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I wrote a blog stating I had noticed 600+ new members joining CS in a period of less than 4 days. I believed they were all scammer profiles because they were within 22-25 years old using photos that looked like models and their opening lines had similar website addresses.

Researching the addresses got me to the main URL of Google Meet. It looks like the purpose of the GM is to create virtual meeting rooms similar to Hangouts or Whatsapp.

I reported a few different profiles that had the same photo and a few where I found the social media sites that the photos were most likely stolen from.

Logging in this morning my unopened email message counter was down. Some of the scammers who contacted me disappeared in the night!

I had bookmarked more than 20 bogus profiles and checking them today I see they were all gone.


Kudos to the administrators who quickly responded to eliminate bogus profiles on CS!

Dozens of profiles of young women on dating sites who state they are looking for someone to spend the rest of their life with. Sounds good... doesn't it?

Typically they are 25 to 35 years old looking for men 50-99



Do the math... maybe they should be looking for someone to spend the rest of HIS life with.

There are many dating site complaints, but of the 'top of the list' especially from women is men don't read profiles. Guys see someone attractive and immediately respond regardless what the women say in their introduction. Nearly the same subject would be men complaining about scammers. A guy could be 70, missing teeth on his photo and told (by a 25 year old) he's handsome.

My profile opening line gives a pretty clear warning and that doesn't stop me from getting messages coming from women half my age sending contact information.
Obviously, they didn't see or don't care that I'm married.

I speculate, these things are inherent in all dating sites...

In my beginning at CS I would read some, block some. More-so now I delete without reading. I offered a suggestion to have the ability to change the mark a message had been read so it appears unread. There is one site that lets the other person know if you deleted messages unread. I like that idea a lot. Let the other person know their message was deleted --- unread.

I did/do report the ones using stolen photos, hopefully they will be gone and not linger to annoy other members.

I said I would refrain from reading, writing or commenting on strongly opinionated and political blogs.
If scanning the blog header and first sentence is enough to make me shake my head, I move on. I've seen enough complaints about the high frequency of political blogs and the high frequency of defending your right on a free site to post whatever you want.
I've experienced sites that were heavily moderated and many blogs, comments and retaliation blogs disappeared in the night.

I'm always a guest here... that's how I see it. Blogging is a privilege and NOT a right. Too bad others don't see it that way. Free or not, you shouldn't be allowed to say what you want, when you want without repercussions. Need proof? Go Tweet some racial slurs and see where that gets you. I'm sure you can find private, by invitation or subscription blog sites that you can get away with 'anything goes' attitude...
Hmmm.. a topic for a different blog.

Some sites send messages when you break the rules, some close profiles. Hopefully I won't have any experience with that here. Many of my blogs are spontaneous. I read or hear things that inspire me to write. Often I jot down blog ideas on scraps of papers... sometimes unopened bills and when I get a past due notice, I realize 20+ blog ideas are scribbled on the the back of the envelope.

Blogs on CS move quickly. There is a lot of activity and a blog that I think would get little activity, gets several pages of comments and blogs that I think would do well... don't.

But that's nothing to complain about !!

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Some people prefer not to upload a pic in his/her profile. Reasons, reasons and more reasons.

Why are young women contacting old men and why are older women looking for someone much younger, lets be realistic aren't we just setting ourselves up to be scammed. I been on the internet dating sites for some time and every one of them are the same with undesirable people trying to take advantage of others. I never new there so many dishonest people out there, I would like to think age does not matter choosing someone to share out lives with but it does and the internet seems full of those types taking advantage of this. Be careful what u wish for

Ladies and gentlemen how would or how do you treat and adore your better half

Dear Diary.
Have no one else to talk to, so I will write it down for you.
Why are we so stupid? Believing in stories and myths about love?
Love is that few minutes of lust. After that it's over...

Relationships don't last. Ask me. And the culprit ain't me either. Why can't men be happy with what they got? We do everything for them and still, they have other flings or affairs. Why hurt us and still come and tell us afterwards they love us?

So again, just keep on reading mills and boon and dream about love. CAUSE IT'S JUST A NICE DREAM.

I'm still a newbie on CS, but I'm feeling comfortable enough to reveal my innermost life secrets. Things that happened in my life that makes me... me.

Remembering Jennifer, I shouldn't say her last name (Smythe) from fifth grade. She was by-far the prettiest girl in my school. We were friends and used to meet after class. Sometimes, when she asked, I would walk her home. Unfortunately, it was in the opposite direction from my house... but that wasn't important.
There were times she would ask me to meet at her house and we would sit under the tree in her yard and kiss. She was a babe!

(Changing the subject slightly, I happened to recognize her many years later at a party and she grew up to look a lot like actress Jane Seymour.)

I always accepted Jennifer's invitations.
One day, while sitting under the tree, a classmate Stephen showed up at her place and that was a total surprise to me. Stephen accused me of stealing HIS girlfriend but I said SHE invited me. He was angry and I got out of there quick!

If you remember the movie The Karate Kid, after Ali started liking Daniel and all the friends of Ali's ex started giving Daniel trouble. Yeah... that's what happened to me. Getting pushed around in the corridor, a foot gets strategically place to trip me, etc.

One day, I get a note passed to me... "Meet me at the bike rack after school to settle this. If you don't show, you are dead."
It sounds like a line from a movie, but (sadly) it was true.

Yeah, I was there and so was Jennifer.
Logic didn't come into play. I had no choice to solve this...
Oh, Jennifer dear... you are a two-timer and didn't get your schedule right.
This could have gone on much longer than it did.
Was she confused which boy was the best for her?
Was my meeting with Stephen intentional?
Questions, questions but no answers, answers.

Stephen and I started to fight. It was a clean fight with no assistance from his friends.
We bashed each others heads at first and ended up wrestling more than swinging fists.
Was it 5 minutes or 25 minutes? I cannot remember.
What I do remember was neither one was a clear winner.
Both tired, we gave up the fight and looking around, Jennifer was gone!
Do not pass go, do not collect $200.

Things calmed down between Stephen and me, we actually became friends.
What became of Jennifer?
Not sure... the one time I recognized her at a party was enough for me.


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In a former life, I used to talk on the CB radio. One of my CB friends worked for an electronics company and his other hobby was listening to people talk on scanners. Typically it's companies that are licensed to work on assigned frequencies (channels) with 2-way radios. It could be an air conditioning company dispatch in communication with their service trucks. Not much talking, it's there for business.
What a scanner does is quickly search up and down a selected list of channels and only stop when there is activity. There are limits as some frequencies are business and some sections/bands are only for police and emergency communication. This is where the action is. People working for TV or a newspaper listen to scanners with great intent.

The perfect example would be to hear about a shooting. Someone called the police and they dispatched an officer to the scene. A good 'scanner head' would pick up on that and make it there before the police arrive.
As they say (not really sure who 'they' is) the early bird gets the worm. Lots of things can happen seconds before the police make it to the scene.

Another thing scanners could do was pick up on signals from cordless phones. Remember those things? It didn't take long before they went to higher frequencies away from the reach of scanners. Anyway, my friend used to listen to a woman in a nearby apartment as she would talk for hours, sadly he got to know all about her personal life.

He was telling me the woman told her girlfriend about her boyfriend. He was the perfect gentleman, a really great guy, but it bored her, so she was having affairs with other men and he didn't realize it. She went on to tell her girlfriend "He's such a Bozo."

One relationship I had with a woman who came from a wealthy family often tugged me in different directions. I knew she was dating guys with money who could afford taking her on weekend trips to the islands, but she returned to me. I was the honest, reliable guy who didn't have an inflated ego, pour on cologne and have to prove to everyone around that I'm important.

Thinking of the woman who called her boyfriend a Bozo (behind his back) because he did everything right reminded me that I was a Bozo too!
Shortly after, I ended the relationship with the woman and joined an internet dating site...
My profile name was... Bozo.

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The only thing I can promise you is kissing you, teasing you so you smile, care about you when you are sad , give you a massage, talk your ear off, make love whit you, I will do that every day , for the rest of our lives,
I'm not a fantasy man, just an ordinary man
Not as first thing to write