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and yes I know I have been snooty about others putting up multiple blogs. If you can't beat 'em, join 'em

This is in part inspired by Mimi's blog, which was inspired by Calm's comment, so there you are, we have a chain of blame.

It is also a genuine question but one, for once, I don't think CS can answer because on CS we are, I think, all about finding the perfect match, and nothing less will do. That's why we are single, you know. Perfect is very rarely on offer

Sometimes, we don't get offered what we want, but we do get offered what we need. Yet because we want perfect, we sneer at the idea of 'settling' for less

If you have ever said 'he (or she) is nice, I like them, but there's no leaping pulses, no WOW factor, so I'm not going to bother, I don't believe in settling' please kick yourself, cut the 'settling' word out of your vocabulary, and let this nice thing quietly grow legs, if it can.

If things don't work out (and here we are back to that chain of blame) well, they don't work out. So what? You got out there, you struck sparks and lit a fire, and it burned out. Not enough for an everlasting flame. There's no BLAME!

Anyone dares sneer at you, well, have they even got that far or are they stuck for eternity on that shelf, peering into the distance for the perfect and ignoring everyone else? Hmmm. Good luck with that.

It would be better to remove outdated profiles with no activities. Who knows they left to eternity after heart attack or stroke. Old folks like me has more likely higher chance of sending a message to already deceased persons. No one will know the dead has an account on free dating sites which are careless about it.

CS/POF/Match....different sites but same results. Should I give up finding the one now or carry on undeterred? Is there ANYONE real on these sites?

The answer is Yes, and No, it really depends on your definition of mail order brides.

The historical roots of the mail-order bride industry that emerged in the 1800s in the American frontier: European American men found financial success in the migration West, but the one thing that was missing was the company of a wife. Very few women lived there at this time, so it was hard for these men to settle down and start a family.




I feel that most/some of these women don't know what they are letting themselves in for.

6 years ago I met beautiful women at a party given by some friends. When I saw her, I thought she was just the perfect woman for me and I was sure about that. I wasn't looking for an older woman and Rose wasn't looking for a younger man, but it just happened. (I was 22 and she was 54 then.) Our relationship is unique, because it's not just built on sex, but on trust, respect and love. We are both morning people and nearly always in a good mood. We are both hard-working with many hobbies in common. In my opinion, age has nothing to do with our relationship. 6 of being together, we have never had a serious problem, since six months now her family interfering over relationship. Claiming I'm too young for they mother. this was the reason for our break up.

If you are using Snapchat, you know it updates constantly.

You may not know it recently added a new feature which activated automatically without your say-so.

Snap maps.

There are warnings roaring around Facebook at the moment - protect your kids, basically - but since Snap maps is nothing more nor less than a stalker's dream, showing not only where your friends are but what they're doing and saying, you should probably check your phone.

If you have Snapchat, you are basically broadcasting right now. Okay, only to your friends - but are all your friends the type you want to share your private moments with?

The Facebook video isn't on youtube so I can't share it here, but there are several vids on youtube showing you how to turn off the 'upgrade' you never wanted, asked for, or activated. Check FB, check youtube, check your phone.

This has been done before and it's been fun.
It hasn't been done for awhile, so maybe it's time to do it again.

So.
Here's the deal...
Judging by the number of views on the blogs, it seems that a number of folks look in, but haven't yet joined the conversations.
....

Perhaps y'all are shy.
Or unsure what to comment on a certain topic.

Well, newbies...this one's for YOU!

There IS no particular topic!
Just jump in, introduce yourselves & join in.
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Don't worry that you might make yourself sound foolish
Many of us do that on a remarkably consistent basis.
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Not ME, of course But some do

And y'all old hands at this...give the Newbies a great...
blogs...

C'mon -
This is your chance to jump into the deep end of the pool.
Or maybe just dip your toe in to test the waters.

As a special incentive bonus...the first five Newbies will receive a set of dandy virtual steak knives. ...

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Updating the marriage vows to keep things more in sync with the current times;

I joined CS just to have fun, meet different people, good friends...but what I found here....only Money matters to the people.....uffg