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I have been on this site for a good while now. I have been somewhat dismayed by the fact that the majority of women who see my photo never take the time to actually read it. I am sure there are a good number of people looking for the same things; love, communication and such. However, there are some on here (like me) that seek something out of the mainstream.
I am seeking a woman who is a playful submissive who wants a long term relationship in the Master/slave lifestyle. lol that is right an extreme dominant submissive relationship. Before folks get all judgy remember that we all have our preferences, that just happens to be mine.
Yet as clearly as I stated what I am seeking you might be surprised at the number of women who see my photo and send the hi I'm so and so or hey handsome. Later as we move forward and I begin asking them questions dealing with there role in the lifestyle, they will ask,"why do you ask me that?" There response causes me to rewrite what I am seeking a lot.
Ladies and gentlemen always read the profile, know what you are getting into because looks can be deceiving.

My late wife was a woman with an outlook on life that showed amazing insight.
One time when I was looking to purchase a good used van for work after going through countless adds I was getting frustrated. I sat at my desk looking dismayed when Leah in her gentle way came over and was massaging my neck and said, Honey sometimes you have to dig a lot of coal to find a diamond." a week later I found the van I was looking for.
In a world where most people are looking for a quick result, her statement holds true. On dating sites it is easy to just give up. Each of us has our own desires. Whether it is basic or as off the wall as mine you may have to deal with a good number of people before you find what you are seeking. There will be many who will approach you some with sincere motives and others who will try to take you for what they can. But remember sometimes you have to dig a lot of coal to find a diamond.
Finding someone with the same interests and goals can take a while but in the end it is far better than settling for less than what you want.
Don't give up hope just keep digging

One sometimes hears the CS ladies tell of how so many men do this, often after rejection---real or imagined (hallucinated?). Perhaps there's a difference here on lying as well. And many other things. I might start checking men's profiles to see if they list Nice calm pleasant humorous talk, and truthfulness, among having a job, not living in mom's basement, etc., as preferences. There must be many such differences. My profile probably reads like no nice real human lady would ever match.

Never thought I would this age, almost 34 single,and not married no kids, sometimes I am optimistic and other times I am not so optimistic, I am torn between giving up completely and waiting a bit more. Hmmm is he out there? Did I already meet him ? Will I ever meet him ? Tsk, tsk,tsk???? my first time thinking this out loud and literally blogging about it lol.??It's been heavily on my heart lately??

normally this is not my character...really believe me.....past few months i have changed a lot
emotionally

there is this guy i am in touch with is my problem whatever i am writting here is all facts

many years i have been getting this dream...a man is so much close to me i can alomst
visualize him.....long back i used to think this as my silly imagination ...until i seen him online
i was so happy finally my dream did come true and felt very relaxed that is until now...yes my
problem started

from my side i am very much attached to him emotionally but he seems to be different
not that he dont like me ...but...some what keeping his distance away from me...this really hurting
me but i can not say anything to him as our relation is not that serious from his side
maybe because i was the one to send the email to him first.].a few months before.]...mean while i am
getting offers from my relations to enter politics....now i am thinking should i take the offer and forget
this whole thing or for time beiing should i take gap...for i always believed that what is to happen will
happen..and concentrate on my work or crying silently as why this happened?
sometimes it is very difficult to understand why certain things happens
what actually those dreams meant ?????

i got shocked.....one of my friend came to me crying.......i told her instead of crying much
better is finding a solution for whatever that she crying about...

her bf has cheated her.....she had this boy for a year now...and he cheated her last week
she came to know now

men do cheat quite common here.... .....women need to think before having a steady
relation ..it is not new that mostly men like to settle down with a clean nice girl...but..they
think it do not apply same rule to them

it is a open fact ....men wants bad girls for their nights and nice girls for the day
i dont think i have to go deep into that as that is a understood matter

now my friend do not know...what to do because he has come back to her{looks like the
other one is either too smart or too wicked |

i really felt sorry for her....i said what i feel about the situation is ....she needs some space
from him then later on she can think about it in a cool mind..i myself a novice in things like
this anyways she left me with a smile....said she always liked my talk and coffee

Have anyone got into a relationship with someone an they just seem to not be able to do anything for you bu,t when you first met they talk about what they did for their ex how they where there to help them through a death of a love one or help them get a better job education but when you run into similar problems they can't be there they have to work they have no money always a excuse to why they can't help but see them do for their friends.Well i have had broken toys and it hurts to know your are willing to help this person but the favor wont be returned because they don't really care for you that stuff hurts a human

Trust is a very important part of any relationship.
I mean, if you can't fully trust your significant other,
how confident can you really be in that person and
how long do you think that the relationship will last ?
It's crucial, yet at least somewhat questionable.

Now imagine, that someone alters your perception.
They deceive your eyes and not only let you think
otherwise, but persuade you to do so.

How would you react ?

Take for instance;

Many of us men have been there. I recall as a much younger man, being in bed with a younger Indian girl, Sunita, daughter of a ranking military family, emigrees from the Subcontinent, who, at the time in central California, were wont to go into the cheap hotel business on retiring. She was a "candy stripper", a girl recently out of high school, and with plans for a career in nursing, volunteering with patient care. It wasn't too rare for such tarts to sniff about our dorm, on the prowl for a little action. I was staying in this former nurses' dorm for a large public hospital, where while in training, the place, to attract house staff, let me stay, with plenty of free laundry and cafeteria tickets. No one had any illusions of any of this. But during intimacy between the sheets, where a "home run" (yank jargon) was soon at hand, she began to protest, saying, "no, no...please, sir, don't, I'm not sure now if I want you to be my first." I hesitated, thinking this was honorable, but she soon became less and less convincing. Was it my only ever rape? Differences between the sexes. V-Aa.

Is it really that difficult? How many long-term relationships have formed due to this site? I have been here a few years now and I know of maybe 2 relationships that have formed. My friend who introduced me to this site found his wife on this site. And, Daniel. I didn't know him, he was sorta of leaving as I was getting on. But, I remember him posting a blog about becoming involved in a relationship. How many other do you know of?

How can one improve their chances?



My number one and two improvements seem to be a better profile and pictures of just me...and no females.


Maybe I should write a profile with a bunch of demands? For example, don't tell me I need a different profile. Or, shut your face about my pictures. Okay, a little dramatic here at the end.

Just a little bored here tonight....isn't that something, as soon as I get done working for like 12 hours...the moment after I eat, I am bored. Sounds like I need a woman. :)