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I had been married for 22 years till death do us apart and now he is in heaven joining with my father and grandparents! Do I love him? Of course I do that is why I married him the first place! Now he is gone, I am searching for LOVE again! What is love? It should be nature without any force and unconditional that making your heart beat! Love in the first sight that did play the big part of two souls. What is love? Love will always be inconvenience into life no matter how busy life made you when you really in love nothing matter not distance not space not even just screen the other side! What is love? Love is something two people willing to do anything for each other! Love into marriage would be beautiful thing! But it is not all marriage is about love! Marriage is about package that person bring you in life! It is easy to say you love someone but when marriage brought into each other life that have to keep love alive!

I can't say I love someone till that person is REAL to me! I don't understand why people can say LOVE so easier that is not LOVE! No matter how people wrote or share the stories those are just illusion created in receivers' mind! When someone looks at my photo then they started creating illusion of me in front of them, that is never real and that is just in their head! Whatever people share there and I will only listen and still need time to prove if they are real or not!

I have already said Love is nature thing and love is unconditional till then a person understand fully then he will be the person really know what love is!

When someone we love died, our heart will be hurt. When the next one coming along, we will know and hopefully feel love again!
Don’t tell me you love me till you really meant it!

Listening to many TedX seminars on YouTube, I am starting to hear a common theme going on with women and their lack of o*gasm during sex. All of these seminars I listened to so far were given by women with a professional background in sex therapy. One of them make a claim that 90% of men achieved o*gasm during sex where women were less than half of that.

Another female sex professional claims that a small percentage of women achieve o*gasm with penal penetration. When she told one of her patients that, the patient was shocked....saying something like "oh, so there is nothing wrong with me."

Another female professional talks about how society has stereotyped sex and it is solely to do with penetration....for countless time. Today, things are changing when it comes to women's sexuality and there is a lot yet that has yet to be understood about it. But, sex done correctly with a woman, she can o*gasm as frequently as a man. It is said that she is primarily stimulated by the cl*t.

In addition, women lose their feeling of being h*rny when in a long term relationship. They claim that is completely normal. One professional compared it to going to the gym. Most people don't have this innate desire to go to the gym, but once they are there and doing their workout, their body feels great and the workout is very rewarding. She says, the same can be said with a woman's sex drive in a long term relationship. A long term relationship, she says, is about 6 months to a year....or longer.

With all that being said....these women claim that many women have come to them for their professional help with sex. Many women did not even know their own bodies and how it operated.

Now, to my question about....were women mistaken/men ignorant/society misinformed?

Did/do women hold men responsible...or....do women loath men when they can clearly see he achieved o*gasm and she did not. Perhaps...loathing to the point of feeling she is being mistreated? Perhaps loathing to the point to seeking an extra marital partner or a divorce?

The grass is only greener until the woman starts getting bored and discovered that new guy is not doing it for me either....what up with that? she might think??

Perhaps...that is why women like men who have a lot of experience with many women. Perhaps these men know about the significance of the cl*t...and how to stimulate it correctly? Or....that is why women like other women?

Again, I am just a dumb a** here.....I don't know anything. That is why I am asking.

Some problems in relationships can be tackled as a couple but some problems are a lot harder to solve. In fact, some of the relationship problems listed here just can’t be fixed. Look for the symptoms early in a relationship. The longer you wait to fix or terminate, the harder it becomes.

No Respect For Each Other
This is probably the number one reason for failed relationships. It manifests itself by contempt, finger-pointing, sarcasm and so forth. If both partners are unwilling to compromise, things will get worse until there is no coming back.

Needless Arguments
There will be times when you disagree on an issue. Agree to disagree. No one wins when one of you always has to be right.

Chronic Infidelity
Nothing can be more exhausting in a relationship than a serial cheater. Such a relationship can be repaired but only if the unfaithful partner is prepared to leave the affair behind.

Secrecy
We all need time apart but what we do in our free time shouldn’t be some great mystery. There’s a difference between privacy and secrecy. Too much secrecy leaves you feeling emotionally abandoned. A relationship needs sharing and openness.

Incompatible Sex Drives
A mutually fulfilling sex life is incredibly important in a long-term relationship. You should establish your sexuaI compatibility early on; it cannot be fixed later.

Not Able To Open Up To Each Other
If one of you prefers to keep your emotions bottled up, you will end up distancing yourself from your partner, giving up prematurely.

An Avoidant Partner
If your partner is avoiding and dismissive it’s going to be difficult. It can turn a calm and self-assured person into a bundle of neediness.

Narcissism
Maintaining a relationship with a narcissistic partner is an uphill battle. It is not uncommon for the narcissistic partner to sometimes throw a bone here and there, giving the other partner hope but most of the time they will criticize you for making their life miserable.

If you detect any of these in yourself, start working on it... if you treasure your relationship.


Remember, today is the first day of the rest of your life. Make it memorable.

It is clear from my profile that I am not interested in Long distance anything. No chat. No skype. No anything if you are not from the Denver area.

I still get random messages from all over. Some are no doubt scammers, but others are probably clueless guys who only look at pictures. I tell them that most community colleges offer courses in remedial reading...

What is the status of online dating sites these days? Are folks out there having cyber sex and exchanging nude pics? What are guys thinking when they contact a woman half way across the country?

If you have found good one, why are you still looking for a better one?

After the better one, comes the next better one - and after this better one comes the next and so on and so on!
You will search forever! Always for a better one!
The search does not stop!
You never will have a chance to create a little family!
You NEVER will feel REAL love!
You NEVER will have a life in happiness and harmony,because you are too busy by searching for something better!

At the end of your life you will feel very lonely because you have always searched, but neither lived nor loved!

it is a very sad end of your life! Believe it or not!

I meet a lady in a park, she called me over because I had my guitar. I remember after chatting awhile, this huge lecture to me and the other guys present, she isn’t dating, she is a career woman, she doesn’t have time for anyone right now in her life, and she doesn’t have time for no FN romance.

I think she started it because I said she was cooler than the girls online, maybe I should ask for your number ... and to be clear, she isn’t my normal type, and really young, and she was dressed so frumpy and baggy with hair hidden and a ball cap, I wasn’t even serious at all.. like... thought she was cute but didn’t think She would dig old beard guy and thought she is young, not really why I was digging her... she sings and plays guitar and stuff.. cool... the number thing was a joke for a laugh not serious, jist wasn’t making moves... I expected a rejection and was prepared to laugh because I didn’t give two shits about dating her either way.

Well.. as some may have read, she called our time non dates... we would arrange a date to meet, but these were not romantic, was supposed to be music related only but we kept talking each other ears off, and she said when we met she is one of the guys, really? Really really? She let out some jokes that were so raunchy... she got points just for being crazy funny and dark.. whoa she is a riot. So, I just talked to her like one of the guys, I wasn’t making moves at all. Not one freaking move, lots of life talk, each other, um.. just on the same page with so much and laughing, singing, dancing, guitar, sounds funny.., but on our fifth non date... she flipped the script.

It was like a scene in a movie, she changed her tone, her demeanor, and she starts with, you haven’t done one thing wrong. I’m thinking, of course not, what did you think I was going to do? She meant no advances, no hands, no innuendo, no flirting like she said not interested so.. that would of been creepy ...well.. she said my soul was beautiful, then said I wasn’t beautiful however, nor cute, nor pretty... she kind of paused and I was thinking, thanks a lot, should I shave? Then she says your FN handsome, reaches for my beard and at this point I’m thinking whoa whoa Nellie, so I pulled away, and she pulled her hand away, said sorry, can I touch your face? ( sorry proper quotes and breaks are a pain on touch screen ). And I said yeah, she caressed my face, beard, ran her fingers through my hair, and I was thinking, we’re not in Kansas anymore. She kissed me.. and I mean kissed me... like she went from my innocent friend to what just happened?

Well.. after many ahem, dates after that, we had some drama.., she can’t keep time from my view, habitually late, a couple no call no shows... but she always called back and made it up to me, She did one blunder that I was angry about, like had a reason to be pissed, but before I could tell her that was it, this girl,said I was her man and her my lady one day,then back peddled... strike two.. dam it.. there were more strikes but I’m not trying to own the girl,and trying to be understanding,,. But that was two major strikes, and she left ... and after her I’m a lady, and I’m your friend comment in mixed company, and it’s ok to date, I want you to be happy stuff.., and note I was really digging her on many levels by now, she has drama, strikes, grrr, we are done, she isn’t coming back... fine .. I’m a bachelor .. grumble grumble.. good bye Mercedes.. that sucked. Roll with it big guy!

Man... there is always something. I feel like I’ve been shagged by the first one, she said as much... the most recent, she digs me but like the first, has issues going on, ex boyfriend was abusive syndrome and is all conflicted... meanwhile, I’m bummed because I catch feelings ... particularly when they talk for hours and we have a blast, have great everything ... repeat dates... lots of em... the. There is some shoe that drops.

The most recent one is freaking awesome, but in recovery... thirteen stepping its called ... she is trying to not thirteen step, she has issues worse than mine ... both do actually, but I wasn’t thinking it was a red flag for either... but ex boyfriend syndrome, issues with recovery and can’t really hold their liquor and struggling with a dui... um.. she didn’t lie about a thing, but she got wonky when she started to feel love for me... she will be around, but I’m not looking to chase... see ya honey, I’m here... if you need moral support and stuff... cool... frankly she is kind of young for me... certainly has some issues that I hope she grows out of... but judge her? No way, she is pretty awesome flaws or not, friends for life... and I know she enjoys being with me... you can tell...

They both were conflicted with ex boyfriend baggage... the first one dug me enough for five dates, this last one over ten dates... and she didn’t call it off... she has needed tome before and comes back ... but... the hot cold hot cold.. I love you, want to shag you a lot followed with... this is getting too hot? Hmm... ok... here is some ice... that should help. Im moving on....

I just blasted all my dating logins too boot except here.

It wouldn’t be too bad, except, you can’t tell if they talked crap the whole time telling you what you wanted to hear to mess with you or are legitimately conflicted and slightly damaged goods and actually going through stuff... I can’t complain, we weren’t dating, she made moves, not me, caught feelings, passion, intimacy, going strong, catch feelings, tell me she is falling for me.. then cold feet after lots of that? Ok...

This isn’t me... I’m honest, god fearing, and my biggest crime god wise is not waiting until marriage to rock there world ... and this one, I was not even making moves, we were just hanging out... then she flipped the script... and she flipped it again... not after one time mind you... and every time we got frisky, she was The one to go from friends to benefits... and seconds, thirds, etc. lol..

Dam... well, I hear feedback from women... and so far, I have game and romance and they all seem to like me in the bedroom and think I’m intelligent, polite, not a d*ck basically and know how to love and treat a lady... but you know... I’ll jist keep my eyes open and meeting folks all over like I do...

My thing is monogamy ... and not major commitment, jist don’t screw any other dude if I’m your current tickle... that’s reasonable... lol. If I call you my lady, it means, I’m spoken for, you are spoken for... if that’s too much and you shag over and over and can’t commit to that bit... none said they wanted to go screw another... one shagged me, the other... jist got overwhelmed with her own feelings and she needs to regroup... whatever... sounds like a pain in the a** to deal with to me...

I have a simple dating philosophy... the bedroom is easy to master... it’s all that time you aren’t in bed that is the problem.... I prefer no drama ... can deal with quite a bit of drama, but not when my heart gets caught in their yo-yo of saying one thing, then back peddling the. saying it again, ... um... leading me on then Off on then off, more frisky, lots of lovey Dubby stuff and conversation, all is awesome, followed with the I dunno...

Well often these women call back, both did this hot cold hot cold thing over and over... next please...

We have found our spokesman, and it isn't me, for my neighbor and I were talking, he runs a night club, I'm the god guy, he has dancers, we agree on one thing, a few actually, but below is the video of all videos... We agree, my other friends agree, this is the shit.

If you follow this link, and do not agree, that this is the correct matrix for men, and there is a matrix at the end for women, and well...

I think this fella is on to something. How about you? Lol, I use it.

So... I just talked to my ex whom I've been very close friends with now. We did some catching up and he told me that he took off his dating app profile and deleted the app completely. Because finally he has decided to give his relationship with his girlfriend of 8 years, his first girlfriend a last try.

I am happy for the girl and for him, but Im a little bit jealous that after all that he's been through, and everyone he's found, he went back and chose that girl.

Maybe because that girl waited and hoped and been patient with him all this time. For whatever reason he has, I have wished to have one day someone choose me too. That someone no matter how difficult Ive been choose me over anyone.

What a heavy feeling for a wonderful Sunday!

Blessed Sunday everyone!

I was 25 when I opened up myself for a romantic relationship. My friends said that it wasn't even real because it was online. We met and carry our relationship online without meeting up in person. To me it was real, i meant every word and everything I did for our relationship. However, we still separated after 4 years.

Moving on, I got lonely, and even when its dangerous and there's too much prejudice attached to a filipina dating in Saudi Arabia, I did it for my loneliness. And because I can bend some rules at my own risk.

After numerous dates though, mostly meeting the guys once, some twice and 2 a few months and 1 labeled relationship, I realized the men (non saudis, expats like me) won't look for anything more than casual. It broke my heart more than the breakup with my boyfriend for 4 years.

So yeah, i don't know if its better for me to take myself back online, or continue dating men without a hope for future. Or stop all the effort and just wait for God's perfect time.