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On my way out with my friend, she is single also. We are talking about men she says intelligent men have small c*ck. T he bigger the c*ck , less IQ.

What do women prefer. IQ or size?

We are all pretty much here because we can not find a person within our own status group.
If you win the lottery do you stay or go?

Some hot Asian lady just messaged me from TN. She says it is nice to meet me. I wrote back, I want to meet you. She responds, you can meet me in Nashville TN. I said, I am in Michigan, why don't you meet me. She responds..."eat sh*t as*hole."

fun stuff

I don't have the time right n ow to relate the tale of an idiot family member who did da filthy and was Blackmailed by a Thai hooker.
I will later.
Never do anything which someone may claim is illegal.
They will definitely play the underage card.
If you are in FLA you will wind up under that Pedo bridge.
Fair warning.

Last night, I had a few webpages opened on my browser that I wanted to research in the morning. I put the computer to sleep instead of shutting down like usual. The wake sequence didn't work and I was forced to completely reboot and wait for Windows to do some recovery diagnostics.
The good thing is, I was able to recover the browser pages. After, I cleared the cache file and cookies and restart the browser. Coming to Connecting Singles and checking the new member list (before logging in) showed all new members and not only women as my normal default.

Each page shows 48 new members and there weren't many women joining.
45 men, 3 women on the first page.
44 men, 4 women on the second page.
44 men, 4 women on the third page.

It was night time in North America and I expected to see Europeans joining... that wasn't the case. Guys from Algeria, Egypt, Tunisia, Morocco, United Arab Emirates, Iraq, Kuwait were the majority of new members.

I only checked the first 3 pages, but if this statistic for the most recent 500 to 600 members is the trend, something isn't right.

1 woman for every 12 men are joining.

It wasn't long ago I blogged 'they don't return' in that, scanning the list of new women joining CS drops off sharply after the 2nd page. They come, they look around, they disappear.

Can you formulate what is happening long-term... ?

My thought is:
Unless CS can advertise in places that will bring men and a lot more women from Europe, North America, South America, Australia and Asia, their chances of survival aren't real good.

Earlier today, whilst sweeping up some dried leaves in my driveway/garage, I recalled something that had been said to me more than 12 years ago by my ex-husband (aka ‘wus’-band), which was upsetting and negatively affected our marriage relationship. Today I mused that, had those same words been said with a loving/caring tone and intent, then I would not have felt belittled or dismissed (by him) at the time.

“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words cannot harm me”, is a LIE because whilst the hurts from ‘sticks & stones’ are usually superficial and short term, the pain that words sometimes cause goes deep…even to one’s very soul…and can last for decades. When I thought about them today, I felt the disappointment (again).

I’ve noticed that, for some people, it’s really easy to use words against others in order to hurt or offend, and I’m not even talking about the popularly known ‘obscene’ ones. I try not to (at least not out loud). Even when there isn’t an intent to do so, that can still happen, so it’s not only WHAT you say, but also HOW you say it that matters in ALL relationships.

So tell me, if your person/spouse/significant other says to you, “It doesn’t matter what we discuss, the final decision is always mine”, how would you feel and what would you think?

My name is Christopher Foss and I am looking for an honest, caring, respectful, loving, kind, supportive, trustworthy relationship that could turn into marriage. I am 32 years old and I live in Lewiston, ME and was born in Sanford, ME. I have 3 siblings which 1 sibling I currently live with.

All my life I've been loved or at least I'd say more appropriately as with someone loving me as I love him. However when I divorced my husband of 28 years, I found myself loving more life so full of joys and happiness by being single. I don't need to tell anyone where I am or when I need to go home. I find my independence to decide anything I want without any restrictions and or obligations to explain what it is I want to do when I want it.

There's nothing wrong with being with someone and being loved but for me? Nope. I've been there done this and that and so, I am single perhaps for the rest of my life.

And that's what I just wanted to say.

Thank you for reading and share your story if so desired.

I can't find the blog I commented on last week referencing the number of guns sold in America versus the population and from raw facts it would appear each American had a gun. From experience of friends, workers and going to gun shows, I'd estimate one person had 10 guns while 9 didn't, making the tally (from a glance) look like everyone had a gun.

Okay, that thought passed. I was listening to a news report of Jeffrey Ferguson, a Superior court Judge in Orange County California had murdered his wife.

Get this: 47 weapons and more than 26,000 rounds of ammunition were recovered during a search of his home, including the pistol used in the shooting. Authorities said the weapons were legally owned. A rifle registered in his name is not accounted for.

72 year old Ferguson was arrested last week. He was released a day later on $1 million bail and set to be arraigned on September first.

That 'shoots a hole' in the statement that each American owns a gun.



A rifle registered in his name is not accounted for, according to the district attorney's office.




Where do you think he stashed the rifle?

September 5 " By releasing resentment and mistrust, she will automatically begin getting more of what she wants and also enjoy expressing her true and loving self."