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Cat?

Heyyyyyy Angel. Have you heard anything? I know you're buddies with Cat x

Cat?

Fancy coming cycling through SA? Since I got dumped by my other fellow travellers ...

you'll have to keep your pointy bits to yourself, though.

Cat?

PG - put on your specs

And er I never thought it was!!

Cat?

This was my twitter photo for YEARS

Cat?

Can you see lions and elephants in Italy?

Well yes of course you can, in zoos everywhere. But they have elephant crossing signs in SA. That is cool.

I collect crossing signs. (Well, photos of). Ducks crossing in Devon. Alligators in Florida. Elephants in George, in the Cape.

Funny old world.

As for Italy, been there, done that, but off you go, enjoy yourselves. I'll sit vigil here.

T - they're ALL gone. Not just Cat.

PG - oh, I didn't know that. Hope because she met someone, not because of Ian's blog.

Cat?

Lucy, think we should fly there, just to check?

Cat?

You laugh, an SA friend did just tell me Chinese will be taught in schools from now on. (She's in Natal, not in the danger, quiet, zone).

Like 11 official languages wasn't enough, now Chinese.

RE: Im walking away

Women like androids?

Hmm. Let me think about this a moment.

RE: Copy and Paste? Ladies what do you think?

You've been around here 3 years and you are only now noticing copy-and-paste emails?

Anything that doesn't refer to something about my profile or pics (and I don't mean 'you have a lovely smile' ) I delete. If someone has shown real interest in something I said or blogged, I will reply.

would you, could you, change?

We all do change, though, in a relationship. Sometimes you grow away from each other and sometimes you lead each other into changes you'd never have found alone.

But yup, if you want to start the change process from the word go, it isn't going to last. If the changes don't feel right, it isn't going to last.

Compromise, different story - I find football (aka soccer) the most boring game on earth. Yet for 7 years, every winter, I bundled up in layers of clothes and went to watch boyfriend-then-hubby playing on Sunday mornings. I was a WAG! I still find football / soccer the most boring game on earth. I could hardly stop myself dancing with delight when he tore knee ligaments and was told he could never play again. Of course I looked devastated ... but in fact I did like the other WAGS, I did enjoy the social side, and they were good times. To the point where I would now go watch walking football and I would never, ever have considered that if he hadn't changed me.

RE: A supplementary element?

I genuinely have that in my profile. Drat it, nobody would ever believe that it was there before this blog.

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Angel - high fives. And bedtime for me. Night all x

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Angel, you think you could improve? But you're a peppery angel!

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K, why do you think I live in Scotland? Best. accent. ever.



Funny thing, the Scots like my accent. So we're all happy, really

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Pedal - all this, and modesty too - cor!

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Angel, the perfect guy would be one who wants me just the way I am. Exactly as I am. And I liked everything about him too and didn't want to change him by so much as a fraction.

Never gonna happen. I don't even like everything about me and I LOVE myself!

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PG, so you did. How? What changes would you make?

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pretty good, huh? (this was psychic waves from K and D)

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And once again - I already decided against! The question was, read my lips, has anyone ever changed for someone. Only Ms Witch has answered it!

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PG I don't mind posting your youtube choices and being your secretary but I need a leeeeeeeeeeeeeeeetle more to go on. Psychic ability not at its sharpest at 11 pm on a Sunday.

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Angel, then my reply to KN applies to you too and WELCOME BACK was it a good visit?

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KN that's it, although we aren't close friends, or constantly in touch, he's part of my history and I like the place he has in my life.

There HAVE been times over the years, especially before the last GF when he had just moved to the UK and stayed in my spare room until he could get himself sorted with a job and somewhere to live, when we both, independently, went through the should-we moments and both independently decided not to rock a boat that was doing just fine. That still stands.

The 'what if?' is really just because we do so like seeing each other occasionally. I don't think it would translate into anything more in-depth and I really wouldn't like to lose that liking!

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Dutch and K, fighting it out Scottish totty rules

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K - wouldn't that be nice

PG - one step at a time ...

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By the way, repeating what I said in the main part - he hasn't come pounding after me, and I'm not going to go pounding after him. There WAS a moment of thinking 'ooh, WOULDN'T it be nice, and easy, and suitable,' and that made me wonder if anyone ever had made life changes for someone.

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whoops, sorry OW, didn't mean to miss you - I am perfectly socially acceptable, me. okay, not the biggest social group, perhaps, but it's still social

PG - hey. You smoke too!!

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Yup, that was some eye-opening blog

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Haha PG come back, I was teasing you're safe. Other side of the pond, can't get safer than that!

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Butter, that's absolutely true. But the last time I quit smoking I put on a shedload of weight, and was permanently crabby (talking over a year, here) so ....

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Eks, me too, but I'm not crazy about drinkers, for example, and the smell of booze bugs me. Smoking MUST bug a non-smoker.