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Chat then Disappear??
What’s happening to people out there?
Can we just enjoy and see what will come out after? No dramas please ??

Emm, unrequited love, the bittersweet symphony of the heart. Let's dive into this tender topic and find some clarity amidst the emotional rollercoaster, shall we?

1). Assess your heart's budget. Loving someone who doesn't reciprocate can feel like investing all your emotions in a one-way street. Take a moment to evaluate how much love you have to give and whether it's worth spending it on someone who can't offer the same in return. Remember, emotional investments should bring joy and fulfillment, not leave you bankrupt.

2). Remember, you're a precious limited edition. Consider your own self-worth and value. Loving yourself should always be a priority. If someone doesn't appreciate the amazing person you are, it might be time to redirect that love towards someone who will treasure it as fiercely as you do.

3) Don't be a dog chasing its own tail. Pursuing someone who doesn't love you back can feel like running in circles without ever reaching the finish line. It's important to assess if this pursuit is preventing you from finding the happiness you deserve. Sometimes, letting go is the best way to create space for someone who will love you wholeheartedly.

4). Keep your heart open to new adventures. While it may seem daunting, being open to new connections and opportunities can lead you to unexpected paths of love and happiness. You never know what amazing person might be just around the corner, ready to appreciate and reciprocate the love you have to offer.

5). Prioritize your own happiness. Ultimately, you deserve to be with someone who loves and cherishes you in return. Focus on activities and relationships that bring you joy and fulfillment. Surround yourself with friends and loved ones who uplift and support you. Happiness starts from within, and when you radiate that happiness, you attract the right kind of love into your life.

Love should be a two-way street, with both parties investing their hearts and souls. While unrequited love can be painful, it's important to weigh the emotional cost and prioritize your own happiness. Keep your heart open, value yourself, and trust that the right person will come along to reciprocate your love and make it all worthwhile.

Cheers

Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? It's like deciding between going on a thrilling adventure or staying in your cozy comfort zone.

When you've experienced love and then faced its loss, it can feel like getting caught in a sudden rainstorm without an umbrella. The emotions can be overwhelming, like a torrential downpour soaking you to the bone. It can leave you feeling heartbroken and questioning whether it was worth the risk.

But here's another perspective: love is like embarking on a breathtaking journey. It's like setting off on a hike up a challenging mountain, where the climb is arduous, but the views from the top are awe-inspiring. When you've loved, you've likely experienced moments of immense joy, connection, and personal growth that are like glimpses of paradise along the way.

Even when it ends in heartbreak, the lessons learned and the memories made become part of your life story. It's like collecting unique souvenirs from different destinations that shape who you are. Each relationship leaves an imprint on your heart, teaching you valuable lessons about yourself, relationships, and what you truly desire.

On the other hand, there's the alternative—never having loved at all. It's like staying indoors, cozy and dry, while others venture out into the unpredictable beauty of the world. You might avoid the pain of heartbreak, but you also miss out on the exhilarating experiences, deep connections, and personal growth that love can bring.

So, is it better to have loved and lost? Well, that's for you to decide. Some may argue that the joy and growth they experienced outweigh the pain of loss. Others may prefer the comfort of a safe and predictable life.

Ultimately, it's a personal choice, and there's no one-size-fits-all answer. Love is a risk, but it's also a source of profound fulfillment and richness in life. Just remember, whether you've loved and lost or chosen a different path, what truly matters is finding happiness and living a life that feels authentic to you.

Cheers

So, after years of searching, I finally found someone!

We met in 2019 in the US through a different site. We exchanged messages there for a short while then we exchanged phone numbers. A few days later, we met up in person and we hit it off. Unfortunately, days after we met he was hospitalized and we were unable to meet up again and I had to go back to The Philippines and Indonesia.

We stayed in touch though and we loved playing online Scrabble. I just recently returned to the US for a family event and we met up again. We went on several dates and he kept saying that his feelings for me have been developing. The same was true for me. What was so funny was that he finally proposed three days before I was going back to The Philippines. Although I wanted to say yes, I wanted to have a real relationship first and thankfully he agreed. I wanted to get to know him more.

Hopefully, this long distance relationship will work. Although we have done this before , we were only friends and not in a romantic relationship.

I am still going to be on this site not to look for that special someone but just for the blogs.

Wish us luck!!!

I would like to see if old friends from here are still online regularly, in any case, greetings to everyone out there

Considering the number of members that choose not to post a photo on their profile page, I am wondering whether the inclusion of photos plays a role in the number of contacts (flowers/mail) received from potential suitors.

Likewise, does the type/quantity of photos enhance or deter a persons appeal?

I ask this question because today as I was browsing profiles, I came across a profile that included a photo of a woman lying face down on a sunbed.

Now, nothing unusual in that you may think, however, in the photo that showed the womens upper legs and bum, she was completely naked with legs slightly apart, thus leaving nothing to the imagination.

Of course, to a guy like me that made her extremely attractive!

In choosing people to contact, how important are photos to you?

i cant believe that there are no single women in iowa..i dont think im bad looking..what do you think???

Im looking for a woman who will share my life with me. I’ve been single for far too long and i cant afford match or eharmony
This site is the only one I can use
Why is my profile being ignored ?
Is it because I am retired??
It was not my fault.
Im not a bad guy and I know I can make a woman happy
I just can’t spend money like these so called men can who work.
I do need happiness too
LADIES give me a chance you might be surprised

We all have so many pieces to the puzzle that is Us.
Being here is like taking myself to the fairground.
Climbing on to an emotional rollercoaster ride, shaking with fear, excited and scared knowing that this ride will not stop until it's finished.

Climbing into those swings that swing you around, excilerating, thrilling freedom from the real world knowing the ride will end someday and hopefully the feeling will be remembered with joy.

Going there and finding someone who will ride with you and hold your hand on the rollercoaster, be there when the swing stops to hold his arms out for you to fall into knowing that you are safe ..

That's what we all want, that is what I want for the next chapter in my life, to have that and be that for Him.

I will not settle for less than all the good, bad and ugly truth that is Him and the person inside He shows me that is hidden from view is more precious than any ring.

Someone who trusts me and doesn't get jealous.
Someone who talks to me.
Someone who is willing to do things with me because I like to do them, even if what we're doing isn't their favorite thing (this goes both ways).
Someone who smiles a lot.
Someone who is compassionate.
Someone who doesn't tickle me.
Someone who will surprise me with gifts (like a small love note tucked into my jacket pocket).
Someone who is generous.
Someone who believes they can help change the world or make a difference in people's lives.
Someone who believes that anything is possible, even if much of it is improbable.
Someone who likes to take walks.
Someone who won't laugh at me, but will laugh with me.