And I drink the Irish only in Irish coffee ... I'm loyal to home product, me. Drink Irn Bru, eat haggis during the hunting season, and never touch salads. Dangerous stuff, salad, especially when twice-washed in chlorine!
Boy, everyone knows your life and exactly how you should live it. Aren't we all full of advice? You lucky woman.
Give up the safety LDR fella. LDRs are disastrous wastes of your life and time, and nobody else here has ever had one or taken comfort in having someone out there when there's no-one at home.
Give up the night job. Work social hours and do good deeds for people in need.
Get off social websites of all kinds. You will only meet nutters there.
Change your name from Crazy to Utterly Sane And Boring. Crazy is thoroughly misleading, as though you would take the road less travelled every now and then.
There. Sorted.
I shall now take off my pious and sanctimonious hat and wish you well.
Well put. You could miss out on someone good by dashing into something too soon after a break-up, because you couldn't see them for who they are, you just see them for who they aren't. Very frustrating, too, for the woman who knows the guy is right, they are right for each other, but equally knows that he can't see it! Timing is everything.
Obvious question - no way back to her, is it gone beyond repair?
When I was in an LDR my bloke was meeting up with people, if he got the chance. Certainly trying to. I hated it, but I accepted the chances were pretty slim he would meet the perfect person right on the spot and if he did, would I resent it?
Well, yes!!! but you know what I mean. Things pan out as they're meant to. When we did split it wasn't over a third party, and the distance was definitely a factor. They can't last forever!
Crazy - LDRs can be the pits. If your fella is okay with this, and you're okay with this, it is no-one else's business. Until you put it in a blog and invite comments ...
You know how I feel, getting ready is usually the best part. Dress as if you were going to meet the love of your life. You never know, you might meet him on the way to the restaurant!
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but yup, lots of overlap. 
cheers 
Matchmakers Anonymous
There's a list on the side of the blog that says "Blogs Nav" and, near the bottom, "My Blog Admin"."Edit my blog" allows you to make changes to the blog itself, delete comments you don't like, or delete the whole thing.
Mind you, I'm on computer. No idea how to help if you are on a titchy hand-held thingy!