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I am absolutely shocked by the number of people on this website who simply see nothing wrong in the way they go about interacting or their motivations.

I am trained to read people, to know of intentions based on a single message, a greeting.

I know a lot of people find themselves on these types of websites unsure of why they are single - then again a good portion of people know exactly why: "I'm too busy to try in the real world." "My career intimidates men." "My extensive relationships with female friends leaves women unsure."

My advice to all of you, stop making excuses, from what I've seen none of those are liable.

Pathetic.

If you ARE ready to change your love life, dating interactions, or social productivity please, stop by my page, message me, and lets figure this out for you.

Are you single or taken

For me a big yes. As a believer may I greet everyone a very Merry Christmas and peace to all as well.

What a fitting time to celebrate the birth of our Lord Jesus, who's teachings are all about being good.

I do know that Atheism (disbelief or lack of belief on the existence of God) and Agnosticism (the existence of God is unknown or unknowable) are also part of humanity. I am not here to disrespect the belief or non thereof of everyone but to share mine and why I do.


I do wish that we can all share our opinions on this topic in a civil and mature way. I am lucky I live in a country that protects this right, the right to believe or not believe. In your country, do you have a choice?

Thank you all for reading and or sharing your opinions if you do.


If you have doubts, please read the two books written by1. Dr. Brian Weiss, Many Lives Many Masters; and Dr. Eben Alexander, Proof of heaven. That's if you are in search for knowledge and have an open mind..

NOTE: FOR THOSE WHO BELIEVE. EXPLANATION ISN'T NEEDED AND THOSE WHO DON'T BELIEVE, EXPLANATION IS IMPOSSIBLE.

And that is that - South Africa has an impressive 2000 identified spiders, and in the warmer summer months, chances are good that you will encounter some of them.

Dangerous Spiders of South Africa



Of the 2000 this is the one I always try and avoid


Button Spider: This is probably the most well-known South African spider, identified by the red hourglass on its round, black abdomen. Button spiders are found all over South Africa, and they usually reside in quiet, dark places. They rarely wander into houses, and most bites occur when the spider are disturbed in its hiding place.

Button spiders have neurotoxic venom, which means that it attacks the central nervous system. Only female spiders have fangs large enough to pierce human skin. Bites are very painful and symptoms will appear shortly after the bite: Sweating, raised blood pressure, muscle pain and cramps, pain and weakness in the limbs, the face becomes contorted, flushed and sweaty with drooping eyelids and swollen lips. In severe cases the body will contort and shake uncontrollably. The good news is that no deaths from button spiders have been recorded in the last 50 years.




I had a 'Tame' one of these baboon spiders when young.
Baboon spiders are generally not poisonous, even though they can inflict a very painful bite.
However, there are one species of baboon spider found in the Western Cape, Harpactira lightfooti, which has neurotoxic venom (similar to the black widow), causing severe symptoms such as pain, shock, vomiting, paleness and difficulty walking.

1. They are extremely faithful. Once they decide that they love you, they’ll stick with you through thick and thin.
2. They have very little body hair which means that their skin is outstandingly soft and smooth…a real turn-on.
3. They are always happy and smiling.
4. They are always responsive and loving.
5. They want to be treated like a woman not as an “equal.”
6. They enjoy cooking and do not expect their husbands to help them.
7. They don’t care about name brand clothing or expensive restaurants
8. They choose a partner by what he is like inside, not by how much money he has or how handsome he is.

Cool..

Taken from White Author's article which lives Indonesia

Have any of you guys dated a girl with stretchmarks, particularly on the stomach? Does it bother you, or it doesnt matter?
Please let me know.

To find a woman / man. U still looking at profiles by the search buttom? I remb in the beginning at cs thats all i did. And after a while i got a pretty painful neck and heavy lids. lol
Than by a coinsedence i found blogs.
Not claiming the lids dont get heavy at times still, but its different and better.

Anyw. I've become so lazy in my search duty's (im still here also ain't i )
that now i spend 94% blogging, 3% mailwriting with ppl i know,
1% looking if forums have anything better to offer (i usually return home within 5min) and the last 2% searching.

Well, if u're like me u hope for blogs and the nice ppl here to be the solution to all your needs! Question is, are we deluding yourselves a bit perhaps. Do we need to encourege each other to get searching abit more? Alternatively get started on the pairing up business. Maybe we can make a deal that averybody at blogs can without further delay visit each other at will with no heavy expectations. Hehe, je im a dreamer.

So here are the bloggers i want to visit:
Itchy, parti, tango, coffy, aswina, 10k, jana, swissy, oly, s-tan.
Also the new blogger from belarus, whats her name again? Lilja or sth. I'd open the door for her and pour the whitewine to make her feel like a woman. lol

I have a ticket to south africa johannesburg in mid december. I'll stay almost 3 weeks with Tango. We have spoken several months now (all the time since i met her at saryas party).

We may be the ones for each other, but we dont know til we met.
So whats the difficulties there u think? One must move.
Who can break up and move to fit in the other country without missing nothing from home. I think i can do it but i dont know what to start doing in an african country like that with no education. I will miss the sea (johannesburg, inland), must admit that. Perhaps the norwegian woods also.

But as i say; meeting we all should do more! And maybe abit more searching, and a tip: start closest to home and search outwords. Not like i did. I started in the other end and now that i got attached to ppl its harder to make worlds unite then if i'd find her in scandinavia or atleast europe.



One last thing: to say that u dont meet real ppl here and have opportunetys i strongly disagree on. Maybe i have been lucky, but listen up: ive been at cs since march. I have only met one person in real life: Lets get our finger out of the hole and get moving soon. We only live twice, tops. SNAPP and its over! Ok?

So find the one YOU wanna visit soon!
Thats a direct order from Major Tom.

Some people count their blessings based on material wealth. I guess there is nothing wrong with that really.

For me, I count my blessings with my health (very active at 67, still do 100 push up a day), but most especially the love of my children, and my friends.

I have decided to go back and live permanently in California as I am now fully retired.

I will be very close to all my children and grandchildren and live very modestly and simply. Of course, I still hope to travel the world as I am accustomed to and just smell the roses and enjoy nature which I love very much.

My youngest daughter offered to drive with me and I am more than thrilled with this adventure.

We are leaving today, it takes at least two days before we get back home. I will not be able to baby sit this blog but thanks all for your read and or comment if any.



This was taken in Utah at the salt basin.

On top of the mountain covered with salt.





My poor X5 loaded up to the ying yeng.


My addiction, vegetables.
Last week at the Bay Area's Farrners' market. June 12, 2018



At the corner suite of my favorite place Winstar 19th floor by the North Tower, October 2018

today in Oakland airport, my first time to use it, and quite stressed free. I normally fly through San Francisco, because of Delta and United but boy how easy and less crowded Oakland is. Jan. 20, 2019

And that's the Pacific Ocean behind me through the window.
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Taken today 7/20/22

Jesus had no servants, yet they called Him Master. He had no

degree, yet they called Him Teacher. Had no medicines, yet they

called Him Healer. Had no army, yet Kings feared Him. He won no

military battles, yet He conquered the world. He committed no

crime, yet they crucified Him. He was buried in a tomb, but yet He

lives today. "Amazing"



*P.S. Some people claim that Jesus survived the crucifixion and his tomb is in Kashmyr, what do you think about it?

Or a perfectly logical safeguard for women

In a new development, the man not only has the restrictions mentioned below, but the court has lifted the ban on naming him, link below to news item.



Under a new law passed in the UK last year, a man in his 40's has to tell the police 24 hours in advance if he plans to have sex with someone, he also has to provide them the pin number for his phone or face 5 years in jail The unnamed man has an interest in sado-masochistic sex (which by the way my auto correct wants to change to SODA-masochistic ) and was accused of rape, however even after a retrial he was found not guilty, we will probably never know what the police know, or even think they know, about this man but surely there's a human rights issue here, after two juries found him not guilty should the police have the right to inflict this on him

Further detail on the BBC news site -



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