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When I go shopping I want to know what I'm buying don't you? so with that being said post a pic already! please ladies don't hide that pretty face of yours I'm just saying

If you are real, can keep a conversation going, sincere, does not hide, nor hide secrets, are truly honest, I would love to hear from you. If you live in the state of Washington, even better. I am fairly new to this state and would enjoy the company of someone sincere. Are you the one?
Even if a relationship of love doesn't take place, friendship will happen, and that is acceptable.

Do you have the same outlook as I? What is your opinion of my blog?
Looking forward to hearing honesty.

There are as many answers for this as there are factors determining the result.

I am a man. A man that has had no s*xual or intimate contact in years.
I was tested 8 months after my last s*xual encounter and I know I have no STIs. I want to remain in that condition. I already raised a family and I am not looking to raise another.
I know that sex feels great and want it again.

I am looking for a relationship with the right woman that includes sex but is not founded on sex. There are many things that are important to me, sex being one, but a major one.

On the first date, I know it can get really hot, burning hot. Unlike those men in the movies, I am not one to try to trick a woman into having sex with me. I could, but I don't. It is always up to the woman to determine how far it goes. If I don't want it - I will stop it, just as I would expect her to do.

At my age, sex is two consenting adults enjoying what feels good. It is not punishment or revenge. It is not a triumph or a tally mark. When I am with a woman that is wanting sex with me and I feel the same it is dishonest to her, and myself, if we do not act on our desires.

By the time sex is in the question on the first date there had to have been some kind of compatibility first. If that date leads to sex which leads to a second date the sex was also a compatibility factor in that relationship.

People change after sex. I have seen it. I am looking for compatibility after the sex. Once those urges are sated, do you still want to be with each other. Hold them, hear them talk and be intimate. Sex on the first date can tell much about the other person.

On the other hand, not having sex on the first date is good too. If you are not sure your date is being honest with you it could lead to more trouble than it is worth. If there is no connection between the two of you and the intimacy is being pushed, the sex probably means nothing to them.

Then there is the delusion that religion or morality keeps you from enjoying yourself. Someone that 'blames' "the way they were brought up" as a reason for not being an adult and making their own decisions will probably have other factors in their lives that they 'blame' instead of making their own decisions and knowing their own desires.

No sex on the first date says "I don't trust you with my desires" when that date gets hot. If it gets hot and they say "Not yet" and set up a second date it might be because they are not sure of something. If there is going to be no sex on the first date, do not let the encounter get intimate or hot.

The whole reason people date is to determine if the other is compatible with their desires. You are looking for someone to be intimate with, sex is but one form of intimacy. Before you agree to date someone your first instinct is to find someone that you would love to have sex with. If they repulse you when you look at them you will not go on a date with them. Unless you are looking for something else. Money, mannerisms or social status...etc. There is nothing wrong with dating for those reasons as long as you are honest about it and both of you agree on it. After all, we are adults.

If I date a woman and I find her attractive and she also finds me attractive and we want sex on the first date, why should either of us not be honest?

Could I have meaningless sex on the first date?
Sure, it feels good. If she can convince me that she is clean, free of blood-borne pathogens, not insane and wants me too.

Last evening I engaged in conversation with a woman from Europe I've never contacted previously. As a matter of fact, I rarely look at who is online. I just will comment on blogs when I come on CS. But last night a woman's face profile caught my eye. So, I read on and found the woman's profile interesting enough to facilitate an email chat.

I will describe the adventure to my days of being a recreational pilot, it has significance in the realm of take off and landings. Before take off a complete physical of the outer craft must be made. Looking for any stress fractures while checking the prop to the tail of the plane..including gas tank levels since gauges cannot always be trusted. After the outside part is accomplished there was an 18 point checklist in the cabin that needed to be made before taxiing to the runway.

So, I did my physical check on her, one profile picture of her face and that was it......semi

Hair....check
Eyes....check
Education...check
Location....check
Height....check
Profile....double check (loves to travel)
Age....check
Sign....check

So, ready for take off...

The windsock lied, (it shows wind direction), I went right into a headwind after my first email. She made a comment that I didn't read her profile carefully (I read it twice). After explaining my comment she understood where I was coming from. I needed to speed the engine to get it off the ground. Whew!!! made it. Started climbing to 3,500 feet, so far smooth no turbulence. Arrived at altitude, leveled off and started looking for other craft. One spotted above me, so I veered in the opposite direction. All is well, until she says here's my email I'm not here all the time (Red Flag). Her last comment was a kiss goodnight (Red Flag).Then coming in for the landing I hit a little high on the runway and blow a tire. The plane veers to the left out of control hits a ditch rolls over and explodes into a ball of flames......

After our chat I went back to look at her profile and it was most likely hidden (not deleted). (Red Flag) So, I googled her pic and found another CS profile with her pic and a different name, but all the details from age to sign to hair/eyes were all different. (Red Flag) So, I google her email address...nothing found....I then searched FB and once again nothing.

As some are aware here, I made a mistake a while back, so I am extra cautious going forward....We exchanged some 20 or so emails and I enjoyed the chat. Her english was perfect and you could tell she was an intelligent woman......does anyone tell the truth online??? or are we so busy trying to outwit the scammers????

Moral of the story: if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck.....it might not be a duck.......

Many people believe that there is somebody for everybody, and singles looking for love have the world, quite literally, at their fingertips with the seemingly endless supply of online dating sites and mobile apps, like C.S and dozens of others offer something for everyone. And the odds for success are pretty good considering the number of people you can find from different countries at the same site.
In a virtual world, or social net, players have the ability through their avatar(s) to create an online person beyond just a screen name, giving them an opportunity to creatively and thoughtfully reveal more about themselves to the players with whom they engage. What I see is these virtual world environments mimic those of real-world dating scenarios. For example, players can choose from a wide range of cooperative activities that can be enjoyed with friends, new acquaintances and dates, including playing games, attending virtual parties, and giving gifts. This offers the opportunity to form bonds and test the waters of how their online friends respond to various situations.
The question is.....Do you think virtual love can last? If so, what does it take for a virtual relationship to make it in the real world?

I've just read a Psychology report which confirms my suspicions.

It says that we behave more ethically when there's an image of eyes staring at us.

When I had no pic on here people seemed to be tripping me up; unprovoked.

What has been your experience?

Do you need to stop smoking to meet any of these lovely ladies?I've felt like a leper for some time, but all these ladies who NEVER smoke is very off-putting.
Looking for a kind, affectionate SMOKER.
Duncan

In any relationship, what is lethal?

First of all, my apologies to those whose messages i failed to answer-except the scammers,lol... i needed a break from here, both due to ill health and personal issues...also, i was fed up with the steady stream of scammer messages i was getting- no matter how entertaining some of them are, its still dis-heartening because it does not get on one inch closer to what we are all seeking here...hope readers are well.

A lasting relationship can be like marriage or cohabitation and seems like something complex and difficult to achieve in our lives. It is often depicted as a “luxury” for 2 people. (people no longer believe in realizing it).
Nothing is less true.

A sustainable relationship is easy to realize.
The first and only condition for this is spiritual awareness of both partners. It means realizing what the reason is that you have just this specific person in your life. We are writing about SPIRITUALITY.
The dilemma is that a lasting relationship in general and in particular a romantic relationship, the real intention is not clear and has an image of just contact and a “cozy period”, until it is time to disconnect because the ” spiritual “issues emerged.

Why are we connecting with eachother?
Because a relationship for the universe is more than what you have read. You are a soul and seek out another soul, to have experiences together. ABOVE EVERYTHING, ABOVE YOUR BEAUTY, ABOVE YOUR STRENGTH, ABOUT YOUR RELIGION or YOUR OWN LIFE, is still the GROWTH (lessons you need to know) of your soul that is central to your existence, not just in your life, IMPORTANT.
(It would be easy if we only had 1 life and it is not what you are reading, unfortunately, there is so much evidence that the opposite is reality). The confusion arises when religion is confused with spirituality, where religion is discussed when spirituality should be spoken. One has nothing to do with the other, but you fall hard under the laws of the cosmos, just like everything in and around you.

The pitfalls of the first meeting are very easy to explain with numerology.
1. If you see another person, you will see an appearance. But, a person not only has outer vibration to write it easily. You share the numerology in 15 different energies. These each represent another aspect of you as being. You see the personality, not the nature. When you marry, your character changes, not your nature. Your nature is very important for the relationship that it is compatible, but there are more important factors.
2. You are spiritually unaware. It is no shame that you are. Planning your life is that you are. THAT’S NO NEWS. What is important, do you want to become aware or do you want to stay so?
3. You lack the knowledge to know if this person is favorable to you or not. We talk about feelings for someone else, but can not look into the person’s heart.

I can do that as a numerologist. All information about your life can be traced and deciphered via the birth date that you have. I want to contribute to help you develop a sustainable relationship with a person that is as compatible as possible. The method I use does not discriminate. What I use is your date of birth and then determine who is as beneficial as possible to you or not.