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My swinger friend doesn’t swing anymore and I got banned from the swingers website. I don’t even know what I did.

We had a bad start involving a turned over dustbin. A few days later, while both of us were guests at a barbecue hosted by a mutual friend, we got along well enough to venture onto a dinner date a few days later and we discovered that we have more in common than what we suspected.

We are spending more and more time together and amazingly, we don’t make preset dates anymore. When I want to go somewhere, I simply walk across the road to fetch her and off we go. Likewise, when she wants to do something, she’ll just walk into my place, say so and we do it. Everything happens spontaneously and it is as if we’ve known each other for years, while in fact, it is only a very short time.

Somehow, without even discussing it, we became an item… and all those around us think so too.

The other amazing thing is that, during that barbecue, fairly early on, she mentioned very casually that after her stormy marriage, she will not easily get involved with somebody again and that she needs time and space to get her life back in order. Yet, as we grew closer, not once did she repeat that statement. In fact, I think that I got all the encouragement that a modern and decent woman would allow herself.

With the exception of that ‘horrible’ Yorkshire accent which I sometimes battle to understand (Molly suggested sub-titles ) and her inability to make a decent curry , she is everything I can expect in a woman; she is neat, attractive, sexy, intelligent, affectionate, adaptable, honest, and has many other good virtues. And apart from involving me in her life, she takes an interest in what I’m doing.

She can even bait a fishhook, rack pool balls, and pour a decent brandy. But jokes aside, I could very easily fall in love with her; if I’m not that already but still in denial. But even if I’m not in love with her, I’m very fond of her and I don’t really care what we do, as long as she enjoys it as well.

Yet, the future is unclear. She has to work another two years before she can retire with a decent pension and that is where the uncertainty starts. What will happen then? During our conversation at that first barbecue, she also mentioned that she is considering going back to the UK. Now, that is the one topic that I have avoided since and she did not bring it up either.

I don’t want her to go back but I cannot see my way open to influence her to stay. I feel that she has to make up her own mind; for if things go sour later, as they often do, she’ll tell me that I told her to stay. I know that I should grab the bull by the horns and ask her if she was serious about going back - and I would; if only I knew what to do if she still planned to return to her country.

Do I enjoy it while it lasts or do I take a smaller knock now to avoid a bigger knock later?


For those who don't know how this started, look at this.

...and maybe its time for me to improve my English , however ...I hope that the majority here will understand ...

Yesterday I tried to make a list of all the Women I have slept with -no reason, just for fun...at some point I started thinking
How many of you actually knows the number of people they have slept with or perhaps their names ...Dont get me wrong here, Im not searching for a cheap trill ... Im not judgmental or too nosy for my own good ...I was just wondering . are there more people out there who are ,or have tried to make a list ...

to understand the following habit, i have to tell, that i had a very bad sad experience with a "friend".
He was not from CS, but an internet aquaintance.
All was wonderful suitable, our interests, targets, life-setting.
We meet, he was visiting me, while he has fraudulently my trust surreptitiously.
And as i was stupid enough to let him the key of my flat, he had stolen, and i had embarrassing to realize that he was already known to the police.

Now, before i meet someone, i aks him for a passport copy, of course i offer my in return.
I mean, if someone have nothing to hide, it should be no problem.

How to resolve this issue, I have experienced a lot and thats why I am wondering how to approach the Australian women in person and express our desire to be their friends

Ever since I was a child I had the unfailing ability to annoy and irritate the hell out of some people; and the worst of it is that I enjoy it. As with all other things that I enjoy, I practiced it well and through the years I had honed it into a fine art.

When people invest time and resources in revenge against me, it becomes so much sweeter for it only underlines how effective this gift is… or is it a curse? As they say in show business: There is no such thing as bad publicity. The worse it is, the more people will get to know about it and thus the better the exposure.

And being the vain bastard that I am… Oh shut up, Catfoot! That is enough of that for now.

But at a more serious trend, I think we should ask the CS moderators to verify the age of one or two bloggers. I suspect that they may be using their grandfather’s pics because the garbage the come up with resembles the work of a fourteen year old.

So, look around, stay alert and remember to take your little blue pills when the little voices get too loud. Those leprechauns are lurking everywhere; just waiting to strike.

Anyway, I have a date tonight with a certain lady from Yorkshire. It is a natural continuation after a very pleasant barbecue on Saturday and even more so after she just dropped in for an hour or two on Monday evening.

No, I still don’t think that it will lead to something more permanent and I believe she realizes it too but she is good company. What I like most about her is that she can listen as well… and she’s quite prepared to argue a point if she does not agree.


Have a great day! Yea, you too!

When the man looks for the woman for sex, it is normal. When the woman looks for the man for the sake of money, it has to be a shame. Where logic?

Missing my love Tapan and if you see this Tapan I miss you. I miss reading your sweet emails to me. I would love to see an email from you again. I hope you see this Tapan because I sure do miss you a lot. I love you Tapan. Tapan why did I get blocked from emails? I'm missing you so much and I had to do this way for you to know how much I do miss you.

Have you ever spared some time just to talk to someone, rushed home just to get to hear his/her voice before he/she goes to bed (let's say you are of different time zones), adjusted your schedule or turned down friends' invites because you'd rather be corresponding with that person then suddenly, you are left hanging in there - he/she just stopped communicating without even telling you why and you don't even remember saying or doing anything offensive at all? Then you just realize he/she started deleting his profile and everything as if someone is after him/her when you were just in the beginning phase and not smothering in any way and just retreated yourself voluntarily? Seriously, guys, what do you think happened?

Love is a controversial feeling, both cure and ruin,
A reason to live or die.
Some people say there is no love without suffering,
Still what is worth life without love?

Here, I share Perhaps Love, with Placido Domingo and John Denver, a poem in the form of song that can define love better than me.