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A very high percentage of dating site members are seeking a soulmate.
It appears to be the number one request.
You know... that 'one-in-a-million' chance of finding someone.

Forget dating for a few seconds and do some math instead.
Let's play the lottery. Pick 6 that runs twice a week.
Bet 100 cards at a dollar each time.
Ignoring the months that have 5 weeks for now, it's 8 times per month
That's $800 a month or $9,600 a year.
9,600 tries to get a winning number.
I read somewhere that people go into a frenzy when the jackpot exceeds $100 million and they start betting more. The smart thing to do is increase your selections to increase your odds or get into an office pool where groups of people put money together and agree to share the winnings.
What we don't hear is obsessive gambling bringing up winners.

Considering 90% or more of the dating site are scammers, you've got 10% to work with.

Messaging 100 and you might find 10 worth starting a conversation with. Of the 10, you may only find 1 of them worth trying to actually meet.
One in a hundred is pretty low odds just to meet someone who came here to meet their soulmate too!

Hey there! Alone? Me to looking for advise here,I've been lied cheated and ultimately betrayed and was looking for ??????

So then you see him and...chemistry. Instant attraction, magnetism ...so instantaneous, drawn to him, but it turns out not so good?
Give the good guys a chance, instant physical attraction is not a good indicator of his true qualities, give it time and allow him to prove to you that he can make you happier ?? because yoiu are already happy, right?
Just wondering if I'm making sense here...
Certainly believe that the way to go would be to give opportunity to men based on their authenticity, true values, morals and better qualities rather than just great physical attraction...
He could be like a fungus ???? and grow on you...give it a chance eh?

Without going into too many details,
when she opened her front door and I saw what she was wearing,
lets just say, that I was.....

totally spellbound.
It wasn't a trick, but a nice treat.

I've read lots of profiles of 35ish women to see stated: her kids are far away.
I usually ask myself: Why and who has her kids? What are the circumstances they would be in a dating site, some divorced and many never married.

It's known many young Philippine women take jobs in other countries for financial support of their families back home while the grandparents raise the children. Personal sacrifice.
On the other end of the spectrum is the question what happens if the mother is unfit and the court awards custody to the father...

Doing the math, lets say having a child at 25, she's now 35 and the child is 10.
Getting into a relationship with a woman who has a distant child (or children) doesn't always sound like the best choice to get started on a relationship.
Red Flags should be going up!

That's my thought on the subject.

So I'm talking to this guy, and we've been mic chatting for weeks on Skype and talkin by phone. Even though he's seen photo's of my septum piercing, I hadn't posted any pic's of me on the dating site since I replaced my stainless steel jewelry with a tribal bone tusk.

While on the cam tonight, once he saw me, his tone never changed. He didn't say anything about it. So, I'm guessing it's not such a big deal to him that I've got the bone in my nose - which I expected questions, but was pleasantly surprised. I think he's innerstanding more that it's really important to me to not look like I live in or belong to colonial society. I just want to be me, and honor my Native ancestry in the ways that we did before the harassment, terrorism, and oppression of colonialism squashed the language, the ghost dancing, body modifications, and various other traditions.

Now, once I tattoo my lower lip and chin, it'll be interesting if he is also silent about that. That I plan to happen before mid December.

I finding difficult
To sleep
I keep on thinking
About him
Looks like I am gone
Mad....I know this
Is too early to say..
But...I am not able
To keep my ....mind ..
Heart...feelings
In control...
I know it is
Intriguing...
What to do...
I really don't know
What should I do?

I am sort of
In love with
This guy...he is around here(cs)

“You call it madness, but I call it love.” –

No one can deny the importance of love because it is cutest relation as compare to others and never ends till the last breathe and sometimes after the end of life.

::

PS...He. Is not aware of my love
For him....

As far as I can throw them...

Take 2 new profiles, created within minutes of each other. Different photos, different age, different countries. The both have word-for-word identical opening lines, same height, hair and eye color, say the same thing in their occupation and looking for nearly the same in what they are seeking in a man.

Check one box that applies:

( ) Real

( ) Bogus

With new female members being about 80% bogus, it's difficult next to impossible for someone to actually find a real deal.

Pretty sad situation. This week, I was hunting a photo that linked to a site that advertised all their members are verified.
I'm thinking "Verified for what?"
A few bogus ones each week show up there.