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It is like no one would like to be friends and get to know someone then see where it goes
Ted

Should you believe everything that's written in the profiles ...or take it with a pinch of salt?

Reading horoscope predictions daily is out of habit and I never take it seriously ,few days back in my horoscope I read that I should be careful that week as I would meet with a minor accident, ignoring it like always I went about with my work but some days later as I was climbing stairs, missed one and slipped spraining my ankle nothing serious though.
So was wondering do the stars really control our lives or was it just a coincidence. .?

I went dancing with my sister and her husband last night. I don’t really like dancing but we do this once every six weeks or so and as it was my turn to drive home, I ‘had’ to go. We arrived late with just on three hours of dancing left which pleased me.

I suppose you’re going to ask if I met somebody. Well, yes and no. That is yes, I met somebody new and no, she is not my dream girl. But we spent a very pleasant evening together. So much so that I took her phone number; she definitely merits another date or two before she goes back home.

Whaat!! Another one going home?

Yes, she lives in one of the Northern provinces and is visiting her brother and his wife for four weeks. I was lucky enough to catch her on the third day of her visit.

Not quite a looker and one or two kilos more than what I would have preferred (almost cuddly) and a she dances worse than I do; read that as bad but she dresses to her body and definitely not somebody to be ashamed of. She turned out to be very good company and considerate too. When she discovered that I was on minerals only, she switched to it as well.

After the first dance I kept her for another and she never left my side again. At some stage, while dancing, I tugged her by her smallish love-handles for a few seconds to pull her closer to me and she smiled at me, so at the very least there are some promises of more to come.

It was a glorious wind still summer night and we spent some time sitting on the veranda. If I did not have to drive my sister home we would have pushed off to a quieter place.

Before the dance I did not want to go there and afterwards I did not want to go home. Good evenings always end too quickly.


The weekend is about over but enjoy it in any way.

Courting, to use Cat’s phraseology, is usually a game of cat and mouse; the predator and the prey.
Not in a bad sense, but one usually does the chasing, and even in today’s modern world, that is usually the man.

So, how do you play the game? Cat has already told us his style, and it works for him.

Some people like the full-on romantic approach – flowers and flowery talk and whisperings of love from the outset;
others prefer a slower, softee softee approach.


Some like an ‘exclusive’ online relationship without ever having met, others don’t believe that online chatting is a relationship.

Some hate a particular approach, while others revel in it.

Whether we are the chaser or the ‘chasee’ (or both, at different times), we all know what we like and what works for us.

Or do we?

Maybe we can learn from how other people approach it

Actually I don't know if they celebrate it here, there aren't many gingers in the south of Spain, I may be the only one in my small town. But if they do celebrate it, I really missed an opportunity

Mind you there's a nasty bug going round. And in a world-wide poll on kissing the Spanish didn't come out near the top.

But still.



What do you get when you kiss a guy?
you get enough germs to catch pneumonia
after you do he'll never phone ya ...

Anyone old enough to recognize those lyrics -

Hi my CS Friends

I wish you all a nice weekend

No pot to piss in or window to throw it out of and every female here looking for a bailout emotional or financial.
Very sad indeed for most fools looking for a woman to please.
So many unrealistic expectations but, many who have alittle something on their plate they are
not expected to settle for less. No point in dragging down others if one is already down.
The goal in life is to pull ourselves up and be the best we can be. What we percieve ourselves
to be we naturally attract and or want to be at the same level of life with another.
Survival of the fittest and if a man or woman is not fit to take care of themselves they wont be fit to care of anyone else. Instead there will be always a level of codependency that will only destroy the potential good in a relationship. We can write all kinds of blogs poetry and thoughts or ideas of what we think of an ideal relationship should be but, if we lose our own personal identity and self in chasing after people who dont want us or has no emotional connection on or off this site its a losing battle.

Nobody wants the drama of others for they have enough of their own. When observing so many who are divorced as if its becoming a norm and if you have not been through the wringer at least once you dont have anything in common. What a ridiculous idea in order to attract another you have to be divorced to show a commonality to others.

Perhaps we are just divorced in understanding the value of love of other people.
A generation divorced of compassion perhaps. Instead we are selfish and often arrogant
angry and too engulfed with our past failures we closed off any hope for future relationships.

For those like myself who never experienced a long term relationship and the work it takes to keep it going for the sake of children or the hope it will improve its not fair to make a judgement call like this. Making an observation on the otherhand is what this blog is about.

Until people have a healthy relationship with themselves on a personal level they cannot have one with others. We all want to love and be loved and nurtured in a capacity we feel comfortable with.
If it takes a million dollars to impress people today or just a humble steady income that may last only for a awhile. For nothing is guaranteed not in the material or emotional world.

People are changed by conditions of life and if they cant adapt they fall on the wayside and it leaves room for others who can. So in our everlasting search for love and understanding in the online world many may never find it because perhaps they are looking in the wrong place.
Many will declare they are only here for the BS posted here for a laugh or two.
Others its hard to tell why they are here for their profiles/resume seems to offer the cookie cutter
ideas that everyone uses. The question is not so much what they say of themselves but by how much effort they put into getting what they want. Life and love can be grand but it can also be like a toilet you get out of it what you put into it.

I realise that I will be shot down for this but from the blogs I have seen a lot of people blame the site for not finding the partner of their dreams. We can spend years in a social environment whether that be at work in bars or doing activities without meeting some one with that wow factor so

are we all thinking this is the place to be, looking for something we may never find, or lastly looking for an online experience either s*xual or plutonic

fire away

Hey! Yes you… the fella who moved from 69 to 88; I thought I found a perfect partner for you… and then I realized you’re not Italian. But you have that Italian look and we can still save the day if you are willing to relocate to Italy even if it is just for a while.

This gal is hell bent on a tall, dark and handsome Italian guy and she has been searching for years now; just as desperate as you. You’re already tall and dark and with a new pic we can get you to some degree of handsome as well.

The Italian part is a bit problematic but there are many booklets teaching Italian phrases and you do really have an Italian look. She is South-African, cannot speak Italian and won’t even catch on that you only know a few phrases. And to sweeten the deal you can tell her that your father is a Count of some sorts. She very status aware. This will go easier than what I thought.

Hooking up with her is going to be just as easy. All you need to do is walk by and pinch her on the bum in true Italian style. She’ll love it and you will live happily after.

When I think of it, you are a perfect match. You’re both weird and both have the tendency to ask the same question over and over.

Ah, I better prep you for the most important question that she may ask. Tell her that you will inherit the title of Count but your father is planning to wear the 'o' round his neck into his grave..

And then I have the perfect escape route for you if your union turns sour. Just tell her that Catfoot is your best friend and that he’s coming to visit for six weeks. I can guarantee that she’ll leave before the next day.

If you’re interested, let me know so I can point you in the right direction.


I’m doing it here because the two of you have another common trait. Neither of you seem to read the comments on your own blogs.

The contents of this blog is purely fictional and a figment of my imagination. Any resemblance to anybody, dead or alive, is absolutely incidental.