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I have a question for all plus-sized women. As a man who honestly prefers bbws over petite women, I do notice that when a profile says "plus-sized", the photos sometimes appear older from years ago or cropped from the neck down. Why do I see this so often with plus-sized women ?

I do understand that many men are looking for barbie dolls, I get that. However for us men who are looking for a relationship with a plus-sided lady, could I ask some of you to post recent photos / not be afraid to show your body ? ( I say that with respect, as a man who simply wants to see a photo of a possible love interest. )

Let me know your thoughts and how you feel about this, comment or message me.

Take care,

- William

_Dear God you said that this time you would fulfill my wish!
so for my birthday I want a Unicorn ...

_ don't be too unrealistic my son!

_ OK then I want a true beautiful companion , a woman standing at my side by thick and thin, who will love me even if I am broke,everyday love would grow like a flower, with an increasing understanding, a growing transparency, an everlasting romance and.....

_ OK , OK , no need to add more: I have understood ...
what color your Unicorn?

You say it is mutual, but I still am prohibited from contacting you due to the conditions you have set - there is nothing I can do to change my age (which of course is "just a number".) All good wishes from Peter

30 yr old Englishman looking for foreign lover to settle down with

How many woman are actually on here that are truly looking for human interaction and actual real life relationships versus how many are just scams to get you to go to some other crap? spend money on some bs or something. Its not like I have really talked to anybody on here, so I am curious if that is why so many people rant in the forums about politics, and disease. I don't know I feel like maybe I am wasting my time here and it would be better served and put to use elsewhere? HHHMMMMM.

Profiles can be absolutely honest and still not tell the whole story. Example - let's call her, hmmm, Tigress? That would be appropriate

I am in my late 50s, obviously this is not my current photo but I think when we meet or talk on webcam you will agree the years since have been kind. I work for the Red Cross and speak 4 languages, have travelled and been politically active but that was the past. My life now is very quiet and pleasant, needing only the right man to complete it.

She does NOT have a CS profile, but this would be completely honest if she did. So far as it went.

Interested?







Meet La Tigresa, attractive with compelling green eyes, newly released from serving 23 years in prison, one year for every man she killed. She’s Idoia Lopez Riano, infamous ETA terrorist, now turned over a new leaf and starting a new life – exactly as it says, working for the Red Cross, popular with her friends, speaking 4 languages.













So who are you chatting to online, what’s their story

I settle for seeing you, even for an instant…
I am content to look at you, just for a moment…
To take away with me…
The nuance and the contrast…
That your beautiful eyes create, next to the immensity…
That your beautiful eyes create, next to the immensity...

I settle for seeing you, even for an instant…
I am content to look at you, just for a moment…
To take away with me…
The nuance and the contrast…
That your beautiful eyes create, next to the immensity…
That your beautiful eyes create, next to the immensity...

And even if you tell me that you don't love me…
You will live sweetly in me…
Like a song of restless birds…
Like the dew of a gray cloud...
And even if my life becomes wandering…
I swear to you that I will wait for you, longing…
I swear to you that I will wait for you, longing…

Ilan Chester, the venezuelan musician singing it on this video, said he thought this was one of the most beautiful songs ever composed... And I can't agree more... Venezuelan composer, José Sifontes, created it on 1975...
This song is so soft...
Like a caress...
Like making sweet, long, slow, passionate love...

Quite a range of discussions under this heading. But I'll share one. A friend of mine, certainly not ME, wondered-what to do, when you have met the one, but you haven't experienced anything carnal, since your last squeeze? And it may have been quite a while, of course, again for my friend, not me. She, not me, feels that the stars are auspicious for a new lover traipsing into her, not mine, life. I told her to be honest and very frank, both with revelations and questions. After all, we are all adults, and should know all about those gnarly birds and bees. And about the changes the occur as the years go by. Just wondering. For her, and not for me. Finally, as always here, I bet the emphases will be different for the girls and boys.

99.7 of the letters I receive suggest we are to become friends. When I ask what exactly they mean, they answer: normal friends.

I don’t know your norms. I never had male friends. If you can’t fix my sewage or shift my tires, what exactly do I need you for?

From my perspective – O.Henry, please, forgive me for reformulation – but as I see it: a real friendship is to survive love, poverty and war.


If I’m so madly in love that I cannot sleep, eat, work, live… I talk only about him… will you be there for me to listen to and support? Ad infinitum? If not – you are not my friend.

If I suddenly become so poor, that I’d have to beg money for food, will you still be my friend? If not - you are not my friend.

If there’s war between our countries… are you still my friend then?

Those are my requirements to a friend.

Good news: it’s voluntarily ??