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Do normal people exist?

First you have to define normal. Take yourself. Are you normal? YAY! Find someone like yourself. YAY!

If they really are like you, and you like them, you are normal enough for each other and that's all that matters. We loved having you on CS, go now and be happy.

If they are really like you, and awful, time for a rethink.

If it turns out they aren't like you at all, and this happens more than once, you have to look at the following possibilities:

You aren't normal, you're special
You aren't normal, you're certifiable
You are normal, but the rest of the world is nuts.

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He's strutting by wearing white gym vest and a Capri a little too snug for comfort. Funny ensemble but the girls aren't watching his bland choice of wardrobe; rather, the tight toned muscles all over this magnificent mass of human cells. His abs peek through the tight top, one could draw the muscles of his thighs buy just staring at his shorts and those majestic arms swung sublimely from side to side, seeming to avoid the rest of the torso, the runner up of this pop-up competition. He passed by with his head in his cellphone, oblivious of the female gawking nearby.

I have always been a special individual. Not special as in a disability or deficiency. But special in that I never seem to flow with the norm or society when it comes to areas such as fashion, ‘the latest” and body standards.

He drives hastily into the parking lot to grab some beer and WD-40 before the store closes at 6. A female ogling at the puffed up wonder who has almost disappeared around the corner bounces into him. “G’day lady, careful there, have a nice day!” She stared and seemed disgusted and walked away.

I have always been a special individual. I am getting off my car. I see him hastening across. Mature, tall, full bodied, blessed with a belly, and scruffy beard on a kind tired face. I can tell he is a hardworking dude by the look on his face and his tired outfit. Hmm. I too am going to the store, and happy I chose this day. 3 years being single, are you gonna blame me for looking? Selectively looking s’il vous plait. So here’s why I fall for bigger middle aged guys.

I love the maturity that comes with 50+. Yes you find total idiots in this range as well, but the odds of finding someone who wants to settle down and treat you right without the feeling that you are being experimented on is very high.

There is so much more to love and to hold on a full bodied man. I am a sucker for cuddling and I want to feel lost and engulfed in a cuddle. I want to snug up like a pupa in a cocoon [me being the pupa] and that is soooo important to me. I want to feel flesh, warmth, and mass. Maybe I have a fetish for bigger guys; are you going to act judgmental when I can maybe proudly say what mine is and you can’t, for the fear of being deleted from this site?

I love the feeling of being smaller, younger, worshiped, and dependent as I look up to him as older, bigger, in charge and as my superior who treats me as his princess.
Did I say I was weird? Yes I am, and please don’t lose sleep over it.

I inch closer to where he is standing by the cold drinks. The item I am trying to grab on to falls because I have no basket and my hands are full. He quickly comes to my rescue. That kind genuine smile fenced by his greying mustache and beard is breathtaking. He picks it up and places it on my arms. “Let me get you a basket.” I blink my eyes and he is there, saving my day with a basket. “Are you ok?” I say yes, shyly. He takes my hand and says, “I’m Tom, nice to meet you.”

I reply, “Umm Tom..” Yes I am gawking, and nervous, and weak. Then I scurry off with embarrassment because I am indeed a shy lady, to [dream of my encounter tonight] and {to hope I cross his path again}. I am weird. Yeah

So I have old fashioned morals and principles...I cant help it..it is who I am and yet I find myself adrift in this new weird world of dating or what I think of as dating.
A little background in order to understand, I'm nearly 50 years old. I have had 2 long term relationships both 10 years the rest of the time single..so now I find myself wishing and wanting to share time with a man again so on a friends suggestion trying a 'dating site'. I'm at a loss to understand the mind games and untruths..when did it all become all about sex?? ok I hear you say...old fashioned...yes I am but I would like to take the time to get to know a person by personality before I jump into bed with them..oh and I'm not a Jennifer Aniston or Michelle Phiefer look alike...I'm a real woman with curves...do men really just want a play thing to be discarded when the sweet shop opens again ?? If I sound angry I dont mean to be...just want to understand so I can get off the rolller-coaster

A recent event got me wondering what must be going on behind the scenes here. I am now imagining a frenzy of private messages hurtling back and forth, discrediting enemies and attempting to form alliances. What actually gets posted is probably but a tiny glimpse of the full picture. Obscure accusations that no one understands, apart from those directly involved, seem to appear on a regular basis. I say obscure, but perhaps it’s just me that finds them so, maybe everyone else knows what they are about.

It might be a good idea to add an extra feature to the site; a separate section, increasing the options for expressing our thoughts. We already have the Forum and Blogs, what we need now is a Washing Dirty Laundry In Public section.

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What ever Happen to Men Treating a Lady Like the way she should be Treated ,Holding the Car door Open for her , Pulling out her Chair for her to sit down,,,Showing up at her Place with Flowers to Take Her out On a Date to a Movie or Out for a Nice meal.Or Going for a walk hand and Hand and going some place nice where you can sit and Talk and get to know one another ,,well as Far as I.am concern that is long Gone ,,,These days all men seem to want is a Cheap Roll in the Hey ,and Talk about sex ,, No more Morals or Values left out there ,, Don;t take this the Wrong way I.am no Prude ,But I would Like to get to Know someone First before I take the Next step. I was Brought up with Morals and Values and Taught to Respect Myself . and to act like a Lady not some Cheap Bimbo ...I know there has to be a Gentleman out there some where and I sure would Like to meet someone Like that someday ..

are many. The divorce stats agree. We read that, apart from adultery, money issues may form the biggest threats. Of course, there are many more, and some pile up over time. Toxic inlaws/friends, challenging accomodations, illness, environmental stresses, bringing work home, politics/religion, evolving sexuality, differences in parenting, etc. Sometimes, follks just grow apart in interests and other things. Parenting got us. There are lots of forms of help to work through these things, but many couples avoid counseling like the plague. And really competent therapists often are rare. My folks were together for six decades. Enduring marriages may be going the way of the lifelong job and gold watch.

it was the man who would lead, no? Saw my eye doctor today. Bright, grounded, nice, real blonde, tall, gorgeous, and so on. Around half my age, and outclasses me by a country mile. But got me thinking. In a phantasy world, might she ask me out, or at least drop hints of interest? Now, here on CS, and elsewhere, women have been more forward with me, but typically, it seems the man is still expected to make first moves. Perhaps the current millennial generations are different. Who knows?