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But, this has to do with a narcissist in a relationship. I found some of the examples I seen in a video recently...interesting.

What does a narcissist do while they are in a relationship?

They never apologize...or if they do, it is not a sincere one.
They will seemingly always try to belittle you. Sometimes they will say they were just joking around.
They will weaponize sex.
They will cheat on you...because they feel entitled to cheat, and when confronted, they will turn it around on you and say something like...you are seeing it wrong, or you are making more out of it then what it is.

The narcissist needs to feel superior to you and will do what it takes to maintain that status. They enjoy seeing you miserable because it gives them a sense of power over you. They will start out in a relationship as the dream mate...but months later, that is when their power trip kicks in.

I wonder how many people on here are narcissist? You know the ones...the ones that always know everything, they are never wrong, they never apologize, they always have to be one up on somebody...etc, etc..

They say when you are in a relationship with one....pay attention to your emotions. Your emotions on how your partner makes you feel are the indicator.

We all have narcissistic traits...but the question is...how dominant are they in our personality and behaviors.




Happy Friday all.

I have been on CS for close to 10 years and have always wondered, how many persons will find their life partner on this site.Men and women have profiles put up on this site. Of course, there can be fake too, but fake profiles will not travel much distance as far as response is concerned.
Out of men and women, it is the women's profile that is failing to find a life partner. Men are very interested in women, but the women just does not believe the men.
Its a fact, for a woman to find a man is very easy, because a woman is very choosy in selecting her man. She wants in a man all the qualities of a King. This is not possible, because no one is perfect in the world and has some limits to his/her personality. Besides this, a woman sets a tough task for a man, like telling him whether he can come to a foreign country where she lives.
But foreign girls are better than Indian girls in their mental make up and they enjoy life to the full. They are also well organized in their thoughts, manners and etiquette.Of course, divorces are dime a dozen in the foreign countries, but both the demands of the partners are too much to handle.

I have seen profiles of many Indian women on this site for many years and they have not yet found their life partners. Why is it so? Because Indian women by tradition are weak and not strong for discussion with their husbands.Besides, if children are there, there is more problem.
I would suggest an Indian woman would tighten her seat belt and quickly decide,what type of a man she wants in life. They can narrow their limits of wants and then decide.
Manohar Bhatia.

My interest in Astrology has always been superficial - birthstones and birth signs for choosing colours and jewellery - but not much regarding things like dating, love matches or marriage. Whilst thinking about this dating game thingy, I decided to do a bit of research (Google, of course), and discovered a very wide/deep deposit of info on the topic.



Whilst I'm sure that what I found is only the 'tip of the iceberg', I was a bit overwhelmed by the content and variety that's available. There is a large number of Compatibility Charts, and tests too. I tried a few of them (tests) but didn't think the results were specific enough. Which leads me to wonder about those who are deeply/very heavily involved in Astrology as it pertains to their approach to Life generally, and to Dating (and love, and marriage) specifically.

Is Astrology the thing that guides you in your Dating life? If so, how would you rate its success? Perhaps I should give it a try?

I’ve been on connecting singles dating site for quite awhile and ive gotten absolutely nothing
Ive redid my profile numerous times
But not sure if it’s my profile or there’s just no one on
Yes im on disability

Yes I smoke
But these 2 factors should not matter
What matters is a strong connection and undivided attention
Someone please let me know what if anything I am doing wrong
Any answer will be appreciated

I have to laugh about the claims of some dating sites having real members or verified profiles.
Sniffing out a new member here, I found the same photo on a handful of bogus LinkedIn sites, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube, Instagram, an Italian dating site and a few not worth mentioning.




DTN... Don't Trust No-one

I once met someone very special, the person is suspicious if I don't say what I do all day but he is warm, loving, caring, protective but I like it because I feel protected, but everything is only for a moment because he wants me to find someone better than him for some reason, and it turns out that after so many years I heard the news that he had died, how broken my heart was at that time because actually I have not found someone who has a character like him and I still miss him but it turns out that fate says differently, me and him have to separated in this world, then later I met someone who was very similar to him but I was said to be crazy because I loved my ex too much so seeing him like my ex Lol, I was thinking really hard is it true I'm crazy even though I'm normal

Why is it so hard for certain men to be in a relationship with women who make significantly more money than them??????

Does size matter? In some cases not. There are women out there looking for that loving emotional connection, but as time goes on, I feel as if that loving emotional connection is less and less being sought after by women, and their physical wants and needs are becoming more important to them.

.....and rightfully so....



Now to the delicate question of this blog. Should a "man" feel inadequate? I think at one time, a man was taught he had to be a "man" to please his partner. Don't get me wrong, I think that still holds value today. However, maybe in a difference sense than what it was a few years back. I think women like variety. I think women crave variety. How many times have you heard that women get bored in the bedroom? Therefore, man only given the one tool by God can only do so much for the female hunger for variety. In that sense, any man alive may be inadequate for a woman craving a large variety.

So...with that said...Should a "man" feel inadequate if a woman wants to introduce the use of toys into the relationship?

Maybe at one time...I think the answer to that was yes.

But understanding the dynamics that can be brought to the relationship for the love of a man's partner, I think the answer to that today is no.

What do you think?



And by the way Robert, I am not talking about Mr. Potato Head....or am I?

BEAUTIFUL STORY ??????
My wife was sleeping next to me... and all of a sudden I got a Facebook notification, and a woman asked me to add her. So I added her.

I accepted the friend request and sent a message asking, "Do we know each other?"
She replied: "I heard you got married but I still love you." ??

She was a friend from the past. She looked very beautiful in the picture.

I closed the chat and looked at my wife, she was sleeping soundly after her exhausting day of work.

Looking at her, I was thinking about how she feels so safe that she can sleep so comfortably in a completely new home with me.

She is far from her parents' house, where she spent 24 hours surrounded by her family. When she was upset or sad, her mother was there so she could cry in her lap. Her sister or brother would tell jokes and make her laugh. Her father would come home and bring her everything she liked and still, she placed so much trust in me.

All these thoughts came to mind, so I picked up the phone and pressed "BLOCK". I turned to her and slept next to her.

I am a man, not a child. I have sworn to be faithful to her. Then amazing thing happened

" I worked up and realised that I am still single"

I texted her at 1 AM.
"Happy Brithday"
Msg seen : No reply

Later on.
She called me at 2 Am and the call lasted for 1 hours 50 minutes.

Indeed ! True love never die but this is my wish only.