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So today I did a search on gemini compatibility, somewhere down the line was the question: "When will a gemini find their soulmate?" The answer was "With 19 years of age, but they won't know this, until they get older."

That answer "stunned" me, because I think that I did meet my soulmate when I was 19, we got married, and divorced when I was 21 or 22. Over the years, I've wondered what has become of him, wondered if we would still have been married, how many children we would have had. We met again, many, many years ago, after I had moved to Germany (I gave him some important papers from our divorce), he told me that he had remarried and had a child. He's the only man in my life, who I really felt "at home" with, the only man who I know really loved me for who I am, and I loved him just as much.

I found a telephone number online for him, I called it many times over the years, but got no answer, and I didn't want to send a SMS. He doesn't know that I now live in Sweden, so maybe he thought it was a "spam call" that's why he never answered but since Covid, the number no longer works. I have an adress for him, and often think of writing, but also ask myself....."What do I hope to achieve by contacting him again, after all, we've been divorced for more than 35 years:" I still have strong feelings for him, and maybe that's why my other relationships, including my 2nd marriage didn't work out, it was I who wanted and filed for divorce.

He's 10 years older than I, and I guess the age difference at that time, played a big part in our getting a divorce: he wanted to settle down and have a family (I was his 2nd marriage, and no, I wasn't involved with him when he was 1st married. I met him 3 years after his 1st divorce. I was still somewhat of a "party girl", not ready to start a family. One thing we both agreed on when we were asked during the divorce proceedings is that "we married for love, and still loved eachother", but sometimes love isn't enough to keep a marriage together.

Maybe sometime in the new year, I'll have the "guts" to take a pen to paper, and write to him.

Who among the indigenous native-born citizens can now look back and state that Enoch Powell was a racist when he was actually warning us that when Britain one day awoke and realised we were 16 years away from being a minority Christian ?? White Nation.

Maybe some of us on here have anything to share about our journey in finding the "one".

Considering all the fake profiles, scammers they are called, what truly is our chances of finding him/her on this site? Or anywhere for that matter.

I have met and found whom I thought was the one 9 years ago here. Although our distance was more than 7,000 miles apart we didn't get discouraged because what we felt from the first skype was so strong and wonderful that we didn't think of any hurdles we had to face.
Anyways I went to his place about three times and he came to my place about two times. To cut the story short, for me, it was the most interesting, adventurous and wonderful part of my life.

I read somewhere that the difficulty of meeting a real partner here isn't as easy as meeting them in family gatherings, church or the conventional and normal introduction before the web. What's with all of those mentally crazy, drug addicts, or simply players that are not who they claim they are. Married pretending to be single, and more discouraging characters which by the time you find out, has already caused you a lot of emotional roller coaster.

Well for me, I am no longer looking. I'm way past that. But meeting good friends both male or female, to me is a plus.

What about you? Please feel free to share your stories if you want. Maybe we can all learn from it.

Note: I know about six couples who have met here, still married and happy. A couple from NZ and India, From Northern Thailand and England (my best friends, he passed away , blessed his soul). From Philippines and NZ, From NY and England, From France and CH, and also our very own Mimi from Malaysia now happily living in Nebraska. The first three couples I met them 8 years ago still very happily married.

DEAR GENTLEMEN FROM THE PRESENT SITE,

I HAVE BEEN ON THIS SITE FOR A LONG TIME BUT I GET CONSTANT SMILES AND MESSAGES FROM MALES, WHO HAVEN'T MADE THE EFFORT TO READ A SINGLE WORD FROM MY PROFILE. THEREFORE I WANT TO WARN YOU:
-I DON'T READ THE MESSAGES OF ALL THE MEN WHO HAVEN'T READ MY PROFILE AND EVEN THEY DON'T MEET MY REQUIREMENTS IN THE PROFILE, THEY DARE TO DISTURB ME WITH VERY NAIVE AND WEIRD MESSAGES. AS SOON AS I SEE IN THE MAIL BOX THERE IS A MESSAGE FROM AN INADEQUATE AND INAPPROPRIATE MAN, I IMMEDIATELY DELETE AND BLOCK IT.
I am asking these men NOT to bother me. I have more important life priorities than enough.

I am a woman who has been looking for me.

This last 6 months I found her, she was lost under this insecure mass that I had built to hide her.

I am overweight, because mainly my ex loved bigger woman, I am essentially a people pleaser, something I am realising.

Oh I was content and happy with my family, work and how I was seen in those areas, I am so proud of those area's in my life.

I forgot I was still a woman who could be loved without being changed, and now, I am being changed because it's what I want, because I am loved..

Right now I am being loved very gently and slowly as I see that I am enough just as I am, he makes my soul melt, and I am finding out I don't need a Man, but I want this one in a deep and magical way that only my soul understands.

To everyone here, you can find so much magic if you allow yourself to let someone show you, don't ever give up.

This gentleman has been getting tons of attention lately and praise from men all over and from all status.




What do you think of his teachings?


...and women, what do you think?

Is this guy nailing female nature or what?

This is the stuff that feminism has released to the world.

Once we are all on the same page of human nature, there will be no more deceit, manipulation, and true happiness will follow.

A guy tries for weeks to get a date with a woman who is a social media influencer. She claims she was bored and agreed to go out. Her choice was a place called Fontaine’s Oyster House where they claim to have the freshest oysters in the city.

The Tuesday's special was a dozen oysters for $15.

When she was on the 4th dozen of oysters with Tabasco sauce, looking for some cocktails, crab cakes and potatoes. He excuses himself to the restroom, only not to return.

The woman video tapes the event to post to TikTok and it gets more than 5 million views.

The waiter recognized the woman and stated "She's here every Tuesday"

Story link:


TikTok link:
@equanaaa/video/7288609310525918506?is_from_webapp=1&web_id=7276123114270066218



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Yesterday morning, May 18 2020 at around 08:00 AM my time, I finally met and talked to my Giant's son on Skype Video Call. For few days I was a bit nervous whenever thinking about it as this "meeting" the son of a special someone would be my first time.

Although it was a brief meeting and we didn't talk much, it went great. This 19 yo very handsome young man was a bit shy. Hmm.. that he was willing to meet and greet me is highly appreciated.


PS
I would like to give my sincere thanks to the two special bloggers who had given me grips and tips on what to say when meeting this young fella. I love you both..

will that increase the chances of meeting more people?

or it is not really important.

Without prejudice and in all sincerity, there are men out there in their mid 70 who would run rings around a lot of 60 year old men.
They have a great work ethic, they are virile, full of knowledge and fun. You may say ,"yes but they are nearly 80 years old" so what, there are 80 year olds who are still able to father children. I am 75, just finished building my new home am in Lions, Men's Shed, Community garden and still work part time. There are many like me, but we don't get a look in because we are mid 70. Pity, many women missing out on sincere, loving, caring gentlemen, who are seeking permanent relationships with so much to offer.