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Gosh how emotional investment be it online or up close and personal is measured in so many ways.
To consider the pain of emotional investment in someone only to have it be dashed and crumbled by our object of affection.
To consider one's emotional investment in another can mean nothing that ultimately leaves us questioning our own personal worth motives and value.
To have our object of affection trample us discard us as waste.
We wonder why we place so much energy and effort in hoping they will change or see our way and noble intentions.
In the end we learn the energy and effort we put into convincing our object of affection leads to self discovery. We end up changing ourselves not the other person we like.
Hence, for an idea that most must consider that a woman hooks up with a man hoping he will change and a man hooks up with a woman hoping she wont.
Overall do consider the emotional investment you may have long distance or up close and ask yourself if it is real and worth the effort. If not, let it go for all that love and energy would be best served to yourself or with someone who will appreciate you.

Feel happy, when I see him.
Feel happier, when he talks to me.
The happiest ever, when I know he is happy and healthy.
The distance suddenly disappear
and ...
Feel we are together

Why is it, that when you state you are not looking for someone else in your life, that people (in my case, men) either don't read it, don't think you're serious, or think you've become hopeless?

Does it ever occur to anyone that some of us really LIKE being on our own? That our preference is to continue to live on our own, doing what we like to do, when we like to do it, and don't have to consider anyone else?

I made a joke in my profile about Prince Charming and seeking a frog. But I ensured I put in my profile that I was not looking, that I was here to blog. I wrote how one guy had made assumptions without knowing a darn thing about me.

Then another one emailed me and said it was funny (which it was supposed to be) but it appeared I was hopeless at finding anyone. Huh? I don't want to find anyone! Nothing to do with hopeless, just not friggen interested. When I emailed back to say I wan't hopeless, just not looking, he came back with something else about being hopeless. Whatever. Go away.

What is it? That I simply like to blog and because the other site was unmoderated and had become a drama mess, I was simply looking for somewhere else to blog. I'm not interested in any long distance relationship, or online courting, or anything else. I exchanged emails with one guy, and when he read in a blog that I'd gone to North Bend on my own, he called me stupid. Yeah, that's a real come on. Eff off. If I waited for someone else to go with me to places, I'd never go anywhere.

I'm not some shrinking violet that needs someone of the male persuasion to protect me, and in fact, have found in my life, the times I've been in danger and needed protection are from men, not from animals. So give me nature any day.

No, I don't hate men. In fact, I thoroughly enjoy their different viewpoint and discussions on numerous subjects. I actually love men, I just don't want one in my life. I've lived on my own for almost 30 years, and I would have loved to have been in the traditional role of staying home and keeping the home fires burning while hubby went off to work. It didn't work out that way, and now that I've attained all my assets on my own, am I going to let someone move in with me to take half of them? Not bloody likely. I don't want half of theirs, either.

Sure, there are times having a male around would be great, but very few want what I want. I just want a companion that we could do stuff with on occasion, but any man I've ever met wants to be 'completed'. What's with that? I'm not incomplete, so if someone feels they are, then they need a lot more than I can give.

Hopeless? No, not in the least. Many of my pursuits are solitary, and I not only am comfortable with my own company, I really like it. And that's where people get a false idea that if you're alone, you're lonely. Not in the least. The loneliest I've ever been was when I was married.

At this stage of my life, I know what I do and don't want. I don't want someone else in my life. That's not hopeless. That's happiness!

How many people here who get views from others and find their profiles are deleted or hidden before you get a chance to learn who was checking you out? I get that alot. If it were not for fake profiles or hidden or deleted ones I wouldn't get any attention at all. It is clear of what kind of impact I am making here. For if I only seem to attract flakes and fakes and deleted people along with complaints from real people perhaps this site is not working for me. Or its what I am putting out there that is sabotaging my efforts.
Clearly the answer usually comes with the question.
Insanity is hoping for some sense of understanding of this site and the people who play here.
Overall I will live to regret posting this.

A true friend will let you stubbornly walk your way and wait patiently until you come to your senses.

A true friend will love you unconditionally in spite how many times you pissed them off.

A true friend will scrape you up from the depths of Hell and carry you to safety at the risk of their own.

A true friend will tell you that you are acting like a useless wanker/wankette and help you see that you are heading for a fall.

A true friend will sometimes be hard on you because they know you can do better.

A true friend will cry for you and never tell you the tears are for you but will give an excuse that something got in their eye.

A true friend will lay down their life for you so you can continue to live in hope you will see the love you denied yourself

A true friend, how many here will ever find such a person or have such a person they know who will always be there for you?

We have many fair weather friends and acquaintances online and offline but, for all we seek of loyalty and faithfulness and love we can still feel lost and alone in spite of who we call friend.

We may all have our faith in some form of a higher power or a god that we may call friend as we understand that higher power.
Along the path if anyone of us happen to find a friend described in this blog you have accomplished much.

When you have them and know them don't push them away out of stupidity or you will live to regret it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tg-Q-Acv4qs

Why Men Love Bitches?
Doormat to Dream girl..

I was sitting at my local cafe the other day , when I hear my name called out, but like a question.

It was her after all these years , yes not much had changed about her , still that Medusa look that one can't avoid.

She immediately sat down at my little table , and as soon as I ordered her cappuccino, she did not waste any time at all by telling me that she is married and living unhappily with a man who works as a lawyer and never seems to have time to take her out , because he says that he is buried in paperwork and clients.

She said just out of the blues , “I’m so confused”, she told me ....
I could not turn down a dinner offer with this guy who works at the same mail courier company where she’s just started her new job,but he is also her husbands mate. Jeremy’s got a a reputation as a bad boy, that most women can’t resist .

Thankfully he is the delivery guy, so she does not have to see him all day long, as now she says that she feels so ashamed about the entire one night stand .

Anyway why tell me this ??

I had a friend who was married to this lady who was a few years younger then he was.
He told me that his wife might look like a angle but once you get to really know her you find out that she is very cunning and devious.

So I asked Rick, as that is my friends name , please tell me more as I am in the dark and having meet your wife briefly I could not see anything that could make her so devious as you put it.

So he went on to tell me that she told him that she had something to confess to him something that happened about a month ago.

She admitted to usually falling for guys with a 6 pack physique with a towering presence to match; that is until she met him ( her husband ) , but now she was getting these inner calls .

I won't divulge into our conversations around this point Lol. I’ll leave that to your imagination.

At this point I try to change the subject but in vain as he then goes on to ask me if I am seeing anyone , and would I be interested in helping him out to see if his wife is cheating on him.

any women around my area want to meet up for a good time