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A lifelong friend is getting married tomorrow. She spent a few months here with us and some of you may remember her as BeaPatient. I asked her to drop in some time but she declined the invitation and said that she will be removing her profile in due course. No, she did not meet him here.

Although she could never be more than a baby sister to me, I cannot help to feel a little pang of jealousy. I don’t know why it is, because I attended her first wedding and I did not feel like this then. I was invited to her wedding but I shall not be attending. The azzhole made her promise to ignore me in future. I cannot see her fulfilling that promise as her brother is my best friend and my sister is her best friend. Bumping into each other from time to time will be inevitable.

I don't know what kind of bozo extorts such a promise from his future wife. I can only hope that he’ll come to his senses as a marriage based on suspicion is doomed to failure. If I wanted her for a wife or a lover, she would have been years ago. What worries me the most is that, as with her first marriage, she is marrying for all the wrong reasons.

As a friend she will be very hard to replace. When I was sick she was always there to help me. Whether that be tidying up, bringing a plate of food, doing some shopping or anything else. When I had a few friends over for a barbecue or a party, I always asked her to act as hostess. A true friend in deed.

My father is furious with me for letting her ‘slip through my fingers’ for a second time, but he does not understand. I love Bea, but not that way.

And now, as I wrap up this blog, I feel a kind of emptiness inside. Such as if I have lost my old friend for ever. I should really call her to hear how she is and to wish her well in her new life, but I don’t want to be instrumental in her breaking her promise. Besides, I may just tell her not to marry him and that will be selfish.


Hey, it is Friday!!

I once met someone very special, the person is suspicious if I don't say what I do all day but he is warm, loving, caring, protective but I like it because I feel protected, but everything is only for a moment because he wants me to find someone better than him for some reason, and it turns out that after so many years I heard the news that he had died, how broken my heart was at that time because actually I have not found someone who has a character like him and I still miss him but it turns out that fate says differently, me and him have to separated in this world, then later I met someone who was very similar to him but I was said to be crazy because I loved my ex too much so seeing him like my ex Lol, I was thinking really hard is it true I'm crazy even though I'm normal

I need one of those hugs that turn into sex.

A center to heard your view, speak your mind and just have fun

When contacting someone new, I always seem to have difficulty deciding what to write as my opening gambit, especially if in the persons profile there is nothing specific to refer too.

What kind of pick up text attracts your attention sufficiently for you to reply?

During our life journey some people enter our lives and make us feel special.
I was so lucky to have met someone that helped me through moments of my life.
He made my true colours show, making me feel beautiful and showing me all I was worth.
Kind, patient and loving we connected instantly.

We are energies, meshing and flowing, and changing continuously.
We are all in different places in our journeys.

Now he asks me to say "Goodbye" and I won't.
I want to say.
I will never forget you!





This blog is for those we never forget

I'm looking for a nice guy, but they have a preference? Having a long qualification list of what a guy needs to have personality wise, economic wise, looks wise. Every woman, it's God-fearing, but they still have that preference, where in the bible does it state that a man has to look a certain way, for you to build something with that man? Example: Ted Bundy was loved by the ladies, but he was One of the most prolific psychopaths. They gave him trust and undivided attention. They were blinded by his looks and charisma. You would rather spend the rest of your life with an undercover unrighteous mad man, because he's a trophy you can show around, then to be a righteous man, That can treat you in a Respectful and Supportive Manner, together you can build the tower of love. Stop using the scriptures to support your whoredom, Use sex books quotes or R&B singers lyrics as your reference. Honesty, it's the key, I rather have the truth that hurts, then a lie that can lead me into massive confusion. You have this “I don't have to settle for less” mentality “I like what I like “ Mentality. This is why seventy percent of women, have no husbands and are jumping from men to men trying to fill that void. The void is made up of the empty, lonely feelings that stem from holes in our heart and soul. All of you have come to a point where you think there is something lacking in your life and you cannot define it. There are many men out there who have only one goal in mind to find a woman who will complete them. I actually read the introduction of many women here, they all seem to either think alike or they copy each other's information to portray an image. Yes we do have a category of female scammers and men, who make female accounts to scam men, which shows me you have a sodomite spirit. To the women who are looking for a gentleman, keep your head up. You will find him, or he will find you, when you least expected.

Older woman younger man

What makes a woman into a gold digger?

This thought has been on my mind for months now and when I read what Calmheartseek on Kal's ' Weird ' blog wrote, I knew I have to put a blog up regarding this matter.

If I may, Calmheartseek, borrow your comment,

" Isn't it kinda sad how we read on here how some CS members find someone, even blog or post about it, then a little time goes by, and the relationship breaks up or they are back on CS once again."


What I was thinking, say, someone like me who talks nothing but my relationship with Art all the time on the blogs and forums, much to the horror of fellow Csers

You'd hear how, against your wish, how we met, visit each other, get to know each other more and finally one of us decides to join the other in her/his respective country.

We then decide to no longer be active on CS. Well-wishers and congratulations abound.

Now, I also wonder, would it be better if I just slowly sneak right back into the blogs/forums again without telling fellow CSers about my doomed relationship.

OR

Do you think it's better to put a whole blog up announcing my comeback after my failed relationship just to make sure no awkwardness or uncertainty ensued?

OR

Do you think it's nobody business anyhow!






P.S Art and I are not in Troubleland just in case some of you are wondering