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the Beeb had a program on computer "Dating" , which I think of as search/introduction platforms. There I go showing my pickiness. The "experts" said that one of the biggest barriers to folks finding each other, apart from all the lying and scamming, was being too picky. Now, I agree, and recall the wise adage " the perfect is the worst enemy of the good". Is it really a case of lowering standards, settling, or whatever else we like to call it? Or are their darker dynamics involved? Fear of commitment, for one?

Hi, i'm from India, and i was stressed and depressed about my work life, So now i want to start new life and i want to relocate my self to any beautiful European village / town by marrying some one from their. so please look in to my profile and if any one find it interest over me, just please let me know. have a nice day. :)

NOTE: sorry i don't know if this was considered as an self advertisement and violates the rules, but let me please know any of your suggestions to reach my goal.

With best regards,
Raja.

The last few years of my marriage were bad, the last couple were horrendous. Would things have turned out differently if I’d been a better partner? Probably, but I’ll never know for sure. Much of what went wrong was my fault, but how much of it that wasn’t is impossible to say.

I wasn’t meant to share a life with anyone, I think that much is fair to say. Now, living alone, there is certainly something about that that feels right; it seems to be in keeping with what, or who, I am. But there is also something about it that really doesn’t feel right, and, despite much self analysis, I can’t put my finger on what it is. Obviously, it has a lot to do with people, most probably of the opposite sex, but that’s about as much as I can say.

I don’t want to live with someone as half of a couple again; I do know that much, or at least I think I know it. The idea of being part of a couple on a more casual basis, not living together, and maintaining a separate life, wouldn’t seem like a bad option were it not for the fact that I can well see how it might be the thin end of a wedge with a rather dangerous thick end.

I doubt if finding a friend with benefits would be a much less risky option, and, anyway, I don’t think I could be that casual; besides, why take the risk when the benefits aren’t as compelling as they used to be? So, a friend, or friends, without problematic benefits could be the answer, although even getting the dynamics of that right is proving more complicated than I would have imagined.

Not Matter You Gender ( By falicias Own Experiences!)
Is All About How You Present Your Self
How Much Effort You Put Into!
You Have To Look Confident!
How You Do That?
You Do it By Making Sure You Look and Smell Great!
Fresh Breath! ( The Most Important) "See falicias Fresh Breath Please? Blog"
Looking Good In What You Wearing!
Coming On Time !
Ask Often Questions! (" About What He or She Like To Eat Or Drink"?)
Also By Been a Good Listener! ( Very Important!)
Make Your Date Feel Comfortable at All Times!
Also By Looking Happy! ( Smiling,Eye Contact,Good Posture,Been a Little Bit Funny Help'sPicking a Good Conversation Topics , Also Help's Like Your Child hood Story)
And Just Been a Complete Lady Or Gentleman!
And Finally Thanking Your Date for Coming!
Thank you!
Good Luck!
By falicia
What Is Your Opinion?

If you Have Love In your Relationship!
Hold On In It Tide!
Because You Easily Could Loose it!
(See "Things that keep Two People Together" Blog)
"Love" Is Like a plant!
Yo Need To Care For It!
Or It Will Died Slowly!
By falicia!

What Is Your Oppinion!

My heart beats only for you..
You've captured my heart and touched my soul like no other.
You constantly make me smile and there's never a moment
that goes by that I don't think of you.
Today and always, beyond tomorrow, I need you beside me,
always as my friend, lover and forever soul mate.
As long as you're in my heart and I am in yours,
there is no distance great enough that our love can't travel.
Someday I know it shall come true and I promise you,
I shall wait no matter how long for that day, because
I found my kind of love in you and I know no one else
can give me that. I love you with everything I am,
and more than anyone ever thought possible.. I

For years I've been on these online dating sites, as well as social media. I have over three hundred or so friends on face book. Have a video channel on you tube with a number of films I made when I was an access producer for Bronxnet. Have a collection of paintings and drawings on display at an Artist site. which is my own work. And a number of poems I've written on a poetry site. With all this I receive no feedback from anybody. On my films, art, writing. And still to this day I continue to search for that someone that I have not been able to find on line.
I text dozen of women and very few respond back. And if they do, it will be conversations that rarely lead into anything. And if they do and I make contact with that women on the phone or in person. We find we're not attracted to each other for some reason or another. Or the women has too many things going on that may be negative in order to focus on started a relationship. And I'm back to square one. Texting women until one responds. So I'm very frustrated with the whole thing, can anybody else relate? Now this is where I hope to receive feedback. But by my experience I don't expect it.

who actually reads a profile and NOT just ogle pics! Please do not contact me if you LACK MANNERS, examples are: standing me up on a date without cancelling, contacting me wanting to meet then never trying to meet, having long phone conversations or going out on a date where in both cases it seems it's going well and then drop out of sight, without sending me an email saying we are not a match (why would be nice but, sigh, not expected). I do NOT mind if one wanted to start out as friends first so if you do not feel romantically inclined towards me that shouldn't preclude us getting to know each other. I do have good manners thus I answer EVERY email (but then again I am not deluged with them as say, a 20 year old nubile blonde!) Also NO smokers please, I put it there but still some men do not bother to read the facts and are just looking at the pics...

I wanted to write much more about me in my profile but since there is a character limit (and NO, I am not as long winded as this, I actually AM a good listener) I have to post it here so hope it can stay, if you live a long way away and want to just chat, email, etc. please, PLEASE do NOT waste both our times writing, I am not looking for a "fantasy" relationship but a REAL one with someone I can actually go out and DO things with. And especially do NOT write me if you are in another country and waiting to get back to the U.S. (if you ARE in another country sign up in couchsurfing and maybe I'll visit you ;)!

What am I doing with my life

I'm at a crossroads, not rich but financially independent, thinking of traveling worldwide, with nothing tying me down, but I would like to be in a loving relationship so open to ALL possibilities...

What I like to eat

Although I would LIKE to eat a healthier more vegetarian diet with no sugar (so don't mind guys that are), but hey, I'm Chinese and we eat everything with 4 legs except the kitchen table and sigh, unfortunately sweets don't taste like vegetables which would make it MUCH easier to give it up.


Ideal First Date

We can always take that clicheish walk on the beach and if you so desire followed by happy hour (i.e. cheap) drinks and appetizers nearby or if you want a longer or more profound discussion with me, we can go to a restaurant that I have coupons for-my way of going Dutch-LOL- as I don't like coffee dates (I'm a chintzy not a cheap date!)

Or we can skip food and go on a completely gratis date, just the walk, art gallery openings (with free food-my two favorite four letter words beginning with an F that's non vulgar!) an outdoor concert, ethnic festival, or a museum's free day, although I shall NOT turn my nose up at men who like to dine in a five star restaurant and going to the theater afterwards!

Hobbies, etc. we can discuss when we meet, which I hope we do, am NOT looking for a penpal, so guys far away who contact me, I will go out and meet you!