Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ? (61)

Aug 31, 2018 2:46 AM CSTWhy girls fall in love with wrong guys ?

Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?(Vote Below)

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Hi,
I have seen many girls falls in trap with wrong guys and never cares a guys who are sincere and honest but at last women says they want sincere and genuine guy...I don't understand this crap !!!
Can anyone explains this in detail.

Thank you handshake
Aug 31, 2018 2:57 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
Because these girls are the right girls for the wrong guys... dunno
Aug 31, 2018 3:13 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland28 Threads 1,773 Posts
Because he appears to be our “hopeful concept”..
Even if he is not “we can mould him”.... professor
Aug 31, 2018 3:16 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
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Track16online today!Track16Little Hearts Ease, Newfoundland Canada647 Threads 8,054 Posts
"Nice guys" are generally dull and more often than none, have hidden issues that make them not so nice.
Aug 31, 2018 3:35 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia493 Threads 1 Polls 34,771 Posts
Hi guys wave
Aug 31, 2018 4:32 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK4,645 Posts
The love of bad boys and related us against the world mentality. When nobody likes or trusts anybody anymore they look for a partner crime and go on some mad power quest - and I say partner when it's actually more of a master/servant relationship where women feel like they're aspirational for finding a man who treats them like crap. Aspirational narcissism - he must be top dollar if he can afford to treat me like crap, it's the mentality of aspiring rank inadequacy.
Aug 31, 2018 4:33 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
Men fall in love with wrong woman too.
Aug 31, 2018 4:35 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
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Track16online today!Track16Little Hearts Ease, Newfoundland Canada647 Threads 8,054 Posts
Mercedes_00: Men fall in love with wrong woman too.
True.
Aug 31, 2018 4:35 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
Track16: True.
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Aug 31, 2018 4:36 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
People choose what they want.
Whether it is what they need or not is irrelevant, it is what they want at that time.
Aug 31, 2018 4:47 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
Well, what do you mean by a wrong guy? I've known couples where the man beated his wife everytime, I gave shelter to one of those girls, she was black and blue all over her body.
But after a week staying over she decided to go back. Later she stabbed him, he was in the hospital for some days, and she was in jail for a month.
She became addicted on alcohol and drugs and died at 37.

What I don't understand is why go back to a man that beat you up everytime?

Sometimes such a girl finds a new partner who also beats her up. I can't understand why, is she masochistic?
Aug 31, 2018 4:49 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
PeKaatje: Well, what do you mean by a wrong guy? I've known couples where the man beated his wife everytime, I gave shelter to one of those girls, she was black and blue all over her body.
But after a week staying over she decided to go back. Later she stabbed him, he was in the hospital for some days, and she was in jail for a month.
She became addicted on alcohol and drugs and died at 37.

What I don't understand is why go back to a man that beat you up everytime?

Sometimes such a girl finds a new partner who also beats her up. I can't understand why, is she masochistic?
It is not as simple as that

It is hard to beat the cycle of abuse. It needs professional therapy and hard work.
Aug 31, 2018 4:49 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
PeKaatje: Well, what do you mean by a wrong guy? I've known couples where the man beated his wife everytime, I gave shelter to one of those girls, she was black and blue all over her body.
But after a week staying over she decided to go back. Later she stabbed him, he was in the hospital for some days, and she was in jail for a month.
She became addicted on alcohol and drugs and died at 37.

What I don't understand is why go back to a man that beat you up everytime?

Sometimes such a girl finds a new partner who also beats her up. I can't understand why, is she masochistic?
A man doesn't show you he's abusive behaviour straight off the bat.

If that was the case we wouldn't have abused woman and unless your in that situation you can wonder why but don't dare judge.
Aug 31, 2018 5:01 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
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ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK4,645 Posts
Nobody likes or trusts anybody anymore is problem for accountability, too. In times of misfortune and mistrust what women will less likely say is "it's my fault for always picking the wankers". The individual is defensive in a hostile environment and for this reason she'll never learn. Women moreso than men are controlled by perceived judgement in their environment and in the absence of trust women are more perishable than men. Man will more likely be himself even in a conflicted and suspicious place.
Aug 31, 2018 5:20 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK4,645 Posts
ChesneyChrist: Nobody likes or trusts anybody anymore is problem for accountability, too. In times of misfortune and mistrust what women will less likely say is "it's my fault for always picking the wankers". The individual is defensive in a hostile environment and for this reason she'll never learn. Women moreso than men are controlled by perceived judgement in their environment and in the absence of trust women are more perishable than men. Man will more likely be himself even in a conflicted and suspicious place.
Capitalism by itself is basically a war of all against all and men fare a little less worse emotionally in this environment where compassion, cooperation and trust take the backseat to self-importance. In a future where even friendly conversation between loved ones will be conducted at gun point it is mother and daughter who lose the most.
Aug 31, 2018 5:35 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
MsContessa: Because he appears to be our “hopeful concept”..
Even if he is not “we can mould him”....
Why do women always think they can change a man ????
Aug 31, 2018 7:34 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
Maybe they are afraid of commitment.
low self esteem.
Maybe afraid of being alone.
Maybe they think that they can change him.
They problem don't the read flags.
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Aug 31, 2018 9:27 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
I think on some subconscious level women like and need bad boys to test their womanliness ...much like men need to test their manliness by sleeping around with alot of women.
Sep 4, 2018 10:58 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
I have seen so many comments for my post. For which I feel most of them are correct but again there must be something which make them falls in to a trap. Somehow I am just looking after some other genuine reason.handshake
Sep 4, 2018 11:44 AM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
hold on ,let me try to understand

you created a poll on why girls fall in love with wrong guys
and you gave two options -dating and relationship
then you are unable to understand
I have seen many girls falls in trap with wrong guys and never cares a guys who are sincere and honest but at last women says they want sincere and genuine guy...I don't understand this crap !!!
Can anyone explains this in detail.


So, which part is unclear to you ...You cant convince girls that you`re the sincere genuine one?
Sep 4, 2018 1:16 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
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bigjb62online now!bigjb62Society Hill, South Carolina USA2 Threads 818 Posts
First we need to examine what traits women are attracted to the most. My list certainly doesn't have everything and doesn't apply to all, just most.

1. Wealth
2. Fame
3. Power
4. Strength
And to a lesser degree.
5. Physical beauty
6. The gift of gab
7. Humor
None of these traits are inherently bad, but when those traits are also part of a man who has some very negative faults. Often times women miss it because what attracted them was all they saw. Women for the most part aren't attracted to the boring worker bee type of guy.
It comes down to this. Women have a fairy tell vision of the type of guy & life they want, the problem with that is very few guys fit that description or can give them their fantasy life.
Sep 4, 2018 1:25 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland38 Threads 18,105 Posts
Who's to say it's the wrong guy? He may be the exact right guy for her dunno
Sep 4, 2018 2:31 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
truheart1941
truheart1941truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK69 Threads 1 Polls 31,406 Posts
thats easy to answer.........the only time their brains work....is when they take their knickers off......grin wave wave ...hi girlslips rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 4, 2018 2:53 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
truheart1941: thats easy to answer.........the only time their brains work....is when they take their knickers off...... ...hi girls
You have such a romantic turn of phrase , Father.
Sep 4, 2018 3:02 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA15 Threads 1 Polls 1,628 Posts
In a nut shell
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Those girls. -are whores. ~~~~


Hopefully their partner goes to jail. and then~ -- Free (morally) to do what they want with others.


It's a case of . foreseeing what is going to occur. ~. and for some reason, i believe women have a deeper sense in long foresight .
Sep 4, 2018 3:47 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
InstincThis: In a nut shell
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Those girls. -are whores. ~~~~


Hopefully their partner goes to jail. and then~ -- Free (morally) to do what they want with others.


It's a case of . foreseeing what is going to occur. ~. and for some reason, i believe women have a deeper sense in long foresight .
So if a woman falls for you, she's a whore, and you should go to jail confused
Sep 4, 2018 6:01 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
when meeting someone, you don’t know if they are wrong or right, till later then it’s to late
Sep 4, 2018 6:13 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK318 Threads 3 Polls 10,098 Posts
Packersbabe1: when meeting someone, you don’t know if they are wrong or right, till later then it’s to late
True , but it's highly unlikely you'll full in love with that person when you initially meet .
Sep 4, 2018 6:28 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
One2note: True , but it's highly unlikely you'll full in love with that person when you initially meet .


But some people don’t fall in love when they first meet, that’s like setting yourself up for a downfall, scold , count me out I’m not falling for a person time we meet
Sep 4, 2018 6:54 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA15 Threads 1 Polls 1,628 Posts
The Right Guys.-- Would imply Smart, Good Decision making .
Now.

Flip the coin.

The Wrong Guys. -- Would imply . Stupid, Bad Decision Making .

Bad behavior often leads to Criminal activity +

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Sep 4, 2018 7:38 PM CST Why girls fall in love with wrong guys ?
I just put it down to excitement , more exciting sex on a car bonnet than a 4 poster bed .
 
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