ur network?
I tried 2 call u but the operator said
“Welcome 2 the jungle, the monkey u r trying to call is on the tree….Plz try later.”

Newest email...first contact

“Baby, I'd be all over you like a Rash.”

Any of you think you can help this poor fellow out with a better opening line?

Long distance love also has some advantages. I think oftentimes in life our relationships take too much emphasize on the physical. We become attracted to one another on a physical level, we enjoy time together, and so we consummate the relationship. Sex is a very powerful exchange of energy and should be entered into only when you are sure you want to entangle your energy with another, because it seriously connects you on an etheric level. I personally find that the distance is a gift. It gives you the opportunity to connect spiritually, energetically and emotionally. It’s time to really get to know someone, and when you do spend time with one another you are grateful for every second that you have together. So often couples who live together or see each other very frequently forget their love and they take each other for granted. Of course, it’s natural and human to crave touch and affection, but it’s important to keep your thoughts focused on the positive and not what you feel is lacking. This goes for anything in life, thoughts of lack cannot attract.

Your natural state is one of peace and harmony. You are love, it is within you. It is not your partner’s responsibility to complete you. Sorry folk’s but the ole’ Jerry Macguire line “You complete me” is not one you really want to hear. You are already complete, whole and beautiful. When two people who realize their individual whole-ness come together in union it is beautiful and complimentary of one another, and an incredible force of Divine power.
Focus on the present. Look forward to seeing one another in the future but be sure to enjoy and marinate in the love of the moment. Don’t put up a dam between self and love, which is truth. There is no point of being sad and missing someone, it interferes with vibration. Time is something that in truth does not exist. All you ever have is right now and right now you are love eternal. Feel the joy of heaven on earth for that is the only reality that is true and worth your thought.

Only love is real… our appearance world is not…love is anywhere…love is everywhere…love knows no time nor distance…long distance love is possible.

I believe we are here to find that missing someone in our lives , thuo maybe it's not a case to others but that's mine purposely!
However some peeps are funny them profiles are; you divorced, you separated but you claim to know how to handle a lady/man gently with love and care..hahaha

My heart beats only for you..
You've captured my heart and touched my soul like no other.
You constantly make me smile and there's never a moment
that goes by that I don't think of you.
Today and always, beyond tomorrow, I need you beside me,
always as my friend, lover and forever soul mate.
As long as you're in my heart and I am in yours,
there is no distance great enough that our love can't travel.
Someday I know it shall come true and I promise you,
I shall wait no matter how long for that day, because
I found my kind of love in you and I know no one else
can give me that. I love you with everything I am,
and more than anyone ever thought possible.. I

Well....at least for me.....


Went to the American Embassy on Friday morning with really high hopes........



Only to have 'em dashed....crushed


The rejected my US visa application

I slowly walked out of the embassy in a state of disbelief. Called Art and bawled my eyes out the moment I heard his voice. Told him that the interviewer was not convinced I'd come back to Malaysia. She felt that I'd remain in the States illegally. She didn't say that outrightly but was implying it heavily.

Still reeling in disappointment and feeling utterly ludicrous about the whole rejection, I listened to Art with tears rolling down my cheeks I could hear desperation in his voice because he was feeling helpless and hapless....


My poor Art, the next few days, he sent me lovely messages in order to cheer me up. After mulling over it for a day and a half ( ) I decided to NOT let it ruin my day

Since I can't go to my darling Art ( for the time being...), he has decided to come to me instead! Planning is underway for his second visit to Malaysia in early July.

Hmmmm.....lemme see Shall we go to Penang or Malacca this time around? Or maybe Borneo???

I love you all my friends.... but it is the time for me to say good bye forever...

I met someone, no matter where he is coming from and I am happy....

thank you CS.... one half years I am with you. and that's enough...

I am so sorry for anything I said if anyone got offended by me...
I have many friends from here... lovely.
I also know there are many people hate me.. but I dont hate them.

anyhow.... it was nice to see you here and good bye...

I will miss you....