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Dating site is basically a joke.
After cruising months after months, I finally realized that finding a companion in this dating site is ludicrous fantasy. It is a joke or useless and stupid concept. Not because of scammers or con artists.
Human being is not a manufactured product can be matched on the internet like Amazon dot com.
To figure out the complexity of psychology and personality through messages after message or chatting can be done in theory but not plausible and practical at all.
If I meet a person in a class room of graduate school, I would know already she had BS degree and a pretty motivated person in career and study wise without going all the verification process. And I will have plenty of time to observe her or him in the mean time while I’m doing my own task. But on the internet it is a completely impossible dream to achieve the same amount of objective as in the class room even you spend a fortune and time to do so.
And everyone is wrapped with layers of defensive shields whether it is male or female because of the fear of being scammed or hacked. The funny fact is that males are more prone to be scammed but females are thousands times more defensive. Looking all the paid or free dating sites, you will see only sites with young Asian girls with sensual photos targeting males all over the world. I never saw any site with half naked male photos up front targeting women.
I personally know a half dozen guys who got married to young Asian girls from far south eastern country with islands in spite of warnings and was dumped later on once the spouse got the green card. One of the guy even adopted three young children of spouse’s previous marriage and has to pay the child support after being dumped. It is a premeditated plan obviously and well known occurrence but still there are continuous supply of the victims. But the same incidence to female is unheard of. The marriage victim is usually male not female. Somehow woman are more precarious in response than man.
In a nutshell we are not designed to meet on the internet. We have to smell the scents and feel the touch in near proximity just like other animals. Otherwise this dating website will be traded in public and the price of stock will have no limit to go high like Amazon dot com. It is an illusive dream in the fantasy island. I’m done.
Human being is not a manufactured product can be matched on the internet like Amazon dot com.
To figure out the complexity of psychology and personality through messages after message or chatting can be done in theory but not plausible and practical at all.
If I meet a person in a class room of graduate school, I would know already she had BS degree and a pretty motivated person in career and study wise without going all the verification process. And I will have plenty of time to observe her or him in the mean time while I’m doing my own task. But on the internet it is a completely impossible dream to achieve the same amount of objective as in the class room even you spend a fortune and time to do so.
And everyone is wrapped with layers of defensive shields whether it is male or female because of the fear of being scammed or hacked. The funny fact is that males are more prone to be scammed but females are thousands times more defensive. Looking all the paid or free dating sites, you will see only sites with young Asian girls with sensual photos targeting males all over the world. I never saw any site with half naked male photos up front targeting women.
I personally know a half dozen guys who got married to young Asian girls from far south eastern country with islands in spite of warnings and was dumped later on once the spouse got the green card. One of the guy even adopted three young children of spouse’s previous marriage and has to pay the child support after being dumped. It is a premeditated plan obviously and well known occurrence but still there are continuous supply of the victims. But the same incidence to female is unheard of. The marriage victim is usually male not female. Somehow woman are more precarious in response than man.
In a nutshell we are not designed to meet on the internet. We have to smell the scents and feel the touch in near proximity just like other animals. Otherwise this dating website will be traded in public and the price of stock will have no limit to go high like Amazon dot com. It is an illusive dream in the fantasy island. I’m done.
Finding your Ex on the same dating site!
Well this is awkward! Finding my ex on the same dating site!
Has this ever happened to you! How would you react! Would you block her from seeing you or would you flaunt yourself in front of her by posting your name every place you could. Or perhaps this would not be awkward at all!
Has this ever happened to you! How would you react! Would you block her from seeing you or would you flaunt yourself in front of her by posting your name every place you could. Or perhaps this would not be awkward at all!
Timing
"Darling", she shouts from the kitchen. "We need to make love, now, hurry!"
"Why is that my sugar-plum?" he replies excitedly dancing down the stairs.
"I need to time the eggs!"
"Why is that my sugar-plum?" he replies excitedly dancing down the stairs.
"I need to time the eggs!"
Yachts and women
My yacht is definitely a female. She needs loads of money, time and attention to keep her happy. She won't go where I want her to go and her ladyship only follows the course that keeps her happy.
She sulks in the doldrums - yet, when the wind is right, and I am nice to her, she tucks her skirt into her knickers and she flies like a teenager.
She surfs the crests, chuckling through each foaming turquoise wave like a song.
Then we are both happy together.
I will never change her.
She sulks in the doldrums - yet, when the wind is right, and I am nice to her, she tucks her skirt into her knickers and she flies like a teenager.
She surfs the crests, chuckling through each foaming turquoise wave like a song.
Then we are both happy together.
I will never change her.
What is wrong with someone who is a work in progress
Back in may when I created my profile and joined this site, I was unemployed broke and had big dreams. I stated this in my profile and also that I was a single mother who was actively seeking employment. I received many interests and they did keep in contact for a short while.
I remember one software engineer told me outright that I sounded like a scammer and he wanted to know if i would go to the police station to get a police record to ease his mind. Hmmm. i was insulted but got over it. I gave this same person business leads to grow his company. A few others wanted me to soothe their s*xual desires which made me extremely upset. Lmao. I remember being asked to do internet sex or even share and view naked pics of myself and others. One communicated with me for a whole month then started requesting naked snaps. I kept wondering why these men had to stoop to such levels. None were ever interested in providing employment leads or at least provide pointers on how to land the perfect job.
Just a few weeks before I deactivated my profile, I met one who was scheduled to visit Antigua and inquired what I would like him to bring for me. At first, i was shocked and told him nothing. He asked i I was sure and i said a cell phone. At the same time, I was accepted into an MBA Program and awarded a scholarship that would cover 82% of my scholarship. I only had to pay the registration fee and a small deposit. if i didn't pay these by the specified deadline, I would end up losing the scholarship. I asked said gentleman to forget the phone and assist me with paying my tuition deposit as this was more important to me. I was immediately blocked from his whatsapp. I told myself i had nothing to lose in asking for assistance so i did the same for two others. The software engineer called me a scammer and blocked me as well. Another one made the promise to assist but never did, (we still communicate because i don't hold grudges). Another who would always want me to quench his s*xual excite became quiet on skype until i told him my mind and removed myself from his life. Mind you, I wasn't asking for them to send me any money. I provided the school details, my student login credentials and even the student advisors full details so they could verify that I wasn't lying.
My point is this, if i am honest with you about my life and circumstances from the beginning, do not pretend you are interested and then call me a scammer the moment i find myself in a situation that i need assistance. Some women ask for money to pay bill, buy expensive clothes and accessories etc. i am a person who only ask if I am extremely desperate and can't do any better. We tend to use the same yardstick to judge everyone which is wrong.
Why contact someone who is unemployed and broke if you're not serious?
Why all the selfishness; I should satisfy your freakishly s*xual desires for five or ten minutes and then go back to wondering how I am going to solve my problems?
I am grateful that I was able to pay my tuition deposit and land a job within the same week. Now, I can look back at the situation and laugh to myself knowing that it was their loss and not mine.
Never judge someone based on their present situation an their ability to ask for assistance. they are a work in progress and not a failure.
I remember one software engineer told me outright that I sounded like a scammer and he wanted to know if i would go to the police station to get a police record to ease his mind. Hmmm. i was insulted but got over it. I gave this same person business leads to grow his company. A few others wanted me to soothe their s*xual desires which made me extremely upset. Lmao. I remember being asked to do internet sex or even share and view naked pics of myself and others. One communicated with me for a whole month then started requesting naked snaps. I kept wondering why these men had to stoop to such levels. None were ever interested in providing employment leads or at least provide pointers on how to land the perfect job.
Just a few weeks before I deactivated my profile, I met one who was scheduled to visit Antigua and inquired what I would like him to bring for me. At first, i was shocked and told him nothing. He asked i I was sure and i said a cell phone. At the same time, I was accepted into an MBA Program and awarded a scholarship that would cover 82% of my scholarship. I only had to pay the registration fee and a small deposit. if i didn't pay these by the specified deadline, I would end up losing the scholarship. I asked said gentleman to forget the phone and assist me with paying my tuition deposit as this was more important to me. I was immediately blocked from his whatsapp. I told myself i had nothing to lose in asking for assistance so i did the same for two others. The software engineer called me a scammer and blocked me as well. Another one made the promise to assist but never did, (we still communicate because i don't hold grudges). Another who would always want me to quench his s*xual excite became quiet on skype until i told him my mind and removed myself from his life. Mind you, I wasn't asking for them to send me any money. I provided the school details, my student login credentials and even the student advisors full details so they could verify that I wasn't lying.
My point is this, if i am honest with you about my life and circumstances from the beginning, do not pretend you are interested and then call me a scammer the moment i find myself in a situation that i need assistance. Some women ask for money to pay bill, buy expensive clothes and accessories etc. i am a person who only ask if I am extremely desperate and can't do any better. We tend to use the same yardstick to judge everyone which is wrong.
Why contact someone who is unemployed and broke if you're not serious?
Why all the selfishness; I should satisfy your freakishly s*xual desires for five or ten minutes and then go back to wondering how I am going to solve my problems?
I am grateful that I was able to pay my tuition deposit and land a job within the same week. Now, I can look back at the situation and laugh to myself knowing that it was their loss and not mine.
Never judge someone based on their present situation an their ability to ask for assistance. they are a work in progress and not a failure.
Back on CS again after a failed relationship
This thought has been on my mind for months now and when I read what Calmheartseek on Kal's ' Weird ' blog wrote, I knew I have to put a blog up regarding this matter.
If I may, Calmheartseek, borrow your comment,
" Isn't it kinda sad how we read on here how some CS members find someone, even blog or post about it, then a little time goes by, and the relationship breaks up or they are back on CS once again."
What I was thinking, say, someone like me who talks nothing but my relationship with Art all the time on the blogs and forums, much to the horror of fellow Csers
You'd hear how, against your wish, how we met, visit each other, get to know each other more and finally one of us decides to join the other in her/his respective country.
We then decide to no longer be active on CS. Well-wishers and congratulations abound.
Now, I also wonder, would it be better if I just slowly sneak right back into the blogs/forums again without telling fellow CSers about my doomed relationship.
OR
Do you think it's better to put a whole blog up announcing my comeback after my failed relationship just to make sure no awkwardness or uncertainty ensued?
OR
Do you think it's nobody business anyhow!
P.S Art and I are not in Troubleland just in case some of you are wondering
If I may, Calmheartseek, borrow your comment,
" Isn't it kinda sad how we read on here how some CS members find someone, even blog or post about it, then a little time goes by, and the relationship breaks up or they are back on CS once again."
What I was thinking, say, someone like me who talks nothing but my relationship with Art all the time on the blogs and forums, much to the horror of fellow Csers
You'd hear how, against your wish, how we met, visit each other, get to know each other more and finally one of us decides to join the other in her/his respective country.
We then decide to no longer be active on CS. Well-wishers and congratulations abound.
Now, I also wonder, would it be better if I just slowly sneak right back into the blogs/forums again without telling fellow CSers about my doomed relationship.
OR
Do you think it's better to put a whole blog up announcing my comeback after my failed relationship just to make sure no awkwardness or uncertainty ensued?
OR
Do you think it's nobody business anyhow!
P.S Art and I are not in Troubleland just in case some of you are wondering
Flirting and the single man
Why, as a man, when one is in a relationship every other woman seems to want to flirt with you - yet when you become single you are single alone?
relationships
Are they really that difficult to form? I have been on this dating site for over 2 years...think I am pushing 3, but who is counting. Before a relationship (speaking of couples here...married or unmarried but exclusive to each other) can start, it is very typical for people to date first to see what level of compatibility they have. If the dating process goes smoothly with each person, a relationship may very well develop.
This is a dating site and I have heard of very few dates in my umpteen years I have been on here. As just mentioned, dates are just the usual beginning of potential relationships. Some on here may feel that since there is long distances between people here, that blogging is a good way of getting to know somebody. However, there is only so much two people can find out about each other with blogging and messaging. I have found it very rare that people are willing to share their bad traits in public format or even private messages, bad traits that could easily make or break any sort of relationship from potentially moving forward. So, blogging and private messages, in my opinion, cannot replace actual physical dating.
The long distance between people is a reasonable reason why some dates actually do not happen. From what I have seen, not all people have this huge distance between them and meeting up for dates is very possible...with a little effort. With that said, there are not many dates that I am aware of that have took place here in my years.
What are our intentions on this dating site....or any dating site for that matter? Are we very cautious to jump into a relationship and just patiently sitting back and waiting for that indisputable magic person to show up...that person who can break down our walls we have surrounded ourselves with?
I wonder...even for myself...the feelings I have that I am not even looking forward to even going on a date at this moment. But, I will...if some sort of magic person befalls upon me. ....the idea of a relationship.
Does anyone else share with this?
This is a dating site and I have heard of very few dates in my umpteen years I have been on here. As just mentioned, dates are just the usual beginning of potential relationships. Some on here may feel that since there is long distances between people here, that blogging is a good way of getting to know somebody. However, there is only so much two people can find out about each other with blogging and messaging. I have found it very rare that people are willing to share their bad traits in public format or even private messages, bad traits that could easily make or break any sort of relationship from potentially moving forward. So, blogging and private messages, in my opinion, cannot replace actual physical dating.
The long distance between people is a reasonable reason why some dates actually do not happen. From what I have seen, not all people have this huge distance between them and meeting up for dates is very possible...with a little effort. With that said, there are not many dates that I am aware of that have took place here in my years.
What are our intentions on this dating site....or any dating site for that matter? Are we very cautious to jump into a relationship and just patiently sitting back and waiting for that indisputable magic person to show up...that person who can break down our walls we have surrounded ourselves with?
I wonder...even for myself...the feelings I have that I am not even looking forward to even going on a date at this moment. But, I will...if some sort of magic person befalls upon me. ....the idea of a relationship.
Does anyone else share with this?
Mimi
C ongratulation dear .. seems i have been missing out on a lot of juicy bits ..
i wish for you and your love lots of blessings for the future .
havent been on here for a while because i have so much going on with my daughter preparing for college and the other preparing for exam vise versa but never forget ca family...
love you and wish you all the best
i wish for you and your love lots of blessings for the future .
havent been on here for a while because i have so much going on with my daughter preparing for college and the other preparing for exam vise versa but never forget ca family...
love you and wish you all the best
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