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Hard to top this email I just got from a previously never heard of admirer.

"I am physically and mentally healthy. I have proof I can show you."

She is also pushing 60 but she still hopes to have children someday.

One of the common prejudices that "most" people assume when a woman came from Asia with brown skin and end up to have a caucasian partner is that the woman is called a gold digger. I can only answer for my own and that is there is no such "gold" to dig. I work hard for whatever I have now through rollercoasters of breakdowns, anxieties and successes.

Tell me where is this gold at, maybe the pasture is much greener there too.

Dating has become more complicate by new terms older people may not know.
These are two terms I recently heard.

Grey rocking: is a technique used to divert a toxic person's behavior by acting as unresponsive as possible when you're interacting with them. For example, using the grey rock method involves deliberate actions like avoiding eye contact or not showing emotions during a conversation.

Breadcrumbing: is the act of sending out flirtatious, but non-committal social signals (i.e. "breadcrumbs") in order to lure a romantic partner in without expending much effort. In other words, it's leading someone on.

Which ones are you guilty of?

Which other terms are being use in the dating world?

Regardless you never married, divorced or widowhood? If you are not ready, it is hard to start a new relationship. It is like a wound that will only heal by time. Even you may be left with scar, you will need to heal first. Find your support system during this singles journey whether your family, friends or others.

Does mental health issue married vs singles? 50% of singles population almost around the world now. Does Singles online community booster mental health? During COVID everyone stayed inside, mental health awareness before and after. Before COVID Single community was where I connected with local community assistance for place, job, support, after COVID, on and off posting and it is important to engage. I often like to talk about "knowledge is power" after COVID the increasing of homeless, even single parents household, Singles online community could be an educational program from exchange skill program or life skill. Could we make Singles online community as educational community? Learning another new language could help you make your brain think? As earlier I shared dementia prevention, Asian medical doctors also encouraged learning the language. Many singles research showed mental health impacted by loneliness. It is okay to be singles and be happy too. If you are singles still hope to find lifetime partner, as married couples tended to be happier and healthier. No matter how you become singles, you are part of this big Single community. Mental health is important either you need to keep up with mental health professionals or just find your own support system from a healthy body, heart and soul!

One of my psychologists' friends told me that singles men and women these days prefer same sex not opposite!? Perhaps that might be another factors for singles world today. After COVID slow down, I hope less scam victims out there. Now, wonder what these scammers planning next step? Last year I worked with many scam victims, they are not losing money but also their hearts. I gave myself 90 days to see what is out there last week?! I also asked my other singles friends to do the same. Being in marketing I matched businesses together for winning government contract. Finding a house for my son from Christmas to spring time, we find it ourselves not from our agent. I could find anything anyone but not LOVE? Why 2 billion one is so hard to find? 90 days Love challenge as my hypothesis is fail. Perhaps he is not even existing any more?!

When I was here way back 2011-2013/14, I have made a great number of friends. We stayed connected even on other medias. I lost contact with them because of my own doing. Life that is. If you are reading this, or if some of you know them, please let them know I truly miss them!

Read a message saying she was a hooker and available. Much better than hello dear

Hopefully not in the same way this woman does.



Mississippi woman charged with having sex with dog, says she was ‘forced’

If you want to date her, her name is Denise Frazier. I am sure the court room will be crowded on the day of her trial. Read about her at:

I didn't really get any answers on a poll I asked about a few weeks ago. It was based on the topic of height within a relationship, if it mattered. It sounds funny yes, but in reality to me it's a problem at times. Being my height ( about 5'1) and overall size in comparison to someone I date is very noticeable and somewhat weird. But I can't help that of course. While dating or just hanging out, I just hate the obvious questions or physical actions that come from others, most of the time strangers. Idk, it's just embarrassing at times and overall hateful. If only people would get over it and mind there own business, or actually have manners and not ask stupid questions or not want to do stupid things to make me embarrassed. I don't know, I'm just somewhat ranting lol.

Ah, um, ah, so, do you like bread?