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Dating sites are for honesty and pen pal communications not profiling or spyware or porn etc.I find that many people are searching for their soul mate but they are only half way willing to commit to meeting a man.A good relationship comes from the heart and soul and takes time to establish.If you are not ready for that then why be on the site at all.I find there are many pretty women on the site but as a end result I only need one.so why does it take 1000's of honest communications to find a soulmate? I don't know! I reather have a spot where I could broadcast my whole life to the world than play little games or info tag forever.and why are people so afraid to meet?you all go out into public for shopping,work etc.anyway and don't often get mugged or abused doing that.so stop complaining about the bad times and truely find someone to build some good times with.a simple hello is a start.then after a good conversation weather 1 day or a year meet in a public place with an emergency phone.look at New York.lol afraid to say hi? YA GOT TO BE KIDDING.

I met a girl online from the Philippines as I was going through a divorce here in Denver. I thought someone overseas would be great to get away and build a future with. I thought, wow, we are both separated and we are in the same boat. She had 2 sons and separated for 6 years. Well I fell in love with her. A couple months later I found out there is no divorce in the Philippines. So I go meet her in person for a week. But I could not visit her home because of her ex family. Then 3 months later I found out she was lying to me. She has 4 sons and only separated 1 year. I found out through pictures in her family's facebook page. Then she admitted to me this. I accepted her apology. A month ago I started working 2 and 3 jobs to pay for her annulment. But i was getting bad vibes from her. I found out through a complete stranger to me who knows my ex girlfriend that she was on a dating site. I asked her and she said it was an old site and she was checking messages from a long time ago. I made a profile on the site to check on her. To my amazement she was on 2 times this past month. Yeah I gave this "poor" girl monthly support for her and her sons. Yes I bought this "poor" girl a phone. Yes I am stupid. I just need to vent. I learned. I had never looked overseas before in social media. I guess I got over my divorce haha. But my ex wife and I are still good friends, just not any love. Thanks yall

not exactly a love fest of it on these introduction sites. The whole format both speeds things up enormously compared to the alternatives, and allows some level of vetting, but only for the patient and for those with wits about them. But still, most replies are quite pushy for the evolution of an acquaintance, friendship, not to mention involvement. Just today a lady wrote back--- Gehen sie mit mir vor den Altar? Marriage! Sure, it could have been humor, but.... Aa.

Quick Scenerio.......Fifteen years ago I left my X, he had done something that I do believe now I have been running away from. Over the years I have asked myself why and can't seem to come up with an answer. I have now moved back to being closer to him so have had the opportunity to run into him a few times. I want so bad to have the questions answered that I should have asked 15 years ago.

Today: He is currently living with another lady (never remarried). He has always been "my person" but I would never do anything to destroy what he has now. When we meet he hugs me tightly and pulls me into him.

Question is: Do I bring up the past and ask him the questions I should have asked way back then? Open old wounds. Or do I just get over it in my head and move on? I am not about to become to the "other" woman, not my style, but if he was single I would consider going back to him.

Any thoughts?

Day one:
Window shopping.
Loads of e-mails from random guys.

Day two:
Hours answering all e-mails.
Felling exhausted.
What am I doing here?

Day three:
Found the blogs, but couldn't post.

Feeling like a stalker, secretly watching.
Learned about scammers.

Day four:
Wrote to a nice guy I liked. Feeling hopeful.
Checked my mailbox 398 times. No reply.
Blocked a few scammers.

Day five:
Still no reply. Clearly, he is not interested.
Struggling with my feelings to not write again.
Dignity lost the battle.

Day six:
Learned to live with rejection.
The flow of e-mails decreased to a bearable pace.
Empty mailbox.
What am I doing here?

Day seven:
Officially promoted to a CS citizen.
Time to post.

Good question about modern society and I wonder what other folks think?
Has feminism divided men and women?
Has feminism created Misandry?
Has feminism removed many rights of men and boys?
Has feminism controlled men's freedom of expression and natural masculine instincts?
Has feminism taught women to act just like men and no longer be feminine?
Has feminism brought women’s self entitlement to a whole new level and created major double standards?

Are women afraid of masculine men?
Are women afraid of being feminine?

Are feminists shaming women who want to be housewives?
Are feminists afraid of men with high testosterone levels?
Are mangina's the lowest form of wimps in society?

Do you have any ?

And can you link it to an event in your past ....

Maybe not this life but one of the other times you have been here

I remember as a small child no more than 4 being bitten on the hand by a small poodle

Hence my fear of the full moon when my thoughts turn to blood
And the throats of Virgins...

My hatred of Crosses and holy water

You could call me a "Dog fearing man "

You have inadvertently blocked me - please contact me again - peterelsco

The story of my life
It all begins two years back. I got a unknown friend request on the facebook. I was amaze to find a request from a girl which was not the girl from my country. I checked the profile for few minutes. The profile said the girl was Juju from france. I had a sponsor of france who helped me for my education. I accepted the request. In my mind, I was happy to talk with one of my sponsor.
After like a week, I messaged a thank you note for helping me and what’s going on in my life but I especially talked about my study. Then we begin to talk like usual conversation after a few message, I came to know that it wasn’t my sponsor but her daughter. We both started to talk often when we see each other online but it was hard for me because I didn’t had WIFI. I had to use from data which was expensive for me because I didn’t had any job. Even though, I used to manage and talked with her. We both became curious to know each other. The facebook was only the medium for us to talk and to know each other. I didn’t had such feelings before, I felt free, so relaxed to talked to her about my life and how I felt about many topics especially sex which was not a popular topics to talk with girls in my country. This feeling of attraction was really awesome and she felt the same but she had boyfriend which she had said me before. I sometimes felt awkward to talk with her because I used to think her break up might be due to me. The few times I questioned myself was I doing the right thing, I knew the feeling how painful was the break up because it took me like 6 months to recover from my first break up. It was really tough for me because she never said the exact reason why she wanted to break up with me. It was my first love so I felt really low and it was in the grade 10. My age was 17 now I think it was really low due to teenage period.

Only to meet someone as messed up as I am and marry her