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I have been on and off here long enough to recognize quite a few old "hangers on" as they say and I rush to stress that I don't necessarily think there is anything wrong with remaining on a social web page intended for "online "meeting" and "dating" per say! However, when it comes to carping,complaining and "oh dear" moving to have someone else "removed" just because you don't like what they have to say or for whatever reason known only to you "TROUBLEMAKERS" don't you all think that is going way over the line? Just because you don't have the guts to "face" someone in person,if you feel that strongly about your dislike for them and settling your difference the old fashioned way (beat the S..T out of them,if you can! ) does that make it any more right to run to the mods and complain? COWARDS! one and all! I hope those of you who indulge in this "scummy" behavior wake up one morning and find that your genitals have turned to
"black mould" Hahahahahahaha!

Looking for some familiar faces here on the blogs.
Wondering how is everybody ..
Oh and never mind the title ...

Hello everyone

Never make a pretty woman your wife... And for my personal point of view, Get an ugly girl to marry you." There it is, early R&R wisdom. But is it really? Lately, I have been meeting absolute sweeties, in every way. Seems like many men have passed them by. Not exactly hotties, but certainly not unattractive. Then there are the real lookers, who rarely seem so sweet, and many have witchy tendencies. Of course, some women have it all. I've heard they do exist somewhere.

I HAVE BEEN ON AND OFF CS FOR ALMOST THREE YEARS AND I LIKE THE VARIED THINGS AVAILABLE HERE BUT I AM NOT KIDDING A BIT WHEN I SAY I HAVE INTERVIEWD PROBABLY APPROX 100-200 PROSPECTIVE RESPONDENTS AND I AM STILL WITHOUT THE LOVE OF MY LIFE? ! WTF? I MEAN SOME WOMEN I EMAI WITH A ONE-LINE "INQUIRY" HELL,MY NAME IS SUCH AND SUCH,WANNA CHAT? SOME DON'T EVEN BOTHER TO ANSWER WHICH IS COOL AS NO ONE IS "REQUIRED" TO CONVERSATE HERE BUT THE ONES WQHO DO ARE EITHER EFFEN SCAMMERS,WOMEN LOOKING FOR A MEAL TICKET WITH A FGEW KIDS FROM SOME OTHER MAN OR? YOU NAME IT BUT,PHONEY TRIP TO THE AIRPORT ,PLANE TICKETS THAT ARE NOT USED,i MEAN,i AM ABOUT TO BACK TO EITHER THE BARS OR,FIND A FRIGGEN WHOPREHOUSE SOMEWHERE FOR GODS SAKE! I GUESS I SHOULDN'T SAY THAT BUT I AM SCRATCHING MY HEAD HERE AND WONDERING???? HAS IT GOTTEN THIS DOG EAT DOG TO COURT? WHAT IS A GUY WHO IOS HONEST,HAVE HIS THINGS TOGETHER,SOME WALKING AROUND MONEY IN HIS P[OCKET AND JUST LOOKINMG FOR A NICE BEAUTIFUL.INTELLIGENT WOMAN WITH SOME ASSETS OF HER OWN HAVE TO DO TO ????/ FIND HER? I KNOW I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE IN THIS BOAT,,,,, SO,IF YOUR FGEELING LUCKY,HAHAHAHA , CHIME IN?

aged 45 and a bit...still not met the love of my life..been on a dating site and everything..all i'm asking for is a nice girl who likes to dress in a green skirt ,revealing lots of leg,must be sexy,have her hair in a bun,must be 2 inches tall and like snorting magic pixie dust...not much to ask for..there must be loads of girls like this out there...
Anyway diary..i will wait......
saw a girl today at the local cafe...although she was 5ft 3..she said "i like you!"..but i asked if she had a younger..but smaller sister.....she said "yes..she's 2 inches tall!" .. i asked if her name was "Tinkerbell"..she told me that it did used to be that...but she changed it....i thought " damn!"... and told her i wasn't interested..

so i am still looking for love...don't understand why i haven't found my love..i'm not very picky...


...................this post is influenced by a nice mood and plenty of alcohol .... ROAR(lion)

i've been thinking hard and long and have been doing a lot of research about this subject for many years and have finally come up with the perfect ice breaker for any occasion... it goes like this.. "Hi!" .. "i like you!" ..
note that there was a dramatic pause between the 1st word "Hi!".. and the following "i like you!" sentence.. well this was done deliberately so that this blog sounds more intelligent than it at first appears..and also the pause is their incase there has to be a hand gesture while speaking...or infact between speaking so to speak...for example .. a handshake, a pat on the shoulder/back, a wave, a cheesy point with the finger... or something..
anyway i'm glad to share this knowledge with you,thanks for reading..i don't mind if you want to try this out on a friday night down the club..it's not copyright,and you don't have to thank me..it is my pleasure....

next week i will be concentrating on "How To Woo a potential Lover by doing cartwheels past him/her all day".. (might change this title though,there's something wrong...maybe "rolly pollies".. instead of cartwheels..

all the best...............
Lee (samsonx)

Feminism...I have wrote many blogs about it....I would say objectively challenging women to their ways...to the best of my knowledge. It was not to form judgment, but more for bringing better understanding, for myself and for perhaps others.

Back in traditional relationships, the woman's beauty...by many...was cherished more than her being....her vag more than her brain.

....the behavior of both men and women supported those rolls.


Now...feminism....50% divorce....independence....self-defense....lesbianism....increased women work force...

etc....


What happened...is a question that comes to my mind.

Ever since becoming single, about 10 years ago, I have studied women to reduce the odds of becoming involved in a similar ending relationship again. I am a firm believer in learning from my mistakes in life and not to repeat them. I have only ever been with one woman in my life; therefore, I was by no means an expert in that department. So, how do I learn more...I wondered. Wondering no more, a friend of mine introduced me to the internet being a huge resource for learning about women. He recommended me listen to pick up artists. There were a ton of them online, giving their advice on how to pick up women.

That was all fine and dandy. I figured my problem with my previous relationship was that I didn't understand what women valued in a man, a relationship. So, I began to listen to these pick up artists...listening to all the success they were having with women and how their students are becoming masters themselves. Okay, I thought...that is fine...but, I am not looking to meet countless women, I am trying to figure out what women value in a man for a long term relationship. So, I listened and listened and listened....for about 5 years or so. Even today, the friend who turned me on to this information, still talks about pick up strategy....even 10 years later. continued below....

Wild fires are the norm in SoCal this time of year, but this one threatened the Getty Center. Most wouldn't give a shit but the Getty Center is a 1.3 $billion museum that houses priceless works of art and is FREE to the public!

I've been nervously watching the news since the fire was getting close...

I know I mentioned this before, but it's so important to relationships, had to repeat it. Had a writers' meeting this week, my first ever. From the gitgo, the only woman present began controlling things. The men, also never having been to such groups, and believing that she had, acquiesced. But after all had read from a favorite author, also on her demand, she said---"Ah, all older white male authors". I let this pass as well, but began thinking later, that another such group might be better for me. This one sort of focussed on poetry, not my major interest, as anyone can see by reading mine. But in chatting with other male pals, all thought her remark was ageist, racist and sexist, very much so. The Left whips these terms around willy nilly, along with a favorite, "Speaking truth to power". Sure, she was insecure, being together with such absolutely brilliant males. Fear brings on defensive controlling styles, often. But we see so much of this, especially in Left leaning women, that it's time to start calling it out. But perhaps not in front of others, as the Left likes to do. Of course racism exists. On all sides. Probably hard wired into the behavioral genome from when rapid recognition of "the other" was adaptive for survival, and for passing on genes. But constant, defensive, self virtue broadcasting of such terms might not be working against the human curse. And how about all us controlling men, in relationships with the ladies? Whence all THAT?

I try to start it from time to time, by picking on one or two CS talented, intelligent, funny and ravishing beauties. Even try the counterpositive approach, insulting some creatively as I go. Alas, while most respond in droves, privately, per CS mail, their blog/forum flirting behaviors are rare, and often cryptic. Now, I love innuendo as much as the next swinging dinglebob, but c'mon girls, let loose a bit.