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1st.....
On paper, Mrs. Doubtfire
Origin of the "Doubtfire" name....

Madame Doubtfire, known as Alias Madame Doubtfire in the United States, is a 1987 novel written by English author Anne Fine for teenage and young adult audiences. The novel is based on a family with divorced parents.

Author Anne Fine based the name of her novel on a 1970s-era second-hand store, "Madame Doubtfire," located at the corner of Howe Street and South East Circus Place in Edinburgh. The shop was owned by Annabella Coutts, who named her shop after her first husband, Arthur Cyril Doubtfire.


The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.

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In November 1993, six years after its publication, the novel was adapted into Mrs. Doubtfire, a film starring Robin Williams and Sally Field.

MOVIE INFO.....

Troubled that he has little access to his children, divorced Daniel Hillard (Robin Williams) hatches an elaborate plan. With help from his creative brother Frank (Harvey Fierstein), he dresses as an older British woman and convinces his ex-wife, Miranda (Sally Field), to hire him as a nanny. "Mrs. Doubtfire" wins over the children and helps Daniel become a better parent -- but when both Daniel and his nanny persona must meet different parties at the same restaurant, his secrets gets exposed.

2nd..... 'A Doubting Thomas'

In the Bible, Thomas would not believe that Jesus had come back from the dead until he saw proof of it. St. Thomas was the apostle who doubted Jesus' resurrection until he had proof of it (John 20:24–29). The first known use of the phrase metaphorically dates back to 1883.

The phrase 'A Doubting Thomas' is used to describe someone who is so skeptical that they don't believe anything without personal experience. Example of Use: “Don't waste your time on explanations; he's a doubting Thomas.”

dont you see the connections of this
with online dating..... this
going to be a endless blog

i will continue with rest of this history.... in the comment sections..

I am so confused..As i am watching a lot of women's say the same thing and at the same time they are doing the same mistake.
If you want to find your self a good man, honest, decent and family oriented, don't take selfies of your self half naked..Its not your boobs or your a** that will define your relationship. Its your character. Your self and who you really are. So, if you want to find for your self a good man, open your eyes not your legs in front of the camera...

What's our priorities

Speaking for myself it's definitely not to have children or be a off the shelf dad, I have 3 adult children and a 95 year old mum. Or to get married I have had 30 + years experience and I am Agnostic. ( Look up the meaning)
I am not interested in being someone you need as a social attachment, like a hand bag or to make up for your financial mismanagement.
I would love to be with you because we both want to be together, I still believe that our s*xual chemistry is really important for both of us.
You know that feeling, in bed at night cuddling a pillow thinking What's she or he doing now. Can I jump in to the car and visit? Or are you going to turn up at 2am in your dressing gown for my company. I promise I will make you breakfast or take you to brunch. ( Not sure what you would wear to the Brunch)
You both going to a Blues concert screaming you heads of to Stairway to Heaven or really kicking out to Honky Tonk Women (my god lady I did not know you could look so sexy ) just recently saw the LAB concert in Whangarei
Doing a road trip stopping at all those amazing opp shops looking for that overlooked Bargain Jeepers it's got to be worth $200 at least and they only want $50 (lol)
Then stopping at those amazing farmers market wow huge Mussel fritters 2 for $10 and what has be the best Avocados we have ever seen.
Lots of us fill in our profile and then completely forget about it.
Well if you are wondering why we haven't contacted you back it could be because you originally put a age restriction of 3 yrs older and 20 yrs younger this is very common for women. Guys have a bit of a more narrow range, unless they are cradle snatches like me. The website's computers enforce the restrictions you applied by not allowing us to contact you. Even though you had sent a like or message we cannot reply, due to the restrictions you put in place.
I sometimes will not reply back because the language you use those not match your profile. ( You are supposed to be a English lit major yet the slang is African street slang )
I recently had a meet-up for drinks at the Judge in Whangarei on a Friday. I was stood up.
Well I found out later the lady was sitting two tables away. Her photo was 5 + years older and she was 9 kg heavier, which is a hell of a lot on a 150 to 152 cm women. She had recognised me and I had not recognised her as I had failed to ask if she was still a brunette etc, so she rightfully felt insulted.
I think she realised that I had walked right pass her because of these factors.(This why I think a meet up on video is great)

Lastly please put a current photo so both of us know what to expect and no photos that are not age appropriate. There is without doubt nothing worse than an overweight man or woman wearing clothing that is age inappropriate.
Let's have fun and look after our bodies and enjoy each other's differences.

I am nice girl. I know someone will want me. I am tired of people putting me down saying no one will want me. I treat people right. I am also a country music singer. I will not let people dictate my life.

LITERALLY!






PRAYERS TO A FRIEND.

Today I woke up and the first thing I saw and heard was such a beautiful message that I am floating around in a haze and smiling at everything.

Wouldn't it be wonderful if this was the normal.
At least there's the possibility of something random and magical out there, but even if it's just a dream I am so happy that I felt it today.

I want the fairytale but I know with that has to come some reality, and if you can find someone amazing that blends both and makes sense of you, then you need to take their hand and try.

If it's meant to be in your story then the universe will find a way, if not then at least they hold a chapter in your life.

1. He doesn't put an effort
Relationships require effort from both partners. If you're the one who is driving the relationship alone and your partner doesn't put any efforts, he is not the one for you. If there is a constant lack of communication, and you feel like your thoughts and feelings are not being acknowledged or valued, it can be a red flag. Putting in efforts is a two-sided road and if he is meeting you half way, think!
2. He ignores you
If you feel emotionally isolated or ignored and your partner doesn't truly understand or empathize with you, it can lead to a sense of disconnection. If you constantly feel neglected, he is not for you.
3. He doesn't trust you
Trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship. If he doesn't trust you and is always doubting you, he is not for you. If he doesn't trust your decisions and your instincts and you feel sidelined, you should
4. He doesn't respect you
If he doesn't respect you and you face any form of abuse, whether emotional or physical, is a clear indication that the relationship is unhealthy and he is not right for you. Lack of respect is the biggest red flag and you should step out!
5. He makes you feel bad about yourself
If your partner consistently makes you feel bad about yourself, criticises you, or undermines your self-worth, it's a sign that he may not be the right person for you. A healthy relationship should uplift and support you, not bring you down or make you doubt your value and worth.
6. He belittles you in front of others
If he puts you down in front of his friends or family with his little jokes and disrespect, it could be a significant indicator that he may not be the right person for you. This shows he is not showing respect and appreciation towards you. This way he ends up giving others also the opportunity to disrespect you!
Link: timeofindia.com

I hate the idea of constitutional same rights for women.
I think, there must be 1 boss and that is usually the man as the physically stronger part.
All the rest will not function. And this implicates the man's right to punish every part of the family who doesn't walk the line.
If I read in 85% of all female profiles here that women expect to be treated as a pricess or queen and that a good sense of humor is expected, then I only feel to be in the wrong film.
When seeking in what countries wordwide the beating of women was still allowed, I only found Afghanistan and Russia and maybe some neighbouring countries, or I found that women were disciplimed by starvation or by violence not coming from the man but from his family members, the mother of the man, f.ex.
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I know that it is much better if a wife learns early in her life what her man wants and doesn't wait to be beaten to execute his will.
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I am aware of the fact that most worldwide Constitutions see this topic differently - maybe my profile will be deleted now, after 12 fruitless years here.
I only think that all these Constitutions are wrong. I try to write down why I think so, later.
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My basic idea is that there can be only 1 captain on board. I know, pilots in rivers and harbours are captains too and then there are realkly 2 in charge, but the decisions then makes the pilot.
I think it is essential that lifetime marriage decisions are made as early as possible, as in old China, in early childhood. All what we do here on that site, seeking a lifetime partner with 48, and reading "Children maybe one day" is just a bad joke.
Quite like studying until the age of 30 just to find a better man, or gaining more prestige.
I see well that keeping women in the house and kitchen makes a society poorer of scientists, doctors and other high class professions.
It is a pity that the data collected here are not publicly available, as raw data, to be pulled out with a language like DBASE in the 80th. I would love to learn how many of the females here are that qualified, deserving these "same rights". All I see are estimated 80% of female Hair stylists, and other more or less low qualified activities.
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I know, it's just a minority point of view. Me, probably beeing alone the whole minority wordwide.
What Russia fights for today is the idea of a totalitarian society, where one boss rules, - the contrary of same rights for all. WWII seems to have shown that democracies definitely are the winners, We are the good ones !
Maybe we are all wrong, all-together. All these elderly singles here might prove that, but the raw data are not accessable - a pity !

I laid each night and counted your breaths, afraid to sleep, least they ceased.
The days of joy, the long dark nights.
Hopes for more, a week, month or years. Dare I wish, a decade or more?
And then one morn, I sat by you in I.C.U., next to your bed, and watched those breathes slowly go. So soft, so fast, shallower and shallower til your lips trembled and you were gone.
And my heart broke.
My life, my love, my shining knight, 31 years, and now, no more.
20 years your sickness took..and gave. So close, so intimate, so loyal.
We'd never shared a life that close, except when you, me and MS, those 3, made you and me just one.
The day that came, we always knew would be one day.
Yet for all my fears and all my tears, each crisis passed and you stayed mine.
Yet, how unexpected came that final day, that day MS took your breath away.
Now I wake, alone in bed and will that darkness to give me those sweet breaths, that filled my life.
To give sweet kisses upon your face, your bright blues eyes , that loving smile.
How empty now this house, without those breaths to count.

I once dated a woman who had to be entertained every waking moment. I was working from home at the time and she had a job with lots of local travels. Often, she would stop by unannounced and get annoyed if I couldn't give her my undivided attention when she came over.
Dates were much the same. When we went to the movies, I couldn't become engrossed in the movie... I had to maintain concentration on her. The movie (or anything else) had to become secondary.
It appeared she would get bored being alone. Impatient, at best if something didn't occupy her free time.

I'd say she was bored certified...