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I can’t help it. I watched this documentary on that Sheikhs like to engage in sex with sex workers. So when one messaged me just now I think that’s what he’s after. I’m very flattered and yes I do look Arab. But I’m by no means a prostitute so too bad so sad. It’s a very high honor to be wanted by a sheikh so I’m very honored and to their lifestyle I’m highly honored but it’s not my lifestyle so I must retreat. I greatly thank them though for regarding me. It’s a high honor for sure. But his profile said he’s the crowned prince of Dubai so I don’t know how believable it is really. Why would he be on CS?! Yeah, right. If he reads this and says no, I’m really the crowned prince of Dubai then and only then I might engage him a little. You can view him here:

Why do we choose the names we do on dating sites ? How much does it tell us about someone ? Why do some men call themselves after a car ? That's something I find weird .

Lately I find myself liking older men. Younger men(tater tots) are such a joke. Just last night I went out with one. I went to go watch him play sax. I drove all the way across town and he didn’t even offer me a drink. Instead he hits on another lady across the way and offers her a drink. Hello! I’m right here! It gets better. Then I tip him and his piano player. Afterwards we went to Denny’s and I was talking about my sister. He goes oh show me a picture! So I do. He goes oh man she’s hot. I’m thinking what am I to you? Minced meat?! I was super angry when I got home. Told him I didn’t want to see him again. The thing I give older men credit for is that they have passed the mid-life crisis stage and have accepted life as is. This guy was a total joke! Treated me with great disrespect for no reason. And plus I paid for my portion at Denny’s. He didn’t offer there either! Okay, he did but complained about the bill being big because of what I ordered. He’s a douchebag and a half. They need to make a television show called Two and a Half douchebags. He’ll be the douchebag and a half.

I don’t know what friendship means to you. I also don’t care. If somebody is to be a friend with me, it’s my definition of friendship that matters.

Never had a male friend. All my friends to the date were women.

I had male relatives, school-comrades, dates, lovers, husbands, colleagues, neighbours, acquaintances. Never friends.

When a man on a dating site expresses a wish to be friend with me in the initial message, I regard him as a left-behind in more than one sense of the word.

I’ve read somewhere (could be the Guardian), that forming a friendship takes from 100 to 400 hours of quality time spent together. Let’s do some mathematics and let’s take the minimum as a start.

Hence, we start with 100 hours of quality time. A show at the Opera takes ca 2 hours and we can meet a couple of hours before for dinner: makes 4 hours at a time. 100 / 4 = 25. A year has 52 weeks. I have my friend, whom I meet at least once a month, and I paddle every week-end, if weather allows. Additional hinder: opera and restaurants are quite costly in Sweden. The conclusion I landed at is that it could happen 5 times a year, if I really make a lot of efforts and sacrifices (any reason I’d want to?). Nonetheless, under the most favourable circumstances, It’d take 5 years to fulfill this minimum of 100 quality hours spent together. Chances are, that we might realise after all that time (and money) wasted, that we are not friends. (Quite a discovery, isn’t it?)

There is also a slim chance, that we’d discover that we are friends. Well, good! But a friend isn’t a date. So, my friend, you will not mind when I prefer going to a date instead of meeting you. None of my friends ever minded, so why would you?

A friend means loyalty and obligation of support, that you free-willingly accept because you like the person. Would you, please, explain me why a random male passer-by expects me to grant him loyalty and support on the first notice?



PS this subject was trigged by a Q-Anonist suggesting that he is my friend. Duh!

Being a bachelor comes with some important advantages. It's important to remember that if you are about to do something rash. Here are three...
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1. You become proficient in the use of a stapler to fix your favorite old clothes and learn how to do it so it doesn't jab you all day.

2. You learn how to cook things you can hold down even if others can't.

3. You don't have to worry about the gears being stripped on your mint '69 Corvette.

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There Is People You Meet at There, In Dating Sites, or Anywhere Looking for Targets Like You!
Many of us, Trying to Be The Best We Could, But Sometimes We Come Across,Some One , Who Will Not Stop on Nothing to Get What (She or His) Want!
They Make up Dramas of They Past, They Want Your Pity First!
They Paint a Beautiful Picture Of Them Selves!
Then You Slowly Slowly Getting Hook, Because You Find That Person <So Nice , But So Unlucky!
Then You Start Helping Them, With Anything You Could, Money, Rent Money, Groceries, Food etc
Then You Find Your Self, Too Blind to See " The Red Flags"
Red " Flags" Like TheyHave Children, But They Ex Has " Custody"
Then You Bring Them To Your Place !
Later You Find Out , That Your Expensive Possessions Are Missing!
"So Please Be Aware "
Thank you !

From Falicia

What Is Your Opinion!

There are tons of single people on this earth. Some highly desirable, some not so much. My dad always said every pot has it lid.
Yet, I see on dating sites, people desperately seek a connection with anyone and everyone. People lay out profiles. Yet it doesn't matter because the desperate contact them anyway. It is like refusing to bury your dead pet, hoping it will spring back to life. Then those people get bent because the object of their desire doesnt respond.
The extremes go to stalkers and murderers or kidnappers. Or groupies who follow stars and personages across the country. If they JUST see me, I will be swept away in their limo.
Nature puts the drive into creatures to chase the best chance for viable offspring. Animals fight for the female, females cajole and practice subterfuge to get the males.
Humans have brains tho to realize realities. The health nut is NOT ever going to want to marry the obese couch potato. The intellect will not settle to spend life with someone who thinks reading is a joke. The rich marry rich, the lawyer marries the lawyer.
So to those frustrated people on dating sites, read profiles. Acknowledge conflicts. And save yourself grief pining for what will never be. Wishing wont make it so.
As the saying goes, water seeks its own level. Be realistic in your quests. Love is the goal, not perfection.

For the fee of a comment to do so, if you request so, I will match you with someone on CS, who I feel is most appropriate for you. This could open up a new possibility for you.

(Dislaimer - that does not mean the person you are matched with will agree with that match, or even that you will, but you'll never know if you don't try.)

If blood will flow when flesh and steel are one
Drying in the colour of the evening sun
Tomorrow's rain will wash the stains away
But something in our minds will always stay
Perhaps this final act was meant
To clinch a lifetime's argument
That nothing comes from violence and nothing ever could
For all those born beneath an angry star
Lest we forget how fragile we are

On and on the rain will fall
Like tears from a star like tears from a star
On and on the rain will say
How fragile we are how fragile we are

On and on the rain will fall
Like tears from a star like tears from a star
On and on the rain will say
How fragile we are how fragile we are
How fragile we are how fragile we are.

What is the purpose of awareness? What is the purpose of awareness? What is the purpose of awareness? All discussion within this collective awareness cannot reach a convergence. Here is the answer: improvement in an evolution_like path. That's all! Well said, but not much followt. Wish to have a partner with this sort of persuit.